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LoyalWolfsBlade 07-27-2012 03:46 AM

I miss being understood of being able to communicate my thoughts and feelings clear enough that there is no doubt behind the intent and meaning. So that means I miss the old way of communicating and can not wait until I miss this 21st Century text based society.

JustJo 07-27-2012 06:59 AM

As soon as my son gets home....not a freaking thing! :cheesy:

jac 07-27-2012 07:55 AM

What I miss...

Saturday morning cartoons while mom makes breakfast... The old classic cartoons. Bugs Bunny, Tom and Jerry, Porky Pig... oh and watching the old school Mickey Mouse Club!! I miss Leave it to Beaver, Gilligan's Island, and I could go on for days but I think you get the idea... I miss my carefree childhood weekends. I miss making the neighborhhood club and having election day and since I was always the youngest I never got to be President or Vice President... I was either Secretary or Treasurer. Hmmmm, maybe I don't miss that so much. I miss visits to the local public pool with friends... but I sure as heck don't miss those gawd-awful sun burns where mom would have to call the burn unit. I miss the swamp cooler pointing down on my bed (cause I slept on the top bunk) in those hot Arizona nights. I miss playing in dust storms and tumble weed chasing... and I miss flagging down Albert the ice-cream man (Fat Albert as he was referred to) and I miss the produce truck and milk man swinging through the neoghbirhood. Hell, I miss watching the cartoon/show Fat Albert and the Cosby Kids. I miss riding bikes till time for baths... and playing jacks with my three older sibblings while we each took a turn getting our showers. I miss sitting around the TV with bags of homemade popcorn and watching Almost Anything Goes... THAT was a fun show!! I miss the Love Boat and Fantasy Island too..........

Yeh, I miss my youth, my three older siblings, my mom making sure we always had even though we were dirt poor and all the simple fun times we made into super grand memories!! :)

Mr Nice Guy 07-28-2012 05:34 PM

I really miss kissing. Apparently kissing is on my mind. Damn that tv show!! :)

Rockinonahigh 07-28-2012 07:09 PM

Sitting on the back porch while my gramps told stories of the old country(Italy) the customs along with the history behind them.Cold watermellon at the pick nick we would have as a family thing.Hearing my grams voice,smelling her rose water perfume...cant even find it anymore.

Blade 07-29-2012 10:35 AM

praying together

Mr Nice Guy 07-29-2012 11:13 AM

The happiness that comes when someone really loves you. :)

tazz 07-29-2012 11:15 AM

i miss...

...being in a relationship
...enabling myself to fall in love again

gotoseagrl 07-29-2012 11:25 AM

good dreams
cotton candy
library
seashells
realness you can touch

KayCee 07-29-2012 12:14 PM

...home. That's all.

Canela 07-29-2012 12:22 PM

What do I miss?


I miss how when a butch/TG/FtM partner wanted you, knew you were the one, there was nothing he wouldn't do to make it happen.

I miss being loved in a love that says, "she's mine and I'm hers and that's all there is to it"...ironclad.

I miss the kind of guy (butch/TG/FtM) that thinks and acts that way.


That's what I miss...


(Am I asking for too much?)

rockstar lover 07-29-2012 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canela (Post 623058)
What do I miss?


I miss how when a butch/TG/FtM partner wanted you, knew you were the one, there was nothing he wouldn't do to make it happen.

I miss being loved in a love that says, "she's mine and I'm hers and that's all there is to it"...ironclad.

I miss the kind of guy (butch/TG/FtM) that thinks and acts that way.


That's what I miss...


(Am I asking for too much?)



No you're not asking for too much. I miss those same things too (but with a femme). That's how it should be like and we should never settle for anything less than we deserve.

Canela 07-29-2012 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockstar lover (Post 623062)
No you're not asking for too much. I miss those same things too (but with a femme). That's how it should be like and we should never settle for anything less than we deserve.

Thank you RockStar Lover, I just wasn't sure anymore...I crave the boldness in that dynamic.

rockstar lover 07-29-2012 12:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canela (Post 623066)
Thank you RockStar Lover, I just wasn't sure anymore...I crave the boldness in that dynamic.


Me too! I've only felt it a couple times in my life. And I want to feel that again. I'm kind of a hopeless (or hopefull) romantic :)

~ocean 07-29-2012 02:01 PM

I MISS MY POOL :((((((((( hasnt been pool weather in several days ~

Syr 07-29-2012 04:14 PM

I miss my sanity..........I think.

girl_dee 07-29-2012 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Syr (Post 623182)
I miss my sanity..........I think.

i miss your sanity too. i think. Sorry about the potholes in the driveway when i was peeling out in your new truck. :blink:

Canela 07-29-2012 07:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockstar lover (Post 623069)
Me too! I've only felt it a couple times in my life. And I want to feel that again. I'm kind of a hopeless (or hopefull) romantic :)

I sure wish you all the very best in finding that special femme that meets that for you!

rockstar lover 07-29-2012 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canela (Post 623275)
I sure wish you all the very best in finding that special femme that meets that for you!

