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*dang phone typos*
Restraing=restraining

Hey Keena,

If you will clear out your private message box .... then I will answer the question you asked me in your private message.

It is full and will not accept any more messages. That is what you get for being so popular. :)

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Originally Posted by RockOn (Post 940564)

In reality Gemme, I would be very different in my remarks here if I were wanting or hopeful of finding a partner online ... a lot more keyed down and respectable acting... but since I would not even consider a LDR, I think maybe I go for the effect ... see what kind of playfulness can be evoked if I am in a "take it to the edge" mood. And if I drop off the edge, no one cares and I do not mind at all either. :)

I appreciate you responding, RockOn.

My question is this: Why?

Why do you feel that you can be one way online and that anyone would believe you to be different in person? I just don't see the need for the duplicity, I guess. I'm a very 'take me as I am' and 'wysiwyg' kind of person, so it's just not how my brain works.

For me....and it's solely on me since you obviously received some positive responses from some femmes....but that was not taking it to the edge. It was more like using a bulldozer to shove someone over the edge. A bit too blatant for me but we all have our things and you just said you don't mind going over the edge, so that's that. :)

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 940569)

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

:|Sorry had a dummy moment!

:blink:

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch (Post 940584)

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

Thank you, Sleepy! lol

I thought it was just me scratching my head on that one.

However, to be more thread appropriate I would say that if I were looking for an intimate relationship with someone, I want everything. I want to see your soft underbelly and your grit and, hopefully, mine would match yours or at least complement it.

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 940569)

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

:|Sorry had a dummy moment!

Dang. I had a visual of a bedside hot tub with rose petals and candles. Le sigh...(f)

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Originally Posted by RockOn (Post 940564)

Im still working on my first cup of coffee, so I might have totally misread this.

Are you saying because you arent looking for something online that it is ok to present yourself as a rude, crude, disrespectful buffoon?

Are you saying, if you were looking for something online, you would present yourself in a more respectful manner?

Are you saying other people here, particularly women, do not deserve your best, or respectful posts, or general niceties of human interaction?

What exactly are you saying?

I'm still trying to figure out why your room has water in it. Handing you a sump pump. :)

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 940569)

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

:|Sorry had a dummy moment!

How about a snorkel instead?

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss (Post 940612)

Dang. I had a visual of a bedside hot tub with rose petals and candles. Le sigh...(f)

:rofl::loveBFP::shark::waterski:

:titantic::theisland::sailing:

Lmao I made a huge typo! Thanks for playing along everyone! I meant to put the rose in a vase full of water!

I need to do an error check each time I post!

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 940669)

Lmao I made a huge typo! Thanks for playing along everyone! I meant to put the rose in a vase full of water!

I need to do an error check each time I post!

Typo huh? Looks like a Freudian slip from here.... :rofl:

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 940669)

Lmao I made a huge typo! Thanks for playing along everyone! I meant to put the rose in a vase full of water!

I need to do an error check each time I post!

Nah.

More fun this way.

Bah, either or, doesn't matter as long as you folks have fun, at my expense!

:p :|

See.. that's what a woman wants. A good sport.

A sense of humor and the ability to Plautus at bone's foilbles. :rubberducky:

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss (Post 940731)

See.. that's what a woman wants. A good sport.

A sense of humor and the ability to Plautus at bone's foilbles. :rubberducky:

:eatinghersheybar: Yes I will be a good sport about it!

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss (Post 940731)

See.. that's what a woman wants. A good sport.

A sense of humor and the ability to Plautus at bone's foilbles. :rubberducky:

Talk about Freudian Slip lol...

I need what I give.

I want what I need.

For me, it's really about the physical, emotional, and mental connection. If one of those is missing, it won't work.

Trust, is the major thing that I want in a relationship.
Respect comes next but that is earned as well.

Someone who will actually stick around like they say they will, instead of playing me for months on end and leaving.

1. Trust
2. Respect
3. communication
4. loyalty
5. compassion
6. Love
7. Understanding
8. Pateinces

A killer sense of humor
Good cook and baker
Someone willing to take the time instead of rushing