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T D 11-03-2010 05:34 PM


Diva - cause she gave me something to think about yesterday, and I have been thinking about it..... Perhaps there is still hope, just gotta shake the negative (store it away for reference), and get on with the good stuff :thumbsup:

I'll work on that.... yes I will.


AtLast 11-03-2010 08:28 PM

My Dad. I know he is on my mind (and was) because of the mid-term elections. Although I am down about what happened yesterday, there is this part of me that remembers my Dad was very much like the people in what is being called the Heart Land that have lost jobs in huge numbers and will never see them return. Steel industry kinds of jobs, skilled labor jobs, car manufacturing jobs. Jobs that are hard but did pay well for a long time in the US that have been lost because of cheaper production costs in other countries.

My Dad wasn't educated, immigrated here, and would do any kind of work he had to make a living. He also supported labor unions back in the day because he saw child labor and sweat shops first hand. My Mom, too.

He became a business owner later in life (garbage collection), and had a good head for it, but was the kind of person that ran it out of his front pocket like so many of that generation. And he kept his word which was given with a hand shake. Honor. He'd give anyone a chance with a job and he always said that you had to pay people good wages and benefits were not a burden for an employer, it was just the right thing to do.

There were huge numbers of voters yesterday in the Heart Land that voted Obama in 2008, but did not now. Made me mad, but I also get it. How many are unemployed now, lost homes, had their retirement taken away? How many can re-train? fear was a big part of yesterday's elections.

I think my Dad would have been scared, too. The business he left behind remains in my family (my son and nephews run it today, 3 generations) and although lay offs have been avoided, how long will that be true? These are real people with real families from administrative, college educated types of positions to unskilled labor. Truck drivers, computer techs and a programmer, garbage collectors, recycling/Green workers and advisors, office workers, bookkeepers, managers, and mechanics. Real people!

Since my dad lived during the Great Depression, I think he would have done everything (as is being done) to not lay people off. But, if things don’t change soon, who knows! It would have troubled him deeply to let people go.

People like him in business do exist and I am tired of them getting lumped into the same categories as the huge mega-billion dollar corporations. Small independent businesses are not the same.

Maybe it's better my dad isn't alive. Damn, I miss him! I miss his horse sense and his honestly and reliability. And his giving a damn about people. I miss his integrity about an honest days work for an honest wage and being responsible for his obligations.

Queerasfck 11-03-2010 08:57 PM

Just waiting for Squeaks to get home. Been thinking about her allllllllllll day.

Kelt 11-03-2010 09:04 PM

Who I used to be.

I need to find that person again.

Leigh 11-03-2010 09:08 PM

A beautiful soul, and the sweetness she possesses :)

justkim 11-03-2010 09:20 PM

Have you checked in your mirror?
I believe Peter Pan found himself when he looked into the pond...
Perhaps more happy thoughts are in order...


Quote:

Originally Posted by Kelt (Post 220283)
Who I used to be.

I need to find that person again.


Tcountry 11-03-2010 09:23 PM

:vigil:Grandma (dad's mom)...At least she Finally made a decision....guess it helps when your choices are dialysis or hospice...

Soft*Silver 11-03-2010 09:31 PM

JoSchmooze cuz I know he made it back from the border ok....

Kenna 11-03-2010 10:06 PM

My nieces....
wish I could live closer to them

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 10:07 PM

someone I have known for along time, and have missed deeply, and new friends I have met and i am enjoying life

Leigh 11-03-2010 10:36 PM

The one girl who has held My heart since we began talking ~ four years later and though we've been through alot, she still has My heart

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 10:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 220355)
The one girl who has held My heart since we began talking ~ four years later and though we've been through alot, she still has My heart

and you have mine, i just wish we would of realized it along time ago

Leigh 11-03-2010 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by browneyedgirl (Post 220357)
and you have mine, i just wish we would of realized it along time ago



Things happen baby love, but we know it now and that to Me is all that matters :heartbeat:

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matthew (Post 220359)
Things happen baby love, but we know it now and that to Me is all that matters :heartbeat:

you better call me on saturday I want to hear your voice

Leigh 11-03-2010 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by browneyedgirl
you better call me on saturday I want to hear your voice


I promised that I would, and I will :)

Charming Texan 11-04-2010 01:01 PM

My friend Janet. I hope she does great at her competition this weekend....


Tcountry 11-08-2010 03:25 AM

Family and friends...peace, hope, light, and dreams! :)

sylvie 11-08-2010 04:44 AM

he is always on my mind...♥

Andrew, Jr. 11-09-2010 08:46 PM


My late sister, Jo. She understood me.

Kenna 11-09-2010 09:07 PM

My other best friend from PA and her big galoot of a doggy.... she has such a bubbly, fun spirit and we always have so much fun. We especially loved watching her galoot and my half pint wrestle and romp so hard that our laughter hurt our ribs. Her galoot nearly broke my glass dishware once by getting stuck under my dinner table. We had so much fun that night; my half pint even tried to hide his "gator" under my bed to keep the galoot from chomping on it. It was too funny to watch half pint "think about" how to hide that darn gator. Hearing my friend's belly laugh just washed away so much stress from that hard week.

I loved chatting with her today; she makes me smile and think of good times.

Wish I had a good picture of her galoot....this is as good as I can find...

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...xVCEwXJ9pp9_I=


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