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Serenity and freedom from the tyranny of self.

my next relationship... I Am Ready

To be able to sculpt words in such a way as to leave some breathless, have others drop to their knees and others still made to shout "Hallelujah!" upon having read them.

a nice hot washing......

what I want ???
a million bucks.. lol lol

ok ...
someone whom is
honest
mature
loyal
knows who they are
knows what they want
knowss where they are going
stable
is secure with themselves
has a job or retired
great sense of humor
has hobbies
enjoys life
is outgoing

something that actually looks like a relationship and not the first part of high who are you....in other words how about lets get past the hi My name is Alix My favorite color is....and your name....your favorite color is....

I am ready for something REAL and when we meet I believe we will eventually know if it is real right?

I would like to have dental insurance.
i miss being able to eat raw veggies.

I've found that quite a good way of finding the kind of person you want is online dating. Yes, I know, it has its downfalls, but really it's just a mixed bag like with meeting people in person. The beauty is that you get to know a lot about people (and have a good guess at whether they're suitable for you or not) just based on what they say on their profile. You don't have to waste time on entire dates screening people when a quick glance of their profile gives you a good indication of compatibility.

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Originally Posted by calibri (Post 661556)

I agree completely. I am very honest with what I am looking for in my profile. I am looking for a life partner at this stage of my life and dating is the only way I know of to possibly meet "the one". As stressful as dating can be, I also find it fun and interesting to meet bright women with such varied backgrounds and occupations.

I believe that chemistry is everything. It can't be manufactured or wished to happen; it either is there or not. Unfortunately, there is no way to know if it is present or not, without meeting someone in person!

There really, for me, is no way to know without that meeting. Once you know if there is chemistry, you still have to find out if values, beliefs, outlook on life matches or meshes with yours. That takes a lot more time and energy but I feel it is totally worth it unless one wants to spend the rest of ones life alone.

I do not.

I want someone who wants a real relationship; no games or excuses ~ someone genuine who will love me for me and actually is willing to take the time to create a long lasting relationship ~ I'm ready, are you? :)

I want total
Honesty
Loyalty
Trust
Communication

I just want a honeymoon! Lol

hands
kisses
skin
a cave under the covers away from the world
love in a cocoon
protection
devotion

I want the kind of love my parents had for each other...their nearly 50 year marriage had its challenges but through good times and bad (actually through everything contained in wedding vows) they remained steadfast, deeply devoted to each other, were best friends, talked endlessly with each other and shared a beautiful, loving companionship until the day Mom passed away...

I want to stop searching...

I want a wintery christmas

I want someone that truly knows me. Someone that through my smile can see the pain and tears I'm hiding. I want someone that makes my worries go away just being near me. I want someone who not only is excited to teach me how to fix things but has the patience to let me do it myself while guiding me.

I want someone who will make me feel like I'm the only one for them like i will them. I want someone who isn't afraid to show their desire. If you're thinking damn you look sexy then say it. If you're thinking damn i want you right now then grab me pushing me up against the wall or over the table and show me how bad you want me.

Someday I would like to find a partner that excepts me for what and who I am ....someone that doesn't say "oh your perfect now change" !Someone I can get to know the true "being" of them and they get to know the true "being" of me. Someone who together we can have conversations with and pillow talk and not feel like we have to silence ourselves. Someone who we together can play and have fun and support one another and feel safe with. Someone that together through the thick and thin of life supports each other .... cry's...feels...and learns together.Someone that we together can grow old and live a beautiful life with..... this is a tall order but it's what I am looking for ...not settling anymore.

I want a dream to come true. Just one would be okay. I only have the two so it won't be that difficult.