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TruTexan 01-11-2014 09:05 PM

GOOOOOOOOO PATRIOTS !!!

Bèsame* 01-11-2014 10:24 PM

You know you have to have skills to play in the pouring rain. Sliding across the wet soaked field. Reaching out to grab a slippery ball. Playing in wet clothes.

Even the coaches are all covered up, writing stats under plastic.

The final score not what I'm hoping for, but a fun game to watch :)

TruTexan 01-11-2014 10:33 PM

Patriots Win Again !!! GOOO PATS!!! who dey !!

Kobi 01-12-2014 08:29 PM



Patriots and Broncos in Denver. Hm. Would have preferred the Patriots and Chargers in New England but a Brady-Manning match up is always fun.

Denver fans are awfully noisy.


ruffryder 01-17-2014 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chad (Post 878379)
Hey buddy, I will be cheering for the Broncos tomorrow! Let's have a beer and cheer on the team!

Sounds good my bro! Hope the Broncos keep winning! GO Broncos!

Leigh 01-17-2014 02:26 PM

GO SEAHAWKS GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Katniss 01-17-2014 02:58 PM

http://sas.suplitodomedia.com/articl...e-Seahawks.jpg


The game I hope to see if all goes well this weekend.......

Blade 01-17-2014 03:04 PM

FORTYNINERS ALL THE WAY

GO NINERS

Leigh 01-17-2014 03:12 PM

Goooooooooooooooo Seahawks :D

Kobi 01-17-2014 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 880414)
http://sas.suplitodomedia.com/articl...e-Seahawks.jpg


The game I hope to see if all goes well this weekend.......


I'm thinking the woman is skipping over this weekends games and heading straight to her Super Bowl prediction.

Hoping the Pats beat Denver but I'm thinking I'm going to be doing a lot of omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh. :blink:

Katniss 01-17-2014 04:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 880424)

I'm thinking the woman is skipping over this weekends games and heading straight to her Super Bowl prediction.

Hoping the Pats beat Denver but I'm thinking I'm going to be doing a lot of omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh. :blink:

Oh I am well aware of who is competing this weekend. The banner was just a quick and dirty way of letting everyone know who I wish to win this weekend so I may see them both come Super Bowl time. Pity my Colts won't be there but this was a "re-building" year for them. But I readily admit I am more a college ball kinda' gal and don't know the NFL as well as the SEC.

Katniss~~

cara 01-17-2014 05:48 PM

I don't really follow football but everyone in my hometown is going nuts today. It's kind of hard not to follow suit. :)

Go Seahawks!

firegal 01-18-2014 03:01 AM

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I AGREE............

GO SEAHAWKS!

musicman 01-18-2014 07:18 AM

Go Seahawks and Broncos !

TruTexan 01-18-2014 07:43 AM

GOOOO PATRIOTS!!! enough said. :P

TruTexan 01-18-2014 03:01 PM

Sunday Kickoff times
 
Sunday kickoff starts with Patriots V Broncos 2pm central time'

Then 49'ers V Seahawks 530pm central time.




GOOOOO PATRIOTS !!!

C0LLETTE 01-18-2014 03:14 PM

Gooooooooo anyone!!! Pass the food.

gaea 01-18-2014 04:33 PM

May the patriits prevail!!!!!

And god willing I will get to see the pats squash the 49ers in a superbowl

Jet 01-19-2014 04:42 PM

OMAHA!

GoBroncos!

__________________
Gearing up for the 49rs next!
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Kobi 01-19-2014 05:44 PM



Congrats Denver. You played well, exploited weaknesses, and kept the pressure on until the end. Well done.

Peyton Manning has done a terrific job coming back from his injury and surgery. Truly inspirational to see his versatility given his neck fusion.

And, it is thrilling to see someone like Champ Bailey finally get to a Super Bowl after 15 years of outstanding play.

As for my Patriots, you know they are not in sync when Brady is sitting alone on the bench. It is amazing they got this far given the injuries and overall questionable talent this year. Lets hope in the off season, they spend the money to keep the people they should, let go of the people they never should have signed, and delve into the free agent market for the type of talent we need.

Tommi 01-19-2014 05:49 PM

San Francisco
 
49ers. :football::football: :footballpass: :football::football:. And Broncho's

Leigh 01-19-2014 05:55 PM

GOOOOOOOOOOO SEATTLE LETS KICK SOME BUTT !!!!!!!!!!!

:hk4:

Jet 01-19-2014 06:32 PM

TruTexan, thanks for the rep. I took you for die-hard Pats fan. I think the Broncos earned their pay today. Actually, I like all 4 teams in the playoffs, but based records (and everything else), I'm behind the Broncos and 49ers. May the best teams win! Sidebar: I don't dare make bets, I've already sent Mounds bars half way across the country to by best friend who won a bet on the Auburn-Fla St game. I'd prolly end up owing someone a boatload of chocolate!

TruTexan 01-19-2014 08:53 PM

SUPER BOWL GAME:
SEATTLE AT BRONCOS
FEB 2 2014

Jet 01-19-2014 08:53 PM

WOW!
Great game between SF and Seahawks.
Great tip drill and interception at the end! Congrats Seattle!

firegal 01-19-2014 11:31 PM

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Right friggin on!

