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diamondrose 08-23-2011 05:52 AM

I am lighting a candle for everyone on the east coast as we brace for hurricane Irene.

Tommi 08-23-2011 01:03 PM

a lamp for those in danger

For earthquake updates in Virginia and Colorado


For Hurricane Irene Alerts

Turtle 08-24-2011 11:48 PM

http://www.photos-public-domain.com/...mp-600x600.jpg

Getting ready for the storm....and maybe a little quiet reflective time...

miss entycing 08-25-2011 05:30 AM

light and strength to fly from the inside.

http://i1130.photobucket.com/albums/...ark/candle.jpg

Diva 08-25-2011 06:05 AM

For our East Coast Friends and Family

http://i111.photobucket.com/albums/n...andlelight.jpg

As I write this, Irene is a Category 3.
Please, please, PLEASE be safe!
Be prepared!



JazzGirl 08-25-2011 10:09 AM




Asking humbly for candles for my safety and any others who may need them in escaping an abusive situation quietly, calmly and with no issue involved. Three dates does not a possession make.
Thank you.

Jazzie

:candle:


JAGG 08-25-2011 12:05 PM

lit
 
For Moonfemme. They just found out her butch has non alcoholic stage4 cirrhosis of the liver.

Novelafemme 08-25-2011 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 405470)
For Moonfemme. They just found out her butch has non alcoholic stage4 cirrhosis of the liver.

candle lit. i am so sorry to read this very sad news. my heart goes out to them both,

Turtle 08-26-2011 12:14 AM

Those east coast moddle states are having a week...
 
http://www.tarotbyjacqueline.com/ima...ing_candle.jpg

For safety in danger,
For healing, fortitude, and wholeness in times of illness and stress, and
For light in the darkness

JazzGirl 08-26-2011 08:45 AM




candles lit:

East Coast safety. My daughter lives on the Cape and is stuck there until tomorrow sometime before she can get further inland. She lives 4 miles from the ocean.

For any and every need.

Jazzie

:candle:




Turtle 08-28-2011 11:38 PM

for me and thee...
 
http://www.nerdtreasure.com/wp-conte.../06/candle.jpg

With thoughts and prayers for tender hearts, for safety, for healing, and serenity...may we all be blessed.

Arwen 08-29-2011 10:58 AM

For Mugsy even though I didn't know her well. :candle::praying:

Leigh 08-29-2011 12:25 PM

For Mugsy, her family & friends

http://i870.photobucket.com/albums/a.../Candles-1.gif

nycfem 08-30-2011 11:02 PM

I feel stupid doing this but I keep wanting to post for it, so here goes:

Interview at 4pm tomorrow for my dream job.

dixie 08-30-2011 11:21 PM


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Candles for the children...

Locally, in the past week:
~two sisters ages 8 and 4 were murdered with a hatchet by their mother (suffering postpartum depression after a miscarriage)
~two day old baby girl found dead in grocery store restroom trashcan ("discarded" by the mother)




Turtle 08-31-2011 03:54 PM

http://images.cambridgeincolour.com/...are-bridge.jpg

A bridge AND a light in the fog...

please - reach out - be a bridge, be the connection, be a light for someone who needs....a touch, a kind word, a smile, a phone number or ride to a shelter or a mental health clinic...please be the world we need when you can - if we all take turns, it'll work. Namaste.





www.nami.org

Call 1-800-950-NAMI

Lady Pamela 09-01-2011 01:20 AM

For the love of my life.
 
I am lighting this candle
For the love of my life.



She is a very private person but I feel special blessings and light needs to come her way now.

Many medical issues are happening and now have her flat down.
Some may be exremely bad. But I am hopeful will not be.

I am asking for a lil energy to go her way to be able to get up and fight this.

Thank you in advance as well.

