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morningstar55 04-24-2012 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 571487)
3 hours??? hahaha.... thats not to far... 3 hours is a cinch. a lot of people spend 3 hours driving everyday just shopping.. LOL

i been all over your area... its stressful trying to getting around there in a truck.

anyways im heading to bed.......... nites:moonstars:

I bet it must be hard! I am near a main Rd though, lots of trucks all the time! lol

Night!
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wow..... for a moment there i was wondering. why does my post from last night look like i was under your name?? was just trying to figure out how that happend?? lmao.......... but i see the quote thing geeshh.. lol

heyyyyyy good morning Loft dwellers and peekers

ya know........ ruth hope i didnt scare OS , away with all the hinny talk lol
guess i was mis behaving * sigh* ...

im hanging here in Michigan City,Ind. ....waiting for dispatchers to find me a load to go do.. been playing on line for a while , but think im gonna do something a bit more constructive and get some art projects done.

OS Butch 04-24-2012 02:54 PM

Good afternoon ladies, no I wasn't scared off. Limited time to pop in and say hello. Although the hinney part is keeping the pink going! I had no idea that someone in particular had been looking! I won't mention any names;)

I hope everyone had a wonderful day and has a grand evening as well. I am off to spend the evening with my parents
:)

fever 04-25-2012 02:48 AM

Waving from BC Canada
 
Welcome to the new folks, and hello to the regulars! I have now moved to a new place, and hope to live here for long time. Covered porch the width of the house, so it can rain all it wants and I can still sit outside, read the paper, sip coffee, watch the birds and marvel at the sheep and lambs playing in the field. I have found a little piece of heaven, and I am delighted!!!

I asked the Universe for "Home" and it delivered.

Blessings, :praying:
Candice

OS Butch 04-26-2012 05:10 AM

Good morning everyone. I have the day off! Wondering what I will do to occupy my day:) Have a great day.

morningstar55 04-26-2012 06:04 AM


it is thirsty thrusday .... annnd im still hanging in Detroit, and not by my choosing. Had this awsome load yesterday evening going allllll the way to Witchita KS , soo i was already at a plaza to pick up a few things . i go to start my truck and get rolling to pick this load up around detroit and .. HA.. my truck wouldnt start.... turns out the starter went.. *sigh*
the kicker to this story I was around the machanic's shop all afternoon , why couldnt of broke down THERE!! .... ok my lil rant is over.. lol

morning OS .... what will you do today?? i hear your glass art calling your name :) hehe.. just a thought.. you do such awsome work :)
the pink going???? :confused: names??? lol

ok guess they are about ready for me to pull my truck around... yayy ... Get ER done..

there is a lady here girl...?? hmm well anyways she runs this whole truck repair operation, she is in her maybe hmm late 20's?? early 30's im guesing.. has these awsome pink n purple streaks in her hair.. lol has horses...
NO one.. and i mean NO one is allowed to swear in her shop.. not even the machanics.. or she will fine you $$ .. and there are a few signs posted saying so. lol she is serious..... she finds it offensive to her costumers and herself.
im gonna give her a print of my war pony painting. :)
anyways.................
have a awsome day everyone.

bbl

OS Butch 04-26-2012 06:40 AM

Good morning MS55:) I never have nothing to do! I have a side job in DC today and with these old row houses, it is never a quick job!

Be be safe out there on the roads....if your truck ever decides to start!

OS Butch 04-27-2012 06:19 AM

Good morning. Have a great weekend, I don't think I will be around too much, but will try to check in.:)

OS Butch 04-28-2012 10:09 AM

Well, I am in Harrisonburg, va for a bowling tournament. Hoping y'all have as much fun as I am having:)

gaea 04-28-2012 10:23 AM

i went to a dance last night that could have been a lofters dance it was a lot of fun with great people i have known a long time funny how when you live in the same community you actually notice when you are all aging. add it just is and you just go with it and you don't think twice about it.

10 years ago staying out till 2 or 3 in the morning no problem now i need a pillow by 9 and 11 is pushing it for me...

i love it...

happy weekend my fellow lofters I am proud to be amongst this group :)

morningstar55 04-28-2012 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by gaea (Post 574293)
i went to a dance last night that could have been a lofters dance it was a lot of fun with great people i have known a long time funny how when you live in the same community you actually notice when you are all aging. add it just is and you just go with it and you don't think twice about it.

