Good evening everyone :)

I haven't been here for while , but without Clay keeping this thread alive it was not much to say . I am happy for Clay to being well and back . I just came here from Czech boards of 300 women which they are heterosexuals , but it's so easy for me to communicate , when I come here , I freeze and I don't want to write anything that's not only poorly written , but sounds corny .
I so wish when I came to the US , I have a luxury to take 9 months crash course at USC , but I have to work as a single mother and go to school to get my degree back in order take care of my child and myself .

Anyway , nothing new on my end excepts my son it's moving with me . My house it's looking like after a tornado , but we will get it together . It's a big move and I suddenly feel it's not big enough , we donated a lot of stuff , but with four grandchildren and fifth coming in May , it will be busy here .

wishing everyone good night .:)

Clay thank you for your kind words . It's always precious to me when I come here . I can write in Russian or some other language , but I don't think nobody would appreciate it .... lol .

have a good night :)

aww sure you can...just not sure how many of us would be able to read it...grin...can you write my name on here in Russian? PLs?
YOU have a great night as well..let's throw a pack of firecrackers out on the floor in here..see how many we wake up...lol...later sweet Vlasta...Clayboi

here ya go my friend ..... good luck it's in Russian lol " глина. " it's really not typical Russian name if you were Maxim , it would be more easy . This it's just translation of Clay .... Enjoy :)

wow...coolios...thanks lady!! grin

morning Lofter dwellers and peekers

welll.... i am still in OK city.. our load got cancelled just as we got backed up to the dock ... we were not very happy campers.
anyways. its very windy here this morning... wind rocking the truck. but its a very nice sunny day ... should be t shirt weather if the wind wasnt blowing so much.
clay .. wish i cold get a load out your way.. but its extremly rare I would get one to the beach where you are..... now i was sent to cocoa beach last Nov..and i been working at this job for 6 yrs now... sooo never know...
hope everyone has a nice day. :)

morning lofters
 

Here i am Clay..!!!..

That 1 tile got the best of me..Turned back around in time to catch it before it hit the floor..It is up there now..

Today i gotta grow 3 more hairs on my "Ka-hunahs" [excuse me ladies] and make an appointment for a rootcanal..It will be my first..I have had 3 surgurys in my mouth in the past and it is very uncomfortable to say the least..I had my gums repaired from brushing my teeth to hard..Hey i wanted them clean..

Going to try to get my kid hooked up with a graphics job..She is excited about it and maybe more little jobs will follow..

Speaking of jobs,,Ruthie how is it going over there for you..???..

Well better get my diling finger limbered up..Gotta make that call and make an appointment for pain in my head..

Then to bed..Then to work..

That is my day today

Sending a good day to the lofters..

s..

morning from ..DelRio tx..... yep brought a load here ..... now picking another and heading up to Dallas ... yay.. in other news im going to b a solo driver
again..... which is fine team driving has been kinda stressful... the money will j somwhat lower...but ill b ok. :) ...

thanks Clay , but right now I really can't and I don't want to . I will be ok one way or other . I am sick of this drama rama life and I will not put more on my family more than I have to .

Have a great day friend , you are an awesome soul .

Dropping in to say hello to everyone! 64 here in NC wind is whippin' rain is falling, would be a great day to stay in bed... sad I have to make another trip to the bank for further documents and take my mortgage guy another copy of a important piece of paper that he has "misplaced IE lost" sigh

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

It's a crisp 43 and sunny. It would be ideal if there wasn't an early spring wind. But I'm not complaining. It could be below zero and have two feet of snow.

Have a great weekend. I'm starting mine a little early.

Hey ya loft dwellers n peekers, check ing in. Via smart phn...... leaving Dallas... and will b landing in Orlando,fla .. by late Sunday afternoon..... clay i love to fish i carry my fishing stuff with me.

GOOD NEWS...FOR ONCE.
 

I got some good news for now. My Dr is not putting me on the kidney list for a transplant. My kidneys was working 24% and they have to be 25 % or under. My kidneys are working 27% and befor they never got over 25%. I will still have to stay on this dieit and take crappie medicon that tast crappie. End of March I will have to have blood test and again in another 60 days. I will still have test done as if I'm still getting a transplant.:):happyjump:

Now,my Mother has made her mind up to not have surgery. I talked to my daughter and now I think its wice for mom not to. No matter what she desided I will stand behind her. Its her body and her life her choice.
The gal who was going to marry my brother (the one who died befor they got married) she has cancer very badly. I love her dearly as a exsended sister. Please,keep her in your prayers and thinking well wishes. She has all the treatments for this cancer there is.

I hope all of you are well and enjoying the week.
Take care of you and be safe.

Hi Loft Folks,

Just saying hello and checking in, reading posts. Wish to be more consistent on this thread in 2012.


Have a great Friday and weekend!


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Good Afternoon
 

On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!



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Hey Ruthie:
That is just awesome. I am so very happy for you! Enjoy that time..and let it evolve..slowly...and YOU are a beautiful woman..and hy is a lucky butch! Grin..hugs..Clay

Ruthie,
I'm sorry for all the sickness in your family and friends,I know how it is. Its the pitts. I'm glad you have found someone to date and havr fun. I'm happy for you. Shoot that means I don't stand a chance.LOL You desurve someone.

Dropping by to say hello to all. I hope your week is going well. I am in my young 40's none the less here lol.

Oldie but a Goodie
 

Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?

Very good question, Salty.

I, for one, don't think that we should be limited--within reason, of course. This is especially true for older femmes. Here in the B-F community, we often are subjected to traditional het social rules; ie femmes only date older butches. For some of us, that's just fine. For others, that's very uncomfortable on many levels.

Let me explain. When you are dipping into your sunset years, the number of available older butches is quite limited. That means your dating pool is smaller than a thimble. That can make some of us resign ourselves to an easy chair and watch life pass us by.

For myself, in general I prefer the energy of younger people, butch or femme, straight or gay. Their fresh view on life, their raw courage to try new things, their stamina amazes me. That's one reason I've covered music for so long. Younger people keep me young and keep me looking forward toward the next sunrise.

But to date? I prefer someone a bit younger (or someone who has that same youthful attack on life). But my cut off is about 20 years my junior. Once someone is in their 40s the age and generational barriers dissolve. It's a matter of personal charisma and, of course, integrity.