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hpychick 05-24-2011 05:24 PM

For all who feel lost, there is a path you can take. Wishing peace, direction and hope to all who are in need.

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AtLast 05-24-2011 06:19 PM

Just saw the Oaklahoma tornado news. My thoughts, prayers, chants and positive energy along with candles go out to folks there, too. OK, this insane torando season can just stop! Scary. I hope any members in these areas are safe & sound.

Miss Scarlett 05-24-2011 07:05 PM

Lighting candles of peace, love, healing, comfort and warmth for DomnNC and his family tonight...


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In Memory of Memaw

G-d full of mercy who dwells on high
Grant perfect rest on the wings of Your Divine Presence
In the lofty heights of the holy and pure
who shine as the brightness of the heavens
to the soul of Phyllis

Who has gone to her eternal rest
as all her family and friends
pray for the elevation of her soul.
Her resting place shall be in the Garden of Eden.
Therefore, the Master of mercy will care for her
under the protection of His wings for all time
And bind her soul in the bond of everlasting life.
G-d is her inheritance and she will rest in peace
and let us say Amen.


Miss Scarlett 05-25-2011 04:42 AM

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For DomnNC and his family...
Keeping everyone in my prayers...
Holding everyone close in love and light...

Kenna 05-25-2011 06:06 AM

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Lighting candles from your Candle, Miss Scarlett.
I'm so sorry to hear the news...
May our support bring comfort...

Tommi 05-25-2011 07:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 345678)
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Lighting candles from your Candle, Miss Scarlett.
I'm so sorry to hear the news...
May our support bring comfort...

And adding Brudderly hugs. :candle: at this painful time. :candle:

DomnNC 05-25-2011 08:41 AM

Thank you all for your kind words. Memaw is in a much better place now with her beloved Billy (Papaw). She is no longer in pain and I thank God that he took her so soon after the discovery of cancer and that she did not have to suffer months or years while it made it's insidious presence known. I have no doubt where she is as she was a most wonderful mother and woman. I love you Memaw!

Again, thank you all for your kind thoughts and prayers.

Delish 05-25-2011 08:46 AM

Lighting candles for my friend John. What 1 hospital thought was a kidney stone has turned out to be a blood clot in his kidney. Both the procedure or surgery that will have to be done is VERY dangerous and him being positive makes it double.

SnackTime 05-25-2011 11:58 AM

Lighting a candle for a dear friend and her family

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Miss Scarlett 05-26-2011 04:20 AM

For DomnNC and his family...

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Holding you all very close
Sending comfort, peace, healing, love and light...

Andrew, Jr. 05-26-2011 11:39 AM


My candles and incense are burning today for all those who need peace, energy, and comfort. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Peace be with you all.

Namaste,
Andrew

princessbelle 05-26-2011 06:04 PM

For Snack's friend and all that are in need....

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Miss Scarlett 05-26-2011 09:52 PM

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Lighting a candle of peace and restful sleep for DomnNC and his family tonight...

Lifting them up in prayer and wrapping them in warm, loving, peaceful light...

Kenna 05-27-2011 12:34 AM

I am posting from my phone... can someone please light a candle for my Gramma D? ... she's a 74 year old Lady... very dear to me...that just admitted to me today that her husband has been abusing her horribly....I've known her for 25 years and today was the first I've heard he has been pushing and shoving her to the ground and this morning he nearly yanked her arm from it's socket.... I am here with her since 3pm... she refuses to leave her home and is saying she does not care if he kills her.... please light a candle for her as I try to get her away from him and safe.... my heart is shattered for her. Thank you

Tommi 05-27-2011 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 346896)
I am posting from my phone... can someone please light a candle for my Gramma D? ... she's a 74 year old Lady... very dear to me...that just admitted to me today that her husband has been abusing her horribly....I've known her for 25 years and today was the first I've heard he has been pushing and shoving her to the ground and this morning he nearly yanked her arm from it's socket.... I am here with her since 3pm... she refuses to leave her home for advice, help, and is saying she does not care if he kills her.... please light a candle for her as I try to get her away from him and safe.... my heart is shattered for her. Thank you

Sweet.., my heart goes out to her :stillheart:.http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/wp-co.../05/candle.gif
Sweet, you can call here for advice, and maybe just reassurance. Maybe he is getting worse due to some underlying pathology.