10 years ago staying out till 2 or 3 in the morning no problem now i need a pillow by 9 and 11 is pushing it for me...

i love it...

happy weekend my fellow lofters I am proud to be amongst this group :)

afternooners Loft dwellers and peekers
haha .. yeap ...... i use to be like that too....
like i love going out to the drag shows.......... BUT they all seem to start up when i want to go to bed.
why cant they have like ahhhh early show like 9pmish or summtin.

anyways.. im hangin here around Allentown PA.. yay. im bored.
i need to hunt a super market and according to my travel book...... The Next Exit ...... there is a whole foods market about 7 miles down the highway. Yayy!! ... gonna head there and browz.. love that place.
good thing i have a fridge in this truck.

ruthie14 04-28-2012 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 574356)
afternooners Loft dwellers and peekers
haha .. yeap ...... i use to be like that too....
like i love going out to the drag shows.......... BUT they all seem to start up when i want to go to bed.
why cant they have like ahhhh early show like 9pmish or summtin.

anyways.. im hangin here around Allentown PA.. yay. im bored.
i need to hunt a super market and according to my travel book...... The Next Exit ...... there is a whole foods market about 7 miles down the highway. Yayy!! ... gonna head there and browz.. love that place.
good thing i have a fridge in this truck.

Waves..... I love whole foods!

OS Butch 04-28-2012 10:15 PM

Finally in from a very long but great day of bowling, dinner and finishing up with an evening of poker with friends.
Back in the hotel and listening the the rain.... thunder and lightning is rolling through!
We finish tomorrow with team bowling then we are heading home.
I hope everyone had a great day:)

OSB

morningstar55 04-29-2012 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 574603)
Finally in from a very long but great day of bowling, dinner and finishing up with an evening of poker with friends.
Back in the hotel and listening the the rain.... thunder and lightning is rolling through!
We finish tomorrow with team bowling then we are heading home.
I hope everyone had a great day:)

OSB



wow .. NO thunders or rain here.......
im here in Carisle PA.. hope thats how its spelled...

Morning Loft dwellers and peekers


http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o...0725080604.jpg

wow what a awsome morning it is.....
sunny , clear skies... its shower time and then breakfast at Denny's

have a enjoyable sunday lofters

Okiebug61 04-29-2012 06:43 AM

Red is curled up sleeping with the pups while I enjoy my cup of coffee. I am going to cook breakfast this morning. We are going to have blue and gold sausage with home made biscuits and gravy. Yummmy!

firegal 04-29-2012 07:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 574603)
Finally in from a very long but great day of bowling, dinner and finishing up with an evening of poker with friends.
Back in the hotel and listening the the rain.... thunder and lightning is rolling through!
We finish tomorrow with team bowling then we are heading home.
I hope everyone had a great day:)

OSB

I am a pathetic bowler!... Definately wouldnt impress a date with my skills!

sounds like you had a bunch of fun stuff... busy


TP

OS Butch 04-29-2012 07:32 AM

Good morning Morningstar, okiebug and firegal.

I am having a great morning so far. We finish up bowling and then head home.

Have a great day!

Jo

OS Butch 04-29-2012 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firegal (Post 574704)
I am a pathetic bowler!... Definately wouldnt impress a date with my skills!

sounds like you had a bunch of fun stuff... busy


TP

Yanno, I been told that it is more about watching us bowl, not how many pins we knock down!

Dude, did you ever go to slut night in NYC and donate tshirts for the raffle? If ya did, I still have them and use them often....even they go holes in them.

Jo

Darbonaire 04-29-2012 07:04 PM

WOW, back here again...who knew
 
10 years of marriage down the drain...so...hello again everyone....hope all of you are well. I see some familiar faces & some new ones.....say hello if you remember me & if you don't....say hello anyway !

morningstar55 04-29-2012 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Darbonaire (Post 575176)
10 years of marriage down the drain...so...hello again everyone....hope all of you are well. I see some familiar faces & some new ones.....say hello if you remember me & if you don't....say hello anyway !

welcome back .. Debonair....... sorry to hear about your 10 yrs down the drain. sorry too i dont recall your member name :( but hello :)

i travel to Va from time to time.

ok pondering on what red and blue sausge is ... hmmmmm

fever 04-30-2012 12:24 AM

Waving from BC Canada
 
So, moving is finally completed. Today we cleaned the townhouse. Tomorrow is the move out inspection and hopefully, by Tuesday I will be able to sit and let that stressful time go.