Turtle 09-02-2011 07:17 AM

So, bridges have been on my mind lately,
http://static.panoramio.com/photos/o...l/24743840.jpg

creating a bridge of support for the self...
to help be connected to healing agents...
people,
furfriends,
god,
the universe,
prayer...candles,
calling someone who really knows you,
nature,
the sounds of the wind, moving water, a whinny,
food and drink that soothes the soul,
music,
reading a favorite poem once a day,
talking with someone who will say it so you can hear it,
a hot soak,
sitting up in a tree,
going to a meeting,
learning how to ask....for a dinner, to take the kids for 3 hours, for someone to go to the store to pick up 10 things you need in the cupboard, but you can't stand the store today,
learning to sit a be still for 5 minutes day,
going for a ride...the choices are endless.

Set up a bridge of support or nourishment for yourself or help someone else figure out what they need, put the tools in place so they are there when you need them they are there, and hopefully the need will happen less if the care for the self is ongoing.

Blessed Be




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JazzGirl 09-05-2011 11:51 AM




Lit candles for :

Everyone.
Everything requested.

Please light some for my daughter. She is in a dangerous situation.
She is off and running again. She is the light of my life and I fear she
will die before she gets better. Thank you so much!

:moonstars:





Turtle 09-07-2011 09:48 PM

:hk28:

Wishing safety and healing for all -


Blessed Be, Amen, and Ashe




:praying:

Diva 09-07-2011 11:57 PM


For my neighbors in the fires of Bastrop, Leander, Steiner Ranch, Spicewood, Liberty Hill..........and the ones who fight those fires, the ones who serve the evacuees, the evacuees themselves and the animals who are stranded............

We pray for badly needed rain for the state of Texas.....the entire state.....




Diva 09-08-2011 09:22 PM

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For my precious friend, Vic, who is to have surgery in the morning.
Holding You in my heart of hearts, sweet Bastid! :heartbeat:




Tommi 09-08-2011 10:59 PM

Vic
 
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Gathering more light for Vic, and his family as they surround him in love and light.

greeneyedgrrl 09-09-2011 12:08 AM

For my sweet girl suffering from separation anxiety... and for me... that I remember to trust in her process and stay present in knowing that she is ok.
:vigil:

JazzGirl 09-09-2011 06:42 AM



candles lit:
:candle: :candle: :candle: :candle: :candle: :candle:

Peace for all!

Peace and quiet on 9-11.

To reverse the "credible threats of violence" on 9-11.

For every single positive desire, wish, prayer, request, reprieve, notion or
musing.

For the girl.

For everyone here, as always is my desire.

Namaste!

J


:moonstars:



Tommi 09-09-2011 08:32 AM

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:candle::candle::candle::candle:VIC:candle::candle::candle::candle:
:

JazzGirl 09-09-2011 06:22 PM




candles lit:

:candle: :candle: :candle: :candle: :candle:

For the kindness of people here, I barely know.

For every good thing to be given to all.

For the candles lit for my girl.

Another for my girl from me.

Candles lit for those I do not know, friends I have not met, yet
and any who ask.


Jazz

:moonstars:




Tommi 09-10-2011 04:09 PM


Candles, and love and light for my daughter Leah, my ex wife Peggie , and the grandest kids Trinity Hope 4, and Dustin Bradley, 5, and Paul. Leah went back with her abusive husband after over a year's separation. They are trying to make a go of it again. We hold our breath again.

Paul is to be stationed at Wright-Patterson Air Force Base, Ohio after this last sojourn in Afghanistan. 2 years ago, they had family counseling and were told it would may be better to divorce. His rages have sent her flying home several times. They are relocating from South Dakota soon. Far away from our arms here in So. Calif. :candle:For the Kidz, big and little.

:candle::candle::candle::candle: and for Peggie, like any Mom, just sits in fear that the next time Leah may not be able to call one of us. We both know what it is like.


