Thank you! It was really nice to read this :)

:sparklyheart:

I've tried posting something but I think I'm speechless. Thank you Alix, that was a nice compliment. You and everyone else can torment me by not posting names but I will find out. Ha ha ha!:)

I am not sure what defines a crush. I guess it would be different for each person.

When I say i am crushing on someone to me it means i like the interest they already showed in me or i have read or got a feel for who they are and want to get to know them better. It doesnt mean i am getting butterflies in my tummy or even hoping for something to happen. I am the type who has to be hit over the head and persued, otherwise i will just keep sitting there watching you as it takes me a long time to decide if i want to let you in.

Me; not easily understood and when I do get to know someone and start falling for them, the words don't come easily. I usually wait until they say something first and I usually don't say it back right away.

BROMANCE
 

Oh Alix,
A brocrush......I'm so touched. :-)

*hug* the bro kind, in which I will neither grab your ass nor secretly smell your hair, you're safe

In terms of your comment about not being easily understood ...... It's often the case that those who are the easiest to understand are those that are less worth trying to understand ie most of us are complex, multi-dimensional and layered and that's what gives the world it's variety.

Good morning Crushers, hope you all know what Holiday it is. It's "Name names day" that means its ok to tell who your crush is.

**** I wonder if they'll fall for that? Lol:angel:

$.02
 

not me. i'm not complex or multi-anything and the only thing "layered" about me is my hair. when i'm in balance with myself i'm ridiculously simple to understand and pretty easy to please despite more than a few attempts by more conflicted people to make things seem otherwise. it's only when i'm out of balance that people find me hard to understand. i suppose i can see the argument that being easy to understand indicates a lack of depth but it could also be argued that some people choose to UNcomplicate life and themselves in order to live from a simpler saner safer more secure place.

i find that i'm associating the word 'complicated' with 'complex' which is probably the wrong thing to do. complicated people seem intent on drama and histrionics and attention seeking to me and i find them exhausting though not always unworthy of effort or time. i'm just not willing to buy into the intensity of their worldview anymore. (i used to be) maybe being UNcomplex means i'm slow witted. not sure. there's just nothing truly that complicated about me. coffee and a decent sunrise and a walk in the park or some decent conversation and i'm content. anyone who thinks i'm hard to understand is usually too busy looking for hidden meaning or trying to read between lines that dont exist. if i tell you something, it's the truth as i understand it and that's all truth is anyway, our understanding of things. if i dont say anything it's because i dont have anything to say or dont know how to respond. if i take my time saying something it's because it's not well thought out or i'm not sure of it yet. if i keep a feeling to myself it's because it's not fair or necessary or kind or valuable in that moment. sometimes silence is the best thing a person can contribute to any situation.

Not crushing on anyone right now but the week is only half way over.. lol

Ty kindly... don't forget to save me a dance if I decide to go the the reunion!

Thank you Leigh, now my heads getting big with all this crushing. ;) hey, I guess the Holiday is working. Ha ha ha<--- evil laugh

See what you did...
 

Aww Leigh,
Thank you so much, I'm really quite delighted!
(tail wagging :-)

((( Leigh ))) la mia dolce sorellina ~ my sweet little sister, I adore you & rocky :)