National Center on Elder Abuse Hot line.* For help resources, etc ->

Miss Scarlett 05-27-2011 04:24 AM

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Lighting my candle for Gramma D from Tommi's...

Miss Scarlett 05-27-2011 04:29 AM

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For DomnNC and his family as they lay Memaw to rest today...
Sending you all peace, strength, healing, comfort, light and love...
Holding you all very close today...

Diva 05-27-2011 05:23 AM

Candles lit for...

~One of my dearest friends who is undergoing some tests over the next few days~
~SD, EP & MiniS~
~The possibility of a new job~
~DomnNC and family~
~Those whose hearts are healing~
~Those who are writing a new chapter in their lives~

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DomnNC 05-27-2011 07:12 AM


Lighting a candle off Tommi's and Miss Scarlett's for Gramma D, may she find the strength and courage to leave for her own safety.

Spirit Dancer 05-27-2011 08:44 AM

From those before me I light for
Gramma D and Sweet
For Milana and Tommi
Domm and Family
Diva and EP
ST friend
For those who need energy
and those who are struggling with lost Faith
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miss entycing 05-27-2011 09:29 AM

Blessings and Light today, from my heart.
know that i keep candles burning, no matter where i am, or where i go.

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WolfyOne 05-27-2011 10:02 AM

Please say a prayer for a friend I have called my cousin since we're 4 years old
She was visiting her son and family in Hawaii
She was snorkeling and had some kind of freak accident from what her son said
Anyhow, she's been in ICU for a couple days now
Her son says the doc thinks she'll be breathing on her own by the weekend
I'm praying hard for her total recovery

Me, as always, keeping faith, hope and prayers within our circle of prayer

Andrew, Jr. 05-28-2011 07:25 AM

My prayers are with those who have to choose between medicine and the necessities in life.

Peace be with you all today.

Namaste,
Andrew

kannon 05-28-2011 08:39 AM

My prayers are for strength and healing during a natural disaster.

miss entycing 05-28-2011 09:03 AM

candles lit in love and light.
be well my friends.
:candle:

Spirit Dancer 05-29-2011 08:17 AM

Leaving light
for those who need it.
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JakeTulane 05-29-2011 10:19 AM

I light these candles today.. not so much that we find our way in the darkness.. however, moreso that we become more mindful of each other. We all come from different backgrounds, different experiences... different.. yet.. we are also kindred. More than likely.. any given person you may strike up a conversation with.. has gone through something you have as well. Should we not be more mindful of this? That when ... we engage... to try to understand where that person has been? You do not have to "know"... yet.. we can try.. to understand. Let these candles.. serve as a starting point.. a perpetual burning.. of striving and trying to be more mindful and understanding.


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Starbuck 05-29-2011 06:16 PM

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Lighting a candle in remembrance of B.R., who passed away last week, and for her family, may they find peace and understanding.
For Gramma D and Sweet, I pray you find peace and safety.

Andrew, Jr. 05-30-2011 09:55 AM


Today my candles, incense, and prayers are for our vets, those in the military, and the sick, poor, and needy. May God hear all our prayers.

Happy Memorial Day to all.

Andrew, Jr. 06-02-2011 05:08 PM

My prayers are for those suffering from the latest E. Coli virus in Europe. I hope the CDC and FDA come to the source of it very soon.

My thoughts & prayers are also with those affected by our weather.

Namaste,
Andrew

Lady Pamela 06-02-2011 10:25 PM

For JO, Her mom and family
 
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miss entycing 06-03-2011 05:25 AM

Blessings, Love, and Light for a beautiful weekend beginning my friends.