Thank you. I hope you find your special one as well :)

Canela 07-29-2012 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockstar lover (Post 623343)
Thank you. I hope you find your special one as well :)

I thought I had, but I was wrong. Maybe one day....I will not lose hope...that's for sure.

rockstar lover 07-29-2012 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canela (Post 623344)
I thought I had, but I was wrong. Maybe one day....I will not lose hope...that's for sure.


Good...don`t lose hope. Stay a hopefull romantic :)

clay 07-29-2012 09:18 PM

my lady.....:(!

RockOn 07-29-2012 09:29 PM

Simple kindness and respect from someone who honestly cares for me and is not running their menagerie of games on me.

Oh my, the different personalities of an active alcoholic makes me dizzy. Easy to spot because I did the same things before I got into recovery. After a while, even the innocents caught on to my patterns, my need to dodge and run. And I thought I had everyone fooled but the joke was on me. Thankful I made the decision to get the help I needed. I do not miss those old days. :)

Semantics 07-29-2012 09:34 PM

Someone to read aloud to me.


It's been a long time.

SleepyButch 07-29-2012 09:53 PM

her voice...

honeynroses 08-08-2012 09:33 PM

Comfort and cuddling.

lusciouskiwi 08-08-2012 09:40 PM

skin

having someone to spoil and be spoilt in return

mplsgrrl 08-08-2012 10:35 PM

I miss.... her.

Mar 08-08-2012 11:15 PM

I Miss..
 
Being called Daddy and knowing it came from a place deep inside that only I could reach.

Seeing my future and knowing it would all make sense soon.

Having the chance to actually get there.

Being understood.

This one is random...cookies..craving alert :cookielove:

SugarFemme 08-08-2012 11:33 PM

I miss my life being Status Quo. There are so many things in a state of flux in my life right now. I miss the security of Status Quo. But sometimes, only in chaos can there be change.

Soft*Silver 08-09-2012 12:50 AM

I miss being able to eat a huge meal....anything more than a palm size portion still brings me misery

I miss seeing kids be innocent, and not pornographic and not rude and not self absorbed toxically

I miss my daughter..long story...but maybe I miss what I thought it would be like to have a daughter

I miss my newfs that have passed on

I miss surprises in the mail

I miss my insomnia...lol...NOT

jac 08-09-2012 03:44 AM

The routines we start falling into, like...

ice-cream in the park while the General plays
Cuddles and laughter till we drift off to sleep
Mealtime around the table... (that breakfast was great!)

*Anya* 08-09-2012 03:52 AM

It's almost 3:00 AM. Have been awake since 1:30. Work in a few hours.

I miss...

everything.

ruby_woo 08-09-2012 10:43 AM

I miss knowing that someone cares about me and thinks about me during the day.

I miss the giddy excitement you feel when beginning a new relationship, wanting to take in as much of this person as you can.

I miss touching.

And because I live in expensive as hell Vancouver, I miss splitting the rent with someone. Over $1000/month for a one bedroom sucks for one person lol.

clay 08-09-2012 12:29 PM

I miss.......riding... carefree...wind in my hair...exploring new places with the Women On Wheels (r) group....our group..Lowcountry B.R.A.T.S. (Babes Riding Around the South)....:).
R.I.P. Cathy! I love you!!!...:candle:

Metro 08-09-2012 01:09 PM

The "grace notes" that accompany the melody of a longterm relationship.

jac 08-13-2012 07:16 AM

What do I miss...

Having my kids young and at home. I really do miss cooking, cleaning and doing laundry for them all, and doing the mom thing... fun fun fun...

cinnamongrrl 08-13-2012 03:00 PM

I miss......hiking.....it feels like its been forever.....

I miss.....my dog....and shes been gone nearly 3 years now......

I miss.....my girls being little and needing to hold my hand to walk down the street.....

I miss....having a grandmother....they are really gods gift to children....

LoyalWolfsBlade 08-13-2012 03:24 PM

My confidence...

My energy.....

My routine...

My words that express the true Me.....

gotoseagrl 08-13-2012 03:58 PM

fall weather. 104+ degrees every day of the week with no breaks not even into the night time isn't cutting it.
the 80s. a time when i didn't have to keep up with cell phones, text messages, unknown number calls, dying batteries, computers, facebook, and so many times, dates, deadlines & numbers. :seeingstars: less is definitely more.


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