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Countyfem 02-27-2012 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by WomenMoveMe (Post 536898)
Not sure why, but every time I visit this thread, I am reminded of this song. Figured I might as well post it:


Love KD! and to all you wonderful big butches you rock just by being you

clay 02-27-2012 10:20 AM

Thank all you lovely femmes who love and appreciate a Big Butch!!! Makes ME "swoon"...umm do butches "swoon"...grin...maybe like go....thuddddddd....anyway either way, makes me feel special!!! Hugs to you all....love n kisses to all of you....Clay

istolurboxers38 03-22-2012 11:34 AM

To be honest It shouldnt be a matter of size except the size of your heart and the personality of the person on the inside. Being big and fluffy makes you just more to love and if you have the personality it makes it so much better. (f) to all the big and fluffy butches

Miss Scarlett 03-22-2012 11:52 AM

That you do Honey and it's that amazing heart of yours that got my attention...and you're wonderful to cuddle with too!!! i am one very lucky femme indeed!!!

i love my Sexy Silver Butch!!!



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Originally Posted by claybaby (Post 520863)
Aww, smouldering...here I am...blushing...again..you ladies are so sweet! Thanks so much! Yes, I do write right from my heart!!
And ANY DAY/TIME is perfect for cuddling with a gorgeous femme....


Femmadian 05-14-2014 12:43 PM

Reviving this thread because... well, big butches...

What I love about big butches in particular:
-their presence (amplified to the Nth power)
-thick fingers :sunglass:
-that soft, warm belly to cuddle up to
-they just feel solid
-wide hips and the sexy walk that comes with it
-more to grab onto ;-)
-that sweet spot to lay my head where their chest, shoulder, and big, butch arm meet
-play-wrestling in bed with them... winning is fun but then, so is losing...
-not having to worry if I'm going to break them!
-feeling the full weight of them on top of me... or draped across me after certain activities :cheer:
-the thickness of their thighs... it feels decadent to have them tangled up in/between mine
-wrapping my arms around them and pulling them closer (it feels great to have my arms totally full with a big, handsome butch and not be left wanting!)
-big, butch butt...

I like butches of all sizes, shapes, and stripes, but a big butch activates a certain primal, animal lust in me that I just can't deny. Thank Maude for big butches! :awww: :cheer: :heartbeat:

starryeyes 05-14-2014 02:32 PM

Big Butches=YUM!!! <3

CherylNYC 05-14-2014 06:49 PM

Ayup. I love big, strong butches.

Mel C. 05-14-2014 06:57 PM

It is refreshing to hear that there are femmes who appreciate us.

SaltyButch 05-14-2014 07:52 PM

I agree it's nice to know that there are women out there who appreciate us stocky fella's....I spent many years trying to lose weight so that someone might pay me attention, only to find out that some do like a little meat on the bones. All I can say is thank you for accepting me because it took me a long time to accept myself....and I finally do.

Leigh 05-14-2014 08:18 PM

As a BBW femme I know it seems like those of is with extra meat on our bones are invisible or something but it's not true - I love big butches, being able to snuggle upto them and the way they move in the world simply amazes me. Each and every one of you are appreciated, please never forget that :-)

CherylNYC 05-14-2014 08:41 PM

I recently had some VERY expensive work done on the suspension for my street bike. I matter-of-factly told the owner and technicians, "I'm 51 years old, and I know what I like. I like 'em BIG. My passengers will likely outweigh me by double.", I said. This was not a normal request, so I continued on to make sure I was fully understood. "I need a rear shock with a remote pre-load adjuster that will accommodate a passenger that's significantly larger than me. Because I like 'em big."

The regular straight dudes who work there likely hadn't heard a woman say anything like that before. They did a great job being professional, but I know they were having trouble figuring out how to react. My money is green, so they dutifully provided me with an Ohlins shock which they set up as requested. There's now a whole room full of mechanics who will see big, butch women just a little differently now.

I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one. It's OK if she doesn't want to ride on the back of my bike, but if she does she can consider it service.

Femmadian 05-14-2014 08:58 PM

Some other things to love:

-more force behind each movement, thrust, etc., just for their sheer size/weight
-being hugged from behind by one and feeling totally surrounded by butchness :-)
-"borrowing" a big butch's shirt around the house - so comfy!
-watching one fawn over something fluffy/furry. Butches making a fuss over animals in general is endearing, but there's something special about watching a particularly large butch reduced to a puddle in front of a furbaby
-the sight of a big butch on the back of a motorcycle :cheer:
-ever had a butch with a nice, round rump model a really cute pair of boxer briefs for you?
-bear hugs :heartbeat:
-big butch, big boots. 'Nuff said. :-)
-they look awesome nekkid (I mean, everyone does, but I think they look extra awesome)

Basically, there's a lot to love. I'm more aware of big butches in just plain physical terms because they simply occupy more physical real estate. I love to explore those hillsides (with permission, of course)...

My most recent ex (not on BFP) was about a size 20-ish (which I don't find all that large) and 6 ft 1. I can remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "my god, she's an Amazon." It's a miracle I was able to keep my hands off her as long as I did. Would I still have been attracted to her if she had been smaller or shorter? Sure, but that lethal combination of both length and girth is dynamite for this femme. :sunglass:

I think confidence is key if you can unlearn and unpack some of the negative messaging society imprints on you about larger bodies. I know it's hard and it's a constant battle but I have to say, seeing a larger butch with confidence is a huge turn on. It's important to remember (for anyone) that the more time you spend fidgeting with and putting down your own body, that's time you could be giving someone else to appreciate it in all its glory. :-)

From one big-butch-loving femme, please feel free to show off a bit more. :sunglass:

Femmadian 05-14-2014 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by CherylNYC (Post 909444)
I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one.