Also Leaving this candle for SD, Eagle, and our lil spirit.
Know that all of Y'all are held in my heart.

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Andrew, Jr. 06-03-2011 11:45 AM

My thoughts and prayers are for all of us here. They are also for the sick, poor, needy, homeless, hungry, thirsty, and hopeless.

May you all have peace.

Andrew

FeminineAllure 06-04-2011 10:54 AM

Candle Color Trivia
 
"It Is Said"

"Candles, when combined with prayer and faith, can produce miracles."

Chinese Proverb

"Better to light a candle

than to curse the darkness"

Color Believers.

The Colors of Candles have a deep meaning and there are those who know what they mean and stand behind their meaning. These people will use certain color candles to help them focus and meditate on problems in their life or in others lives.




Candle Color Definitions



Green:

Abundance, growth, money, success, wealth, physical healing, health, marriage, fertility, employment, balance, Stimulates growth, healing, financial success, good luck, new job, good harvest, nature appreciation, love.



Yellow:

Intellect, wisdom and honor, action, inspiration and creativity, studying and intelligence, concentration, memory, logic, learning, attraction, confidence, Mental powers, intellect, inspiration, concentration, retention of memory, energy, cheerfulness, sunny disposition, changes, endurance, stability and security.



Yellow strengthens the imagination and concentration in a ritual. Is used in rituals in which the trust of a person is gained or in which one wants to convince someone.



Red:

Energy, vitality, and strength, health, passion, sex, love, protection, fire, fertility, fast action, strength, potency, lust, blood, Physical love and passion, courage, warmth, energy, attraction, magnetism, desire, action, physical strength, power, willpower.

Strengthens magnetism in a ritual, creates Ram and Scorpio energies.



White:

The Balance of all colors: Spiritual enlightenment, cleansing, clairvoyance, healing, truth-seeking, purity, innocence, clarity and unity, Dawn, purification, peace, truth, protection, spirituality, General work, cleansing, repels negativity; use to bring peace, spiritual strength, truth, purity; heals emotions, and provides protection.

Note: White can be used in place of any other candle color and is suitable for any ritual.



Pink:

Devotion, love, tenderness and faith, friendship, romance, honor, spiritual healing, caring, affection, forming partnerships, peace, emotional healing, Universal love, purest form of love, love that is unconditional, spiritual love without sex connotation, raises vibrations, sensitivity, healing.

Designed to attract attention and achieve a purpose in rituals. The color of femininity, Honor, Pleasantness – enhances joyful and lively conversation.



Gold:

Enlightenment, protection, success, wealth, money, masculinity, playfulness, luck, divination, victory.



Enhances communication and attracts the power of cosmic influences; Useful in rituals which are designed to gain fortune or money



Lavender:

Mother consciousness, manifestation and selflessness, Spirituality, compassion, understanding, inspiration, make contact with Higher-Self, attract spiritual assistance, very calming.



Blue:

Communication, truth, peace, calm, loosing weight, wisdom, understanding, protection, harmony, inspiration, truth, patience, health and happiness, luck, communication, loyalty, peaceful, cooling, contentment, healing, idealism, harmony, devotion, meditation,



Orange:

Cleanses negative attitudes, situations and places, Happiness, business deals, attracting good things, success, career, goals, stimulation, attraction, power, luck, sudden changes, Warmth, energy building, enthusiasm, attracts success and prosperity, emotional healing, attracts friends, courage and ambition.



Brown:

Earth, a balanced color. Rituals for material gain, eliminates indecisiveness, furthers powers of concentration, learning, telepathy. Expands financial success, finds lost items. Material prosperity, Home, friendships, balance, animal magic, earth magic, concentration and studying, wealth, success, intuition, psychic powers and ESP. Protecting pets, Said to help find lost items.