Tommi 09-11-2011 08:25 AM

We Remember
 
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Turtle 09-11-2011 10:49 PM

For soothing peace as this day passes...
We remember, we learn, and we grow...
We Bless Each Other...
Amen, Ashe, and Blessed Be


:praying: :candle:

MaggieBluIze 09-15-2011 07:45 PM

Lighting a candle for my Mom that passed away 17 years ago today.
We miss you so very much, daily.
Love you.

Diva 09-15-2011 11:04 PM

http://i585.photobucket.com/albums/s...urhCandles.jpg

For the precious folks of Bastrop County, Texas, as they are allowed back to their properties.....for the near 2,000 home~owners, who have lost everything....





Turtle 09-16-2011 06:26 PM

http://mi9.com/uploads/holiday/4816/..._422_88118.jpg

...Lighting candles for recovery from disasters, for healing and wholeness, for celebrating completion, for those we have lost, for new endeavors, and for that which we do not know...

Blessed Be

julieisafemme 09-16-2011 06:28 PM

I lit a candle for my friend who was caring for her nephew and niece a long time ago. She is still there taking care of them. It is not easy and she is a young person. I am absolutely in awe of her. So I am lighting a candle to send light and strength to her and all the rest of the parents of kids who did not have a place to go.

Ms. Tabitha 09-17-2011 09:35 AM

Prayers for Theo's StepMom
 
~ For you Betty.
Keeping you close to my heart in prayer and thought, I love you.

Infinitely merciful Father, I offer You by the Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart of Mary with St. Joseph, the nine choirs of Angels and all the Saints, the adoration's, praises, love and infinite holiness of Your beloved Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ, His heart wounded and burning with love, all His blood shed for us, all His sacred wounds and in them my life and sufferings of all people, for my salvation and for the salvation of the whole world, the deliverance of all souls from Purgatory and the praise of Your merciful Father, I offer You the wounds of our Lord Jesus Christ for those in agony today. Amen.


http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g1...n_a_church.jpg


Tommi 09-18-2011 08:19 AM

I knew when she called.......
 
I light a A candle for my Ex of 21 years, and a cyber request to think about her and wish her well. :candle:

Peggie called me Friday night asked me to come over Sat.. Said she needed to talk to me. We have chatted over the years since we have been separated, but she never asked me to come over like that.

Spending yesterday with a woman I spent 21 years with, and finding out her news and health is not good was shocking and I am at a loss for words, but come here because I can pour it out. I had picked up my paints and walked away, from her, for both of our survivals. We both kept painting, me of places I traveled, and of of wild ferocious big cats and animals.

She kept painting too. I saw my Ex's beautiful paintings of the daughter we raised. Portraits of Leah when she entered Kindergarten and the most beautiful of her at high school graduation.. Since I had seen Peggie last she has lost so much weight, and looks very ill. Yet, there were many new family portraits. Paintings and the memories of good times, of the flowers I planted in the backyard, and pictures and memories of living in the house we bought together. The memories of the love we once had came flooding back. She had done a self portrait wearing the clothes she had on when we met, with her once long dark hair falling around a beautiful face. She asked if I wanted the sculpture she did of my Mother , which holds the place of honor on the electric organ. She asked if I wanted her portrait.

She asked what she should do with the house, and where she should move, as she is ill and doesn't think she has long to live. She is seeing a cardiologist and a pulmonary specialist. It sounds like she is getting the medical run-around and she knew that pisses me off, so didn;t call me. It was Saturday, they were gone. She said I called you , as you are the only one I trust at the end of my life. You can make these tough decisions. She asked if I could pick up her meds, and get her Coffee Ice Cream. I got her Oreo's and peanut butter and bagels, and nilla wafers, and canned peaches and chocolate milk too, because I know she loves that stuff and is skinny as a rail now.