There were 7 of us and we all had Russell Wilson jerseys on!

Mine was a Xmas present:canadian:

GO SEAHAWKS,


I,m expecting more from the hawks at the next game!

nicegirl88 01-20-2014 02:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firegal (Post 881564)
Right friggin on!

There were 7 of us and we all had Russell Wilson jerseys on!

Mine was a Xmas present:canadian:

GO SEAHAWKS,


I,m expecting more from the hawks at the next game!

DT I Hope your waterbirds win, but only because I don't like the Donkeys. What can I say, I'm a Chiefs fan. :)

Sherman....come on man.

DMW 01-20-2014 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 880424)

I'm thinking the woman is skipping over this weekends games and heading straight to her Super Bowl prediction.

Hoping the Pats beat Denver but I'm thinking I'm going to be doing a lot of omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh, omg, wtf, smh. :blink:

Hey Kobi,
I do not appreciate (understand) nor do I approve of anyone addressing a woman as "woman" , when she clearly has a name.

Kobi 01-20-2014 05:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DMW (Post 881783)
Hey Kobi,
I do not appreciate (understand) nor do I approve of anyone addressing a woman as "woman" , when she clearly has a name.


Hey DMW,

I am sorry to hear it bothers you for one woman to refer to another female as a woman.

If I referred to her as a "girl" thereby infantilizing her, I would agree.

But, it is actually cool for women to recognize one another as grown up women.

BTW, I do not require your approval or any non female's approval on how to be respectful to other women. I am a feminist.

You suggesting it does not meet your approval is sexist. Women do not need your approval period.

Have a nice day.


not2shygrrl 01-20-2014 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TruTexan (Post 881512)
SUPER BOWL GAME:
SEATTLE AT BRONCOS
FEB 2 2014

I am picking Seattle for this one!! Yippieee!!

DMW 01-20-2014 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 881792)

Hey DMW,

I am sorry to hear it bothers you for one woman to refer to another female as a woman.

If I referred to her as a "girl" thereby infantilizing her, I would agree.

But, it is actually cool for women to recognize one another as grown up women.

BTW, I do not require your approval or any non female's approval on how to be respectful to other women. I am a feminist.

You suggesting it does not meet your approval is sexist. Women do not need your approval period.

Have a nice day.


Interesting. Thanks for the reply. I respectfully disagree with your mindset. However, i do understand how a woman can call another woman "woman" and that is socially acceptable among women.
I am fully aware that I don't have the perspective of a female.

I wasn't looking for your approval. Voicing my opinion on how
I find some behavior towards women to be disrespectful.

Suppose it is because there are different rules of engagement, societal norms, mores etc...for women among women and women among transmen. Makes sense. Even if it does seem patriarchical, sexist and hypocritical to me...if the behavior is between women i suppose it is acceptable behavior among women. I still disagree with that mindset.

Kobi 01-20-2014 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DMW (Post 881916)
Interesting. Thanks for the reply. I respectfully disagree with your mindset. However, i do understand how a woman can call another woman "woman" and that is socially acceptable among women.
I am fully aware that I don't have the perspective of a female.

I wasn't looking for your approval. Voicing my opinion on how
I find some behavior towards women to be disrespectful.

Suppose it is because there are different rules of engagement, societal norms, mores etc...for women among women and women among transmen. Makes sense. Even if it does seem patriarchical, sexist and hypocritical to me...if the behavior is between women i suppose it is acceptable behavior among women. I still disagree with that mindset.



DMW,

I am really having trouble following you.

Are you saying, in your mindset, calling an adult female a woman is disrespectful? And if you are, it might help if you explain from your mindset why you see this as disrespectful. Is calling an adult male a man disrespectful?

As for different rules for female-female interactions vs female-male interactions and how this is patriarchal, sexist, and hypocritical - I am totally lost.

Patriarchal refers to characteristic of something controlled by men. Sexist refers to discrimination or devaluation of women by men. Hypocritical refers to the pretense of having values, virtues, beliefs that one does not actually possess.

Are you trying to allude to something men like to call reverse sexism?



firegal 01-21-2014 01:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicegirl88 (Post 881581)
DT I Hope your waterbirds win, but only because I don't like the Donkeys. What can I say, I'm a Chiefs fan. :)

Sherman....come on man.

And where r your chiefs ms sassy pants? Lol

DMW 01-21-2014 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 881959)


DMW,

I am really having trouble following you.

Are you saying, in your mindset, calling an adult female a woman is disrespectful? And if you are, it might help if you explain from your mindset why you see this as disrespectful. Is calling an adult male a man disrespectful?

As for different rules for female-female interactions vs female-male interactions and how this is patriarchal, sexist, and hypocritical - I am totally lost.

Patriarchal refers to characteristic of something controlled by men. Sexist refers to discrimination or devaluation of women by men. Hypocritical refers to the pretense of having values, virtues, beliefs that one does not actually possess.

Are you trying to allude to something men like to call reverse sexism?