Purple:

Use with white candle to neutralize effects of karma and ego. Ancient wisdom, the third eye, psychic powers, meditation, spirituality, success, confidence, hidden knowledge, protection, divination, All forms of expansion, expands what you already have, spiritual protection, power, wisdom, healing, recognition, enhances psychic ability, Recognition in work, contact with spirit world.



Rose:

Compassion for self and others, higher mystical powers, humor, Love, romance, opening the heart, forgiveness, compassion, healing, joy, creativity, endurance, strength, stability and security.



Peach:

restoration and rejuvenation



Violet:

Strength, Success, Idealism, psychic revelation; Ideal for rituals which are designed to secure Ambition, Independence and financial success or to establish contact with the other, spiritual world; Enhances Neptune energy.



Ivory:

(beige): neutrality, balance and harmlessness



Black:

Burning black with any other color disolves negative energies! Protection, hex-breaking, reversing, banishing, destroying evil or negativity, binding, and repelling. Also used for healing very powerful illnesses.



Silver: (Light Grey)

Victory, Stability, Mmeditation, Developing

Psychic Ability, Removal of Negative Power, Repelling Destruction,

Cancellation, Neutrality, Stalemate.

Silver is primarily associated with female deities.

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Spirit Dancer 06-04-2011 08:23 PM

For Sweet and her Gramma D
May a way be made for peace of mind and heart.
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Spirit Dancer 06-04-2011 08:25 PM

For those wavering
For the light
For those who need faith
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Tommi 06-05-2011 12:15 AM

Aural journey
 
For love. So rich, so lovely, so luxurious that only two exist into the night. Soft music, beautiful sky and her eyes.
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Turtle 06-05-2011 12:17 AM

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For Love...

Andrew, Jr. 06-05-2011 12:25 PM


My thoughts and prayers are for the lost children of the world today, including those in Japan and Haiti. It is for the sick, poor, and needy. And for the soldiers in war, and battling the war after returning home. May God hear all of our silent prayers.

Namaste,
Andrew


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Daywalker 06-05-2011 03:40 PM

Sharing a Post made in the 'Listening to Each Other' thread.



Quote:

Originally Posted by Daywalker (Post 350939)
We are strong, my Sisters and I are.


We don't break easily.
We hold face in the moments of tragic and dire.

Today, I'm gonna break a little in this
here thread and then go about my afternoon.
:tea:

I'm left wondering how it is that a child that has fought hard for 27 years and
through 3 heart transplants has now been hit with another devastation. The
Cancer they removed from her lip began to physically grow again covering
her right upper lip area/face. Yesterday they began surgery to remove all the
Cancer. I have not seen her yet, but my sister says...they removed a golf
ball sized piece of her face. And half of her lip. Today they will attempt
to reconstruct. This kid must have the strength of all of us combined to go
through all the shit she has gone through and still fight her way back.

It is disheartening to believe that a Divine Intervention of Christmas Day
that brought her a new heart for the third time and saved her life has
been attacked by Cancer. It gives me pause, like so many other young
folks who are taken to task by Life ~ that such a Lion Heart would be
handed yet one more battle that would leave her physically
marred and emotionally scarred.

I'm gonna say something that I usually do not.

It's Not Fair.

Ok, thanks for listening.

:daywalker:


...the update ~ I went across the street today to find her sitting at
her computer, munching on the bag of Bugles I brought her last week.
They removed all of the Cancer this time. They had to make a huge
hole in her face to do so. They also had to remove a part of her upper
lip. The recontruction ~ they pulled her face forward on the right, sliced her
from the corner of her eye to down below the chin area, borrow skin from
her collar bone area and patched the hole that was now back by her ear
after the pulling the rest forward. I have to say, they did a fabulous job.
She's all swollen in her face, so I called her Hootie (and the blowfish).
It hurt her to laugh, but she did it anyway.
:heartbeat:

:rose:
That's all for now, got folks coming by later...just wanted to give
Thanks in here for all the combined MoJo.

Love n Koolaid
:koolaid:

:daywalker:


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