THIS.
:yeahthat:

Mel C. 05-14-2014 09:40 PM

Hmmmm..seriously, I had NO idea

MysticOceansFL 05-14-2014 10:08 PM

Thanks to the femme's who prefer the bigger butches but what do you consider "bigger" just asking cause I'm not past 150 pounds, would I be considered as such?

Leigh 05-15-2014 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C.
Hmmmm..seriously, I had NO idea

Well you definitely know now don't you? *grin*

VintageFemme 05-15-2014 05:11 AM

I'm a pretty small girl. Barely five foot and pretty petite so when those big strong stocky butch arms hold me close and hold me tight, well there just isn't a lot in this world that feels better. Big butch love, yes please.

Wrang1er 05-15-2014 05:55 AM

I am thankful for the women that love us. I am not tall, but I have the big part covered. :)

Thank you!

clay 05-15-2014 07:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CherylNYC (Post 909444)

I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one. It's OK if she doesn't want to ride on the back of my bike, but if she does she can consider it service.



Thank YOU, Cheryl!! You have always been a fave of mine....and you always say just the right things to us big butches!
Someone will be very blessed to deserve you!
You are AWESOME, my beautiful friend! and will ALWAYS be my fave crush

-Red-Flag- 05-15-2014 08:19 AM

I love this thread, I know first hand there are some Femmes out there that love them a big butch. For that I'm grateful.

Cheryl, can I ride on the back ;)

Leigh 05-15-2014 10:20 AM

There is nothing hotter than a big butch :)

SaltyButch 05-15-2014 07:59 PM

Who knew there was so much love out there for us....I am truly humbled...by the way...I make a good passenger~

Mel C. 05-15-2014 09:10 PM

I think there is gonna be a line for the butch bitch seat

Leigh 05-15-2014 10:33 PM

Sending lots of love to all the gorgeous big butches out there :)

CherylNYC 05-15-2014 11:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 909633)
I think there is gonna be a line for the butch bitch seat

I promise it would be a really fun ride.

starryeyes 05-16-2014 12:09 AM

well shoot... I want to ride on a motorcycle behind a big butch! When will I ever get my chance!? lol

Mel C. 05-16-2014 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by starryeyes (Post 909652)
well shoot... I want to ride on a motorcycle behind a big butch! When will I ever get my chance!? lol

Lol...I can rent or borrow a bike. I like either position

EmJay 05-16-2014 02:27 AM

I don't know how I didn't see this thread before now. Nothing makes this girl blush more than a handsome cuddly butch. *smiles*

Daktari 05-16-2014 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 909633)
I think there is gonna be a line for the butch bitch seat

Really? Bitch seat? Really? :|

Kobi 05-16-2014 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 909671)
Really? Bitch seat? Really? :|


Thanks for pointing this out Daktari.

Good example of how something becomes so much a part of life and language that we dont see it for what it is......disrespectful towards and derogatory to women.

Funny dat.

Morice Diesel 05-16-2014 09:56 AM

feeling the love
 
thank you to all the beautiful femmes who appreciate and love us big ol cuddly butch

*Anya* 05-16-2014 11:35 AM

I am, ahem, less petite than I was when my girlfriend and I got together (she is a great cook).

I love to lay on top of her and have her wrap her arms around me- whether we are in a non-sexual or a sexual place.

It kind of helps to shut the world out for me and I feel safe and loved.

I probably would not do that if she did not have the kind of body that envelopes (and outweighs) me.

*sigh*

I love her.

Daktari 05-16-2014 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by T-Rex (Post 909690)
Just a reminder, you can report or respond, not both. Use your words to talk about why you think it's problematic, not just exclamations of disbelief.

Thanks everyone! Keep it positive!

Yeah, sorry, it was me 'wot did it' (sic)

I find the phrase 'bitch seat' really problematic in that, for me, it presents as linguistic misogyny.

Referring to any female or female bodied person as a bitch and something they use as a bitch something-or-other is, as Kobi points out, disrespectful.

:chaplin:

Wrang1er 05-16-2014 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by EmJay (Post 909656)
I don't know how I didn't see this thread before now. Nothing makes this girl blush more than a handsome cuddly butch. *smiles*

Is there a sign up list for cuddling?

Leigh 05-16-2014 03:13 PM

why don't we create a cuddle list for the thread? I'll start it off:

~> 1) Leigh


Who else wants to sign up? :-)

EmJay 05-16-2014 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wrang1er (Post 909773)
Is there a sign up list for cuddling?

Awe 41 *smiles* no list for you.. Always an open invitation :) xoxoxo

sharonsuburbia 05-16-2014 05:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 909782)
why don't we create a cuddle list for the thread? I'll start it off:

~> 1) Leigh


Who else wants to sign up? :-)

i'm in :rrose:

CornCountryFemme 05-16-2014 06:12 PM

I love big butches :) The comfort being snuggled up in their arms and being all nice, warm and protected. Yep. I'll take that type of two arms any day!

~SweetCheeks~ 05-16-2014 11:24 PM

I absolutely adore Big Butches. There's something about being wrapped up in strong arms and laying on their chest that just makes me swoon. I've Been head over heels in love with my big butch for almost 4 years now and wouldn't want it any other way. :-) ♥♥


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