It is so calm and peaceful watching the sheep and their babies frolick.

What a year! And it is now all behind me.

Have a super, duper week!

Blessings, All,
Candice

ruthie14 05-01-2012 04:38 PM

turns out the pain in my hand is partially, a nerve problem in my elbow. Dr wants to take care of the elbow and see what happens to the wrist. MRI didn't show anything in the wrist. Most likely a small tear they can't see. If it doesn't calm down, they may go in and "do some scraping" ouch! will schedule surgery for elbow soon. Still have neck dr to see.

Sister and her wife have been visiting from Alaska. Neighbors rotty jumped the fence and bit my sisterinlaw. Had to report it. Police had to come out. Now they are claiming we are harrassing them... uhhh really?? Police don't believe him. Rotty was not registered so he is being slapped with a fine. Has to provide proof of up to date shots. They will not put in a new fence (of course he told the cop he would) bc he is out of work (always out of work) and can't afford it. REALLY??? and we can?? Have to do it in order to keep my 72 year old mother and my little Bella safe. Thanks God for a home depot credit card and a family friend who will let us pay him on time for the labor and not charge us much as it is.

OYE!!!!!!!!!!!!

morningstar55 05-01-2012 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 576198)
turns out the pain in my hand is partially, a nerve problem in my elbow. Dr wants to take care of the elbow and see what happens to the wrist. MRI didn't show anything in the wrist. Most likely a small tear they can't see. If it doesn't calm down, they may go in and "do some scraping" ouch! will schedule surgery for elbow soon. Still have neck dr to see.

Sister and her wife have been visiting from Alaska. Neighbors rotty jumped the fence and bit my sisterinlaw. Had to report it. Police had to come out. Now they are claiming we are harrassing them... uhhh really?? Police don't believe him. Rotty was not registered so he is being slapped with a fine. Has to provide proof of up to date shots. They will not put in a new fence (of course he told the cop he would) bc he is out of work (always out of work) and can't afford it. REALLY??? and we can?? Have to do it in order to keep my 72 year old mother and my little Bella safe. Thanks God for a home depot credit card and a family friend who will let us pay him on time for the labor and not charge us much as it is.

OYE!!!!!!!!!!!!

hope she didnt get bit to bad....... glad you guys can do the fence. best bne safe then sorry :)

Licious 05-04-2012 10:10 PM

Hi everyone...

Not much going on here, just catching up on posts. I am still recovering from bronchitis, but good to be on the mend. For now this takes up most of my time, and usual petition spreading or politics online.

Have a good weekend Lofters!

:bow:

OS Butch 05-05-2012 07:00 AM

Wow! I hope you got the fence done! I hope everything is going well in spite of it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 576198)
turns out the pain in my hand is partially, a nerve problem in my elbow. Dr wants to take care of the elbow and see what happens to the wrist. MRI didn't show anything in the wrist. Most likely a small tear they can't see. If it doesn't calm down, they may go in and "do some scraping" ouch! will schedule surgery for elbow soon. Still have neck dr to see.

Sister and her wife have been visiting from Alaska. Neighbors rotty jumped the fence and bit my sisterinlaw. Had to report it. Police had to come out. Now they are claiming we are harrassing them... uhhh really?? Police don't believe him. Rotty was not registered so he is being slapped with a fine. Has to provide proof of up to date shots. They will not put in a new fence (of course he told the cop he would) bc he is out of work (always out of work) and can't afford it. REALLY??? and we can?? Have to do it in order to keep my 72 year old mother and my little Bella safe. Thanks God for a home depot credit card and a family friend who will let us pay him on time for the labor and not charge us much as it is.

OYE!!!!!!!!!!!!


OS Butch 05-05-2012 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Licious (Post 578438)
Hi everyone...

Not much going on here, just catching up on posts. I am still recovering from bronchitis, but good to be on the mend. For now this takes up most of my time, and usual petition spreading or politics online.

Have a good weekend Lofters!

:bow:


You have a great weekend too!

ruthie14 05-06-2012 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OS Butch (Post 578567)
Wow! I hope you got the fence done! I hope everything is going well in spite of it.

fence got done by friday thank God! The dog can still get out of their back yard and into their front yard, but for now at least my back yard is safe.

feeling blue today. A lot going on...including a$$ of a neighbor.

