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Having their life together, and flourishing is a baseline;
*chemistry and connection*
tenderness and fineness loving and expresses it freely emotionally honest but kind when they kiss me or touch me, I melt and get weak in the knees Passionate ~ a believer in senseless acts of passion in the name of love or lust sexy (yes it's high on the list) must be sex positive / tender and expressive but very naughty, edgy expressive with well developed communication skills Loves them self and their body Has a Spiritual base ~ respectful creative ~ intelligent generous of spirit *must have a sense of style and know how to dress* high emotional quotient (EQ) and lots of points if they can dance well enough to make my jaw drop These are the qualities I can't live without...... |
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I would like, "lots of points if they can dance well enough to make me want to take my clothes off with them!!!" Just sayin!!! |
Ok I'm bumping this for all those looking for love. Now I need to go back and read what I missed. :)
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Ok I'll bump this thread. If you want me to. ;)
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Not looking for a relationship, but I'm glad you bumped this thread.
Maybe a list will help me over the next few months. YSK I reserve the right to amend this from time to time. MUST-HAVES:
MUST-NOTS:
JUST ICING (because who doesn't love cake?):
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Great list!!!
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I made a list in therapy before I met the "right" someone and she had a list too. We both lived up to each others lists and I am still reeling in how well we fit.
Butch Confident in herself Take charge in the bedroom Loves kids Neat and tidy Takes pride in her appearance Good manners Proper grammar Likes food Well read Is stable financially, career wise, and emotionally Has own interests Has own friends Wants to do things apart from me Wants to do things with me High sex drive Appreciates my femmeness but is ok with me getting dirty, working on my car, etc Likes to go out at times, but also likes the quiet intimate Times Likes to cuddle Is not intimidated by my self confidence and fierceness Likes to watch me play roller derby but does not want to play herself Appreciates my independence but allows me to be weak at times Older then me Family is important |
This I got from an Oprah show and they say it works!! Sort of like a vision board. Which I need to make. :)
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Ok I'll try to explain. But I'm not an Oprah fan. I was sick at home and bored and had her on. Anyway, this is what it is. Say you want something real bad and wishing it doesn't work. What you do is get some construction paper and some used magazines and cut out what you want like a picture of a house or anything. You paste it on paper and put it somewhere where you can see it. It's all about positive energy and putting what you want out in the world. They also talked about The Love List. You put down what your looking for in a partner and then put it away. Hopefully that explained it. :)
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Femme Girly Girl
Loves being a a femme, and though clothes do not make her femme does enjoy dressing up in heels, dresses skirts etc but is just as comfortable in t shirt and shorts. BBW Preferably Must Believei In God and go to church Love all animals but doesnt have a cat as I am highly allergic Has teenagers/or has kids already raised is fine with me. At this point in my life Im not looking to raise kids Nurturing... Love taking care of her butch but not financially. Does things like cooks for me etc....Like I would do for her Employed Full Time and can Financially can hold her own Romantic and Believes In Happily Ever After no matter how many times she's been burned Identifies as Lesbian Affectionate, loving, tender, kind hearted Has old fashioned values. Like believing sex is between two people who love each other and isnt into one night stands. Has a high sex drive with a partner Is a Diva but loves the little things Loves to laugh Someone I can talk about anything and everything too Gets along with my friends Is ok with me not having family. OH IS OVER HER EX AND READY TO FIND LOVE |
Great list. Loved the last part.
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Ok Peeps, I'm in a romantic mood and feel like matchmaking. So I'll do the bump for you. :)
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That post made me smile. I'm always on the threads that would help people find love. I'm a sucker for romance. :)
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