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The first person that I went out with, after I started transition was an FTM. He was so gentle and caring with me that it was amazing. I was very terrified when it came to sex, and he let me proceed at my own pace, to find out what worked for me, now that I had begun transition. Everything had changed for me, and he understood that. Since then, I've always had a soft spot in my heart for FTM's and would date them a lot quicker then I would a cis-male.
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I am an FTM/Stone....if one has to be in a box that's where I'd stand.
Personally I am highly attracted to the Femme energy, but that's just me. We're all entitled to love who we want to love for crying out loud. The trick is to stop lying to ourselves, get out there on that dance floor and live. Gender is a fluid thing...there are genders within genders, if you want to split hairs. To say one thing is wrong is to not understand the very nature of what gender identification and expression are all about. It's highly personal...very individualistic....customized, if you will, to each person. Just because I am deeply attracted to Femmes doesn't mean that's the only way for others to live. Heck no. Let's celebrate love, not limits. Great forum, great Planet. Thanks for being here! |
im single..... i never dated someone whom is FTM..
have had relationships and some dates whom id as stone.. im not even sure if Im even femme enough for some.. i mean i am a lady/girl/femme even though my job is not very lady like.. but i do see a lot of very femine women out there whom drive them big rigs. im just a girl next door kinda girl. :) some say i just hadnt met the right one yet......... well crap im 57 already. im not holding my breath. i am lonely .. but i know im not desperate