I am too nice and do too much for folks. I got burnt by someone recently and I am sad about that. I won't let them take advantage of me anymore. A woman I am interested in, well, lets just say she isn't ready for a relationship. She is interested in me, but not yet ready. I am not waiting. There is a woman on a singles site that said she wants just friends, but the rate of speed she has pushed for just meeting up is, well, too fast. It will be a while before I meet her or give out my phone or email address. Just wrote me this morning, I wrote her back and already wants all that info. ahhhhh no...

things are strange at my job... It is a franchise daycare, I think corprate is either going to take over or sell to another owner. They are NOT happy with him. Neither are we. The order that was suppose to come in at the end of the month has yet to arrive. hmmmmmmmm He blew off a meeting with big wigs.. haven't seen him in almost a month. Fishy Hopefully I at least have a job.

Have a wonderful week my friends.
Ruthie

OS Butch 05-07-2012 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 579833)
fence got done by friday thank God! The dog can still get out of their back yard and into their front yard, but for now at least my back yard is safe.

I am glad you got that done. Please call Animal control any time you see that dog loose. You may save someone else from being bitten. Around here if a dog bites, it is quarantined. Then may or may not be returned to the owner unless owner can prove that steps have been taken to kept the dog in the yard. Some jurisdictions have banned some breeds of dogs.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 579833)
feeling blue today. A lot going on...including a$$ of a neighbor.

I am too nice and do too much for folks. I got burnt by someone recently and I am sad about that. I won't let them take advantage of me anymore. A woman I am interested in, well, lets just say she isn't ready for a relationship. She is interested in me, but not yet ready. I am not waiting. There is a woman on a singles site that said she wants just friends, but the rate of speed she has pushed for just meeting up is, well, too fast. It will be a while before I meet her or give out my phone or email address. Just wrote me this morning, I wrote her back and already wants all that info. ahhhhh no...

Doo doo happens. Been there and done it time and again. By all means, you take meeting new people at a comfortable pace for you. Maybe if you couple get a group of friends to go for coffee and this person would make it less ...oh what would be the word....I dunno, It will come to me at 3am!

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 579833)
things are strange at my job... It is a franchise daycare, I think corprate is either going to take over or sell to another owner. They are NOT happy with him. Neither are we. The order that was suppose to come in at the end of the month has yet to arrive. hmmmmmmmm He blew off a meeting with big wigs.. haven't seen him in almost a month. Fishy Hopefully I at least have a job.

Have a wonderful week my friends.
Ruthie

Sounds like alot going on over there! I like going to work, the most drama free job, just hop on my mower and go from 8am to whenever we get the last client done...Does make for a long day if we get called off because of rain. I love being outside:)

I hope you have a great week.

Jo

morningstar55 05-08-2012 05:25 PM

The eagle has landed.... just east of the toledo area.. am poopd.... been driving al day.....in other news my lap top died....""very deep sigh"". Anyways its dindin time.Have a nice night

ruthie14 05-08-2012 08:00 PM

Dog comes out of quarantine tomorrow but fence should be good enough for now. If he bites again the dog will be put down. Hate that, but the dog attacked unprovoked even. Not good owners to tell you the truth. They are responsible, not the dog. Called animal control and they told us to call the police and file a report, which we did.

Wrist arm and elbow continue to get worse despite cortizone shots. Will need to schedule surgery for my Ulna nerve soon.. (funny bone). Saw neck dr today and he wants an mri. Been seeing him for years and he agrees that I should have the surgery. Go back on the 5th of June to see him.

Morningstart... hope your laptop gets fixed soon!

Os.. thanks for all your encouraging words. It means a lot.

Night folks...Have a wonderful humping day tomorrow! lol

Ruthie

Maverick 05-08-2012 09:16 PM

Hey all! Just turned 50 here. Hard to believe how time flies these days and yet still feel young in a lot of ways. I have a question for all of you...I'm thinking of changing my name but I feel a little silly doing it now at my age. I've lived with a name I never liked or felt comfortable with my whole life and, now that I'm older I'm thinking about changing it to something I think fits me better. So, what do you all think? Should I just stick with my old name that everyone knows me by or change it up and go for a new name? Does it even really matter what people call me after all this time?