Not insinuating or alluding to reverse sexism. Reverse sexism is just another way to reinforce sexual and gender stereotypes. What I take issue with has to do with the dynamics of human relationships and how
one respects another. So, actually, my disapproval of calling someone " the woman" has nothing to do with sex or gender. Just my opinion and mindset. Context and tone are important to consider.

nicegirl88 01-21-2014 12:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firegal (Post 881975)
And where r your chiefs ms sassy pants? Lol

The Chiefs were robbed. lol We were de-Flowered, un-Bowe-d, and dis-Hali-ed. Really. :0

Kobi 01-21-2014 01:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DMW (Post 882100)
Not insinuating or alluding to reverse sexism. Reverse sexism is just another way to reinforce sexual and gender stereotypes. What I take issue with has to do with the dynamics of human relationships and how
one respects another. So, actually, my disapproval of calling someone " the woman" has nothing to do with sex or gender. Just my opinion and mindset. Context and tone are important to consider.


DMW, with all due respect, to reframe sexism and misogyny into "sexual/gender stereotypes and the dynamics of human relationships" is nothing more than an attempt to deny they even exist.

To deny that sexism and misogyny even exists is incredibly disrespectful to women. It is denying that the struggles of women in a male dominated, male controlled, male fabricated society don't exist. Your mindset seems to be saying there are no disparities in wages between men and women, it is just a mathematical error? And access to opportunities is just a motivational issue? And rape is just a difference of opinion? And domestic violence is just communicating with fists?

Given this is your mind set, it kind of explains how sexism, misogyny, objectifying women, sexual harassment of women, sexual inappropriateness, and so on can occur here and you say nothing. Nothing. Not a peep out of you.

But, a woman calls another woman a woman, and here you come, the knight in shining armor on his white steed, ready to defend her honor?

You wont say boo to someone who is male identified and insulting women, but you are ok inflicting your warped sense of honor and respect on a woman who is being respectful to another woman?

Context and tone is very important. Your context and tone is that of a condescending, privileged, sexist prick. Unfortunately, you picked the wrong woman to tangle with. I have been dealing with jackasses like you longer than you have been a jackass. I'm not intimidated by nor impressed with male ignorance or arrogance.

The saddest part of this to me? I don't know when you transitioned, but you started life as a female. You had some female socialization. You had some female experiences. And yet, you don't seem to have a clue. Just boggles my mind.

And now back to football.....


firegal 01-21-2014 02:06 PM

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I agree back to football.....Go SEAHAWKS,

I,m flying my SEAHAWKS flag loud and proud,

DMW 01-22-2014 10:57 AM

Kobi,

I actually agree on much that you have to say and don't think that I " picked the wrong woman to tangle with". I obviously, don't agree with what you have said about me personally. But, it is understandable.

I want to try and clarify a few things.

First and foremost I did not and do not deny that sexism or misogyny exist. I feel that reverse sexism is an excuse to continue unfair or unjust treatment towards women and just reinforces stereotypes based solely on an individuals gender or sex and not on one's character and abilities.

Just as reverse racism is a farce to deny what still exists.

Secondly, my reasoning for using the terms " basic human relationships" was to try and frame this into a simpler understanding of my mindset. Trying to explain or convey where i was coming from. Not to invalidate or erase sex or gender. In addition, wasn't trying to back peddle on my original feelings or statement of disapproval. I just didn't comprehend.
I do understand why you would assume, as much, based on what I have writ.

In general terms, if sex and gender are taken out of the equation referring to a woman as, " the woman" (from my perspective) no matter what sex says it ;seems caustic to me. That is my issue. Matter of fact, if coming from a biomale or a male ID'd individual, i would automatically assume it to be dismissive or disrespectful. So, most likely, I would have to have a discussion with them.

So, I have come to understand more after sometime for reflection.
When I stated context and tone need to be considered I was, in fact, thinking and considering it, as well. Trying to comprehend both perspectives. I was at work and didn't have time to continue my post. Sometimes, I feel that I shouldn't post unless I can follow up a discussion in due time. However, selfishly, I have come to more of an understanding from sharing my opinion and your responses.

If a woman calls another woman " the woman" and the relationship is that of mutual friendship and it is jovial ( good-natured) I "get it". And that is where my perspective and understanding was skewed and I took offense when, clearly, I shouldn't have.

I appreciate your replies. I am sorry for any upset or disturbance I have caused you.

And ,of course, my apologies to the members for the derail.

Go Peyton!

Jet 01-22-2014 11:11 AM

I'm hesitant to say "Go Payton or Go Broncos! I think I'll be accused of Payontism or being Broncoistic.I'll make sure that when I scream and root when TDs are made, in the privacy of my own home, I'll be politically correct about it. LOL

Kobi 01-22-2014 11:30 AM



This one of those match ups where I will be happy regardless of who wins.

Broncos have done a tremendous turn around with Manning at the helm. Even Manning seems more mature as a player and has an excellent supporting cast. I do wish they would eliminate the OMAHA from the snap count tho.

Seattle has rebuilt into an awesome team. Gritty, powerful, explosive. Fun to watch.

Just hope it is a decent day given the outdoor venue in NJ.


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DMW, we are cool. Will pm you.


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