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Meals maybe on the weekends or special occassions. .Would rather buy the land so I owned it.Have my own place to get away. Could charge a fee like a gated community to pay for security. |
Not long ago I was surfing the web for places in general for sale,I found a 17 acer castle on the arkansaw river,its an island into it self.I thought,yeah..we could do that.Its only about $17 million bucks and some lose change.
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Background in Security and Law Enforcement. Desk job these days.
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Oh yeah need somwhere in the community to go fishing too.
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Now see you're talking right up my alley and you and I can do some woodworking.... |
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I could build a great big bbq pit and grill some great meat for non-vegetarians on special occasions. Bet Corky would help me with all that cooking. Corky has exceptional cooking talents. That type atmosphere creates a terrific social. Ami and Corkey, you both must move to the compound area, please. I say area because I would like to buy about 5 acres up against compound land.I enjoy people but not all the time. I need a hidey-hole a little away from the main. Otherwise, I would get cranky. Also, can help others with woodworking, painting, caulking, landscaping - most anything . And my chainsaw will do well when we need to clear off some of the land.
When can be get started? :) |
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Don't think of it as being crabby think of it more in light of playing the devil's advocate!! :) Quote:
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I think this would be awesome. I used to visit friends that had a communal farm south of Memphis years ago. I loved the energy.
I agree with what many have said about boundaries, private space, setting up leadership. What I can contribute to the community: I'm a mechanic. I can do plumbing. I can prepare all our taxes. I cook and bake. I can do healing work and massage and Reiki. I can paint and do framing/building with guidance. I do not like to do yard work or gardening, so that would have to be someone else's gig. So when are we moving? |
I'd love to visit but I wouldn't want to live there. I like being immersed in a world that isn't planned.
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I think this would be so fantabulous! i can cook, bake, crochet, um.. help with the garden, babysit, um.. i have been told i give good hugs... um.. ooo i can fish and i do not even mind baiting my own hook!.
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I'd be happy so long as we could raise alpacas....and go hiking a lot. I'm simple...
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I've actually thought of this myself. The "compound" would be in the mountains of Ruidoso, NM though lol And everyone would have their own space...house/cottage...with 1 large building for gatherings. Figured a couple of hundred acres in the mountains would do the trick.
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The amish and menonite make it work. We could even set up windmills or if near water use it for our power supply. Then there is solar.
Looks like we have mutiple talented people in the community. Oh well never hurts to dream never know when it might become a reality. |
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Yes the reality of this is definatly a can do,I keep hopeing it will one day happen. |
Count us in!!!
Would you want to live on a BFP compound?
That would be awesome.... Ginger and I have talked about communal living. of course there would have to be "private" space for everyone, and some form of leadership but i think it should be very cool What skills can you contribute? I can cook, (executive chef experience, food inventory management, menus, sanitation certifications etc. nutrition) i can do yard work, i also have farm experience, especially with horses. (horse whisperer)i am also a skilled dog trainer. i can also sweep chimneys, do carpentry, drywall, masonry, etc... oh and provide a little eye candy working up a sweat in my A-shirt... heh Would you want to do community meals every night in the "Mess Hall"? i think the mess hall would be the best way to do at least one big meal a day, have food available to all and folks could have their own kitchens as well. Would people still need to pay something into the system like rent, even if it was only nominal? i think there should be a small fee like dues just to help with the upkeep as you would not want all that to come out of your pocket, but i think much of it could be traded out in work for the community: gardening, yard work, kp duty, carpentry and general maintenance. Do you think you'd get tired of living with family all year long? Never. we would be free to come and go as we please. it would be like a home base... What pro's and con's can you see to this idea? the only con that i can foresee is making sure that everyone has jobs, or some form of income in the area. True communal living requires a lot of work, cooperation, strong fair leadership and a buy-in from all. BUT i think it could definitely work... What input do you have? i think i could definitely bring some ideas on the layout and how to design a kitchen/messhall/dining facility. i was a food service professional for many years. Apoc and I can rock some Food and Beverage events and shit..... oh and i can definitely provide Entertainment... |
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It's wayyyy too hot there for me...and mah plants
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I do not think the NM would be Daywalker friendly. :| Mountains in the California, very DW Friendly. :cannabis: :daywalker: |
Count me in!!!!