Thanks all..Maverick

LadyRieinAL 05-08-2012 09:32 PM

Changing name
 
I think, how wonderful that you can allow yourself to grow and change and be who you want to be in any given moment.
Sweet one it is all about you - and you can change it and if it doesn't feel good, or right, the beauty is, you can always change it back.

What matters most is what DOES feel good to you.

LadyRieinAL 05-08-2012 09:36 PM

Ruthie, how horrifying that moment must have been for you - I wish you a speedy recovery - and I pray that the dog doesn't bite anyone else

Jaques 05-09-2012 05:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maverick (Post 581272)
Hey all! Just turned 50 here. Hard to believe how time flies these days and yet still feel young in a lot of ways. I have a question for all of you...I'm thinking of changing my name but I feel a little silly doing it now at my age. I've lived with a name I never liked or felt comfortable with my whole life and, now that I'm older I'm thinking about changing it to something I think fits me better. So, what do you all think? Should I just stick with my old name that everyone knows me by or change it up and go for a new name? Does it even really matter what people call me after all this time?

Thanks all..Maverick

...........hi maverick, i was in my mid 50's when i changed my name from Jacquelyn to Jaques, which everyone called me anyway. I did it because of transitioning, after a lot of thought (years) and didnt change my surname. I dont feel age has any bearing on if/ when a person changes a name rather than the reason, i.e. is it about identity or a need for change (or both)? In the Bible its said that Saul who was at one time a violent man, changed his name to Paul and with that changed his behaviour. Monks and nuns of various religions take new names when entering their chosen way of life. I do feel names, even their sound, have energetic vibrations which go out into the Universe. When your name is spoken out loud, given that vibration is the sound constantly associated with 'you' can mean that if you change your name, you may change what is associated with you.
This is why I decided to change my name as little as possible - i.e. I couldnt live as male with a name like Jacquelyn!
I hope you decide what is right for you, all the best.

Darbonaire 05-09-2012 07:31 AM

If it's what you want.....
 
Do It Maverick! It's your name, your right, & if you truly feel as if you want to move forward in life with a name YOU like & choose......go for it. I did in my 30's & I don't regret it a bit.........good luck with your decision........if it's YOUR decision it will be the right one......

morningstar55 05-09-2012 08:12 AM

Morning loft dwellers n peekers....... maverick,i say do ht also.... and when its all said nd done u will feel so much better :) bowling when i was in my teens i held the record title for a yr for gutter champ

morningstar55 05-09-2012 08:15 AM

(((((((Ruth))))))))))) hope u have a speedy recovery

LadyRain 05-09-2012 07:21 PM

changed my first..middle and last name a few years ago. I never liked my middle name and it did not mean anything then sounding good with my first. Its empowering to re-name yourself!!
Quote:

Originally Posted by Maverick (Post 581272)
Hey all! Just turned 50 here. Hard to believe how time flies these days and yet still feel young in a lot of ways. I have a question for all of you...I'm thinking of changing my name but I feel a little silly doing it now at my age. I've lived with a name I never liked or felt comfortable with my whole life and, now that I'm older I'm thinking about changing it to something I think fits me better. So, what do you all think? Should I just stick with my old name that everyone knows me by or change it up and go for a new name? Does it even really matter what people call me after all this time?

Thanks all..Maverick


Maverick 05-13-2012 01:01 PM

Name Change Update
 
Thanks everyone for your input and support. I'm still deciding whether to do it or not and, at the advice of a close friend and my partner I'm looking into a nickname instead possibly. I'm not hot about the idea but I'm told that people don't like the name I've chosen for myself. I like the name and I know that's what matters so I may just have to get butch and stick with it regardless lol.

Also, I want to say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!! to all the mothers out there.

Mav

deedarino 05-13-2012 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maverick (Post 584196)
Thanks everyone for your input and support. I'm still deciding whether to do it or not and, at the advice of a close friend and my partner I'm looking into a nickname instead possibly. I'm not hot about the idea but I'm told that people don't like the name I've chosen for myself. I like the name and I know that's what matters so I may just have to get butch and stick with it regardless lol.

Also, I want to say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!! to all the mothers out there.

Mav


One of the cool things about getting older is not feeling the need to live for everyone else. It wasn't always that way.

Spend the rest of your years with a name that makes you happy.

OS Butch 05-14-2012 05:43 AM

Good morning. It is a rainy day here in Washington DC. That means I might have the day off from work...I am on stand by right now....playing solitare and having coffee. Have a great day!


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