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I would not date me. Nothing personal. I am already spoken for.

yes. fork yeah! i appreciate: space, motorbikes, animals, multidimensionality, insects, twisted humour, differences, being activist/advocating - for The Good Fight, baked goods, getting lost, and nature [as a language also]. the big turn on>> crazy dancing in the kitchen, talking about art, an ability to see all the way round something, and maintain a reservoir of abundant bounce-back if holding on tight for the long run. right buttons pushed, please.

Oh Hell No.

Although, I am totally cute and funny and an excellent cook and a good hearted woman who'd like be loving a good hearted man, er woman :| (however IDed?) .

But, alas, I digress; the answer - more vehemently and with passion: Oh. Hell. No.

Absolutely...not. I am quite a handful, it takes a certain kind of person to handle me. Im not that person I would most likely kill me lol

I am moody, vain, sometimes petulant and can be a bit of a prima donna .... therefore, I probably would date myself but this would be a bad thing as the "relationship" would break-up with acrimony after a few dates. :hrmph:

From a me place yes I probably would because I know me and get me....

From an 'other' place I would WANT to because I think I have a lot to offer...I love spoiling someone and being affectionate,Im funny, not too smart but can carry a conversation, I'm an excelllent cook, love critters, love chillin on the porch listening to the frogs (my special time is 7pm), I'm a home body and am very home oriented but I can be taken out in public without embarrassing you....

BUT I expect back what I give, attention, conversation, sex, understanding, same standard of living, similar levels of energy, I will make you the center of my world but it is a requirement that I be the center of yours....it can be all about you as long as you make me think its all about me :)

To me all that is pretty simple but again thats from a 'me place' and I get me most of the time....hmmm I wonder if I am available Friday night...lol

Nah...I'm just not my type. :p

Oh hellz yeah.....I would date me, I would eat my cooking, I would take me to heaven and back and show me how a Rubenesque redheaded wickedlyinnocentwildwoman should be treated and make me thank me later. Then I would kiss me deeply and ask me to marry me. I might do that in Belize, but shhhhhh....don't tell me that part.

date myself? why not? but enter into a relationship, i have to think a million times...

- physically speaking, you can't put me on display
- change moods easily
- nagger
- freakin jealous type, (as in paranoid)
- you'll be walking on eggshell
- not easy to handle
- you can never ever go out of the relationship

oh what was the question again,,,
would you date yourself?
YES, why not :)

....Bump! :D

I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me.

I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL!

I've decided I would if it were an open relationship.

Yes, because I am a caring, decent individual who tries deeply to be as honest as possible.

...and No because I can be rigid and selfish in my needs.

Hell No....too butch, would be like dating my best buddy. Not that I don't have all the good qualities I am looking for in someone though, lol.

Nope...I don't date numpties!

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Originally Posted by apretty (Post 495076)

yes and often!

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

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Originally Posted by John Shaft (Post 495084)

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

i would NOT! MYSELF would have to common sense to stop calling. xoxo

LOL....hell no! I think I am pretty wonderful and a great catch but I don't have the ability or patience to deal with me sometimes

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

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Originally Posted by ButchEire (Post 495100)

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.