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I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

I've met you Ruthie.....aint nothin wrong with you girl :)

Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!!

ruthie14

06-28-2010 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Luckydwg07 (Post 140526)

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

MysticOceansFL

06-28-2010 06:53 PM

Dropping bye

Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!

cuddlyfemme

06-28-2010 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 140529)

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

(((((Ruthie))))))

Wryly

06-28-2010 07:00 PM

Hey all!
It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer.
Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times.

Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you.

IttyBittyFem

06-29-2010 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 139076)

THERE IS
NOTHING
WRONG WITH YOU

Apparently, you two just didn't click. It happens Ruthie. However, your date was already showing poor signs of communication, so it just may be a good thing how it ended up.

Chalk this one up for experience. Not every single person you meet will work out. There's lots of weeding to be performed prior to walking in the Garden of Love.

I think you're super special and any Butch that's fortunate enough to cross your path, will know that instantly when you're just being you.

ruthie14

06-29-2010 04:12 AM

Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*

Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

lipstixgal

06-29-2010 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 140720)

RUTHIE, there is a job market in healthcare. Nursing, medical assistant like I did and should have done nursing instead!! Will go back after I graduate from school want to make some money first. but you can't go wrong with the healthcare field its booming, just my .02 cents worth. Anyway, good morning lofters have a great day everyone!! sets out tea:tea: and coffee

Daktari

06-29-2010 05:21 AM

G'day Lofters one and all.

I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D! :groucho:

Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with.

Andrew, Jr.

06-29-2010 11:55 AM

Good Afternoon All!

I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello.

Ruthie,

Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm!

Andrew

miss entycing

06-29-2010 12:08 PM

afternoon everyone
:)

got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle...
tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... !
(have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?)

hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week-

Rockinonahigh

06-29-2010 03:46 PM

Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain.

ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later.

cuddlyfemme

06-29-2010 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by EntycingFemme (Post 140973)

hey sweetie, its great to see you back. i know what you mean about loving your new camaro...i love it too lol

ruthie14

06-29-2010 05:14 PM

ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.

Jet	06-29-2010 05:48 PM

Quick fly by
have a good one

ruthie14

06-30-2010 04:15 AM

Tired today but just have one job to work so i should be able to rest tonight. Feeling better about things and myself. Not one to stay down long, life is wayyyyyyyyyy to short for that.

Anybody know anything about being an ultrasound tech? Gonna see if there is a job market for that around here.

Have a wonderful day friends!

Ruthie

lipstixgal

06-30-2010 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 141609)

Ultrasound tech there are plenty of jobs in that area at least up north NJ. In fact there is a school in clifton that is starting classes in JUly 2010. YOu should definitely look into that or nursing. That's what I'm gonna do after I move out of NJ, look for schools of nursing in the state I'm living in. good luck Ruthie!!

cuddlyfemme

06-30-2010 10:37 AM

Hi Lofters! I hope everyone is having a good day. I'm really sleepy, I kept waking up in the middle of the night

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