I can sew, clean, hostess lingerie parties, work in garden and make awesome martinis. I will even create a signature BFP martini. :) Duchess |
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Sounds great. But not in the U.S. for me. I'll be staying right here 'til the end ;)
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Looks at Duchess I have a compound right outside of Atlanta maybe you can practice here (lol) Come show me your skills (sew,clean,lingerie parties and martinis) and whatever else you wanna throw in. (lol)
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Reading this thread prompted me to think about the reality of a large group of people of different ages living together. I first posted in this thread, October 2011 and must admit my thoughts are a little different, a year later (and a year older).
On the face of it, it is a wonderful idea and hopefully, not just a pipe dream. We are a diverse group of people, of not only identities but culture, backgrounds, education, employment and physical abilities (not to mention personalities!) Currently, we do have a lot of Planet folks with physical disabilities (and perhaps also emotional). To make a dream of communal living a reality, all of these issues would need to be considered. Boomers never think we will age. I didn't. In my mind, I would always be 25. Somehow, that did not happen! I like what one of the articles below called it: the Peter Pan Syndrome! Would we have levels of care to try to keep aging LGBTQ folks living independently as long as possible? Would we ensure that all environments would accommodate those that use canes/wheelchairs and other adaptive devices? We will continue to age, whether we want to or not or regardless if we like it or not! Darn it! Some facts on costs, which may be even higher than when the Healthsense white paper was written: 30 million seniors living independently in their homes: Cost effective 11,000 attending or receiving Adult Day/Home Health Care: 20K per year 21,000 in Independent Living Facilities Facilities: 20K to 30K per year 2,240 in Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRC’s) $32K/year 33,000 in Assisted Living facilities 30K per year 17,000 in Skilled Nursing/Memory Care Facilities $74K/year 1. Seniors’ Desire: Live as independently as possible for as long as possible 2. Cost effective alternatives to expensive SNF’s "According to a new survey from the Hartford and the MIT AgeLab, half of boomers plan to stay in their current home as they age; however most have not made a plan to make their home more usable as physical abilities change. The Hartford survey revealed that as far as adults ages 46-65, are concerned, 77% have talked to their spouse or partner about future housing needs but only 29% have made a plan, and 96% of those surveyed were aware of changes they could make to their current home to make it more livable as they age, but only 26% have made such changes. That suggests too many of us are living in what some experts have dubbed Peter Pan housing - homes designed for people who will never get old. I’m the first to admit that baby boomers actually don’t think we will get old." http://www.healthsense.com/phocadown...ate/hs_aip.pdf http://www.purdue.edu/retirees/docs/SeniorLiving.pdf http://www.retiredbrains.com/Home/Se...e/default.aspx |
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i like the gardening as long as a lawn tractor is involved! |
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when I sell the farm and semi-retire to write my book I'd like to come park my RV summers up by you guys but once that cold starts up I'm history! lol Just make sure all the people that want to come also know they have to work at stewarding the land. Few people know whats really involved in taking care of rural property especially as you move closer towards sustainability. As you know its a day to day that has to be done no matter how sick or tired you are. |
Don't sell the farm LOL
Hey i use to live in a RV and it was hell. I am glad to have finally purchased my own little farm.
Anyway i have a small 6 acre farm surrounded by mostly large amish and mennonite farms in central Pa along the appalchia Mountains. I am seeking someone who is rough and ready and able to live rustically. That means i have chamber pots and outhouses and barns and no indoor plumbing except for a hand pump in the basement which pumps springwater yr round. I think an older FTM might really enjoy sharing this place with me.. Oh yea i am in my late 50's and caregiving my 89 yr old mom here. They too should be older and respectful of the local amish and mennonites. I happen to be a celibate and single for the last 14 yrs so i am hoping to find the same. Oh i can't deal with a couple as that dynamic is too much for me and mom. Right now we sleep in the livingroom as mom can't make it up the steps and the wood heater in the livingroom needs to be filled every few hours all winter long. Oh i am a 14 yr post op MTF living mostly androgynously as most who don't know me think i am a FTM which suits me fine.. PS: No smokers or drugs or lazy people :) |
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Ummmm....chickens! I can feed the chickens 'n stuff. Okay, fine. The rest of the animals too. But especially the chickies. It strengthens my rock skipping wrist. No slaughtering though. My gramps had a small working farm when I was a munchkin and I saw them slaughter some of the animals and I just never looked at him the same way after that. :( |
What about my 2 little boys, though? They can pull weeds or pick blueberries. lol. They're pretty well behaved. I don't know what I can do on a compound because my skills are mostly office based. I did have a fabulous garden this year but I'm no expert. I think Gemme and I are pretty much in the same skill set. I'm willing to learn though. I can give manicures. Hello, femmes...you need manicures.
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