no...that is not ok and goes against my ethics.

have you ever started a rumor?

have you ever believed a rumor and felt like an ass later because it was not true?

You know I have lol.


Have you ever felt like an ass later because you did not believe a rumor was true? And it was?

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If you knew when you were going to die...would it change the way you live your life?

yes. I would stop procrastinating

If you knew someone whom you cared for deeply, was drinking too much and jeopardizing other people, would you intervene?

If you knew someone whom you cared for deeply, was drinking too much and jeopardizing other people, would you intervene?

Yes, and I have.

If you knew someone was spreading gossip about you, would you confront them face to face?

7 months ago...

If you had to steal food so your Family would have food on the Table, would you?

Yes absolutely..I would do anything for my family..BUT..I would always remember to go back and pay for it and make it right as soon as I could

Is there someone at work that you just can't stand who doesn't know it?

Believe me, they all know exactly how I feel about them, my days are very lonely...

If your significant other had to move away for work reasons would you, are you honestly able to, go with?

Yes, I think I would. If I truly believed in our relationship.


What is the longest relationship you have ever been in?

Twelve years -

Is your phone directory filled with people you've never met IRL but enjoy their friendship?

Is your phone directory filled with people you've never met IRL but enjoy their friendship?

I enjoy many friendships of people I have not met in real time yet. But I hope to really soon. Violaine being high on that list. As well as people close to me from N.J. and PA.

My cell is not filled but I have a few people I talk to on a regular basis.


Who is one person you really want to meet in real time next?

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Morningstar because I like trucks.

If you had a very powerful love spell, where you could marry anyone you want, BUT you both would surely die if you ever wanted to divorce them, would you use it?

Yep!!! :o


In regards to relationships, do you believe in second chances?

I would most likely approach them if I believed others gossip about gossip but I would not "confront" them. Until I speak with a person, face to face, who is suppossedly gossiping about me, it is nothing but hearsay.

I would hope that by the past middle age that many of us are here, we would be past knee jerk reactions and use some of our life wisdom in such matters.

Actually, confront was about face to face. Mostly, I just let it all go because what is done, is done and who knows what is next.

Here are some of my thoughts:
"Everything happens for a reason."
May never know the reason; and in the end it's really not necessary. Some happenings are building blocks, some are whole within themselves. All are there to learn a little bit more of what I want, what I need, and how I choose to respond.

"If it's meant to be."
Involves the belief in destiny. I've pondered this one for years and have found myself on both sides of the question.

"If you love someone, let them go..."
Unconditional love, the acceptance of what is, and the ability to live a joyful life regardless of the outcome.

Do I believe in second chances? Yes. I have been blessed with one.