I sit here, now wishing I had MADE her go to the hospital yesterday, even though she said no. Sit here now, knowing she is more important than the Steelers game that comes on in 3 hours. Knowing I want her to go in the hospital, but her fear of not getting out alive, and leaving her kitty kat at home prevents a rational woman from getting help. I suppose I would be the same way. Knowing that the kids are spread out around the country, her brother is in Tenn. and not having famiy near by must be scary as hell, and having to call the "Rock" as she called me, must have been hard for her. The Rock sits her and wonders what now. (f)

JazzGirl 09-18-2011 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi (Post 419966)
I light a A candle for my Ex of 21 years, and a cyber request to think about her and wish her well. :candle:

Peggie called me Friday night asked me to come over Sat.. Said she needed to talk to me. We have chatted over the years since we have been separated, but she never asked me to come over like that.

Spending yesterday with a woman I spent 21 years with, and finding out her news and health is not good was shocking and I am at a loss for words, but come here because I can pour it out. I had picked up my paints and walked away, from her, for both of our survivals. We both kept painting, me of places I traveled, and of of wild ferocious big cats and animals.

She kept painting too. I saw my Ex's beautiful paintings of the daughter we raised. Portraits of Leah when she entered Kindergarten and the most beautiful of her at high school graduation.. Since I had seen Peggie last she has lost so much weight, and looks very ill. Yet, there were many new family portraits. Paintings and the memories of good times, of the flowers I planted in the backyard, and pictures and memories of living in the house we bought together. The memories of the love we once had came flooding back. She had done a self portrait wearing the clothes she had on when we met, with her once long dark hair falling around a beautiful face. She asked if I wanted the sculpture she did of my Mother , which holds the place of honor on the electric organ. She asked if I wanted her portrait.

She asked what she should do with the house, and where she should move, as she is ill and doesn't think she has long to live. She is seeing a cardiologist and a pulmonary specialist. It sounds like she is getting the medical run-around and she knew that pisses me off, so didn;t call me. It was Saturday, they were gone. She said I called you , as you are the only one I trust at the end of my life. You can make these tough decisions. She asked if I could pick up her meds, and get her Coffee Ice Cream. I got her Oreo's and peanut butter and bagels, and nilla wafers, and canned peaches and chocolate milk too, because I know she loves that stuff and is skinny as a rail now.

I sit here, now wishing I had MADE her go to the hospital yesterday, even though she said no. Sit here now, knowing she is more important than the Steelers game that comes on in 3 hours. Knowing I want her to go in the hospital, but her fear of not getting out alive, and leaving her kitty kat at home prevents a rational woman from getting help. I suppose I would be the same way. Knowing that the kids are spread out around the country, her brother is in Tenn. and not having famiy near by must be scary as hell, and having to call the "Rock" as she called me, must have been hard for her. The Rock sits her and wonders what now. (f)



Candle lit for the Rock and Peggie
:candle:


Please take her anyway. you are all in my prayers.

J





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Tommi 09-18-2011 11:46 PM

High hopes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JazzGirl (Post 420202)


Candle lit for the Rock and Peggie
:candle:

Please take her anyway. you are all in my prayers.

J

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Thank you.
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We have been in the ER since noon. She is getting O2 and lasix, and looks worlds better. Waiting on CAT scan results. ER Doc is great, waiting on blood test follow-up and Peg's output. Came home to feed my criters, get a jacket and head back to the ER. Doc says she'll go home in a few hours- been a long time since I slept on that couch.

JazzGirl 09-19-2011 11:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi (Post 420718)
Thank you.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MuqY2u_DaY...le2candles.gif

We have been in the ER since noon. She is getting O2 and lasix, and looks worlds better. Waiting on CAT scan results. ER Doc is great, waiting on blood test follow-up and Peg's output. Came home to feed my criters, get a jacket and head back to the ER. Doc says she'll go home in a few hours- been a long time since I slept on that couch.



More candles lit.
:candle: :candle:

Glad to hear the update!
Hang in there!




clay 09-19-2011 12:18 PM

:candle: :candle: :candle:
for me..for Wednesday..for bravery...for peace....for not feeling so alone!


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