It troubles me how so many women look down on themselves or others because they haven't achieved the goals that society has set for them since they were little girls. It troubles me that so many of them did not even give these preconceived goals a second thought. Never even questioned them, just reached for them at all costs to the detriment of who knows what. Maybe they really are happy. I certainly know many who are! I also know some who just put on the happy face and go through the motions of what is expected.

I feel certain that I am preaching (or rambling) to the choir here, but this is what has been on my mind today.
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hi cherry ~ I agree some woman do dismiss the alternative and yet some are living there lives to their fullest ~ what I would like for YOU to know is I respect you and every woman who knows their own selves ~ as to what they want in their lives ~ I wanted to be a mother so I became one ~ non conventional ~ is it the only life I ever wanted ?~ absolutely not ~ I also achieved a career ~ as the ole saying states to they own self be true ~ enjoy your Holidays w/ your beautiful smile ~ spread that smile around grl ! ~

My sister's wedding and my high school 20th year reunion coming up in April and June of 2015, I have not prepared for this but I guess it is time for me to do so.

Gotta find some money to pay for everything for the reunion and get the correct fitting shirt for the wedding.

sex ...... all night long ..... is there any other kind?

Thinking....bagels...cream cheese and strawberry jam...
But damn it's cold

We get to look at our new house today for the first time...

My brain is a busy place....but what I need right now is to just breath.....my brain can make me crazy if I don't just take moments to just zen out....

An airline ticket in January :ohm:

Needing more opportunities to talk to my birth mother.

the holidays are not a good time for everyone

For some it can be hard and isolating

For some the financial burdens are too much

no one really knows what a person is struggling with

The next International Jazz Festival in Panama.

http://www.pancanal.com/eng/pr/press...es/310-lge.jpg

I'm also thinking about work, but thinking about live music is more fun.

How much I miss a really good conversation :/

The millions of bags and boxes around my room. I need to wrap presents, and unpack some more boxes to make more room. Oh, and I need to do laundry, but this rain, it just won't quit!

With the holidays upon us, I've been thinking a lot about what the next special person in my life will be like.... physically and non-physically. What color will her hair be? How tall will she be? Will she have nice feet? Will she be funny and witty? etc...

I imagine if she is going to be special to me that she will laugh at my stupid jokes, find my sarcasm charming most of the time, and find me cute, even first thing in the morning when she may have wanted to sleep in and yet I accidentally woke her up.

It can sometimes be hard being single during the holidays. I wax and wane with it. Sure I will save money on gifts but I enjoy making someone feel special in this way.

I think about when we will find each other knowing that when and if it's meant to happen, it will. Wonder if I'll be single next year at this time. Just a lot of hmmmms going on in my head.

Anyway, that's what I've been thinking. Once the holidays are over, I probably won't give this topic as much thought.

So true dee, not everyone really knows who is struggling with what.

someone I am seeing... who is a bit of a conundrum to me... I wish I had a little window into his head sometimes.

and 14 days

A few things

LOL, your description was vague until the oddly specific "Will she have nice feet?" Is there a foot fetish you want to confess to? :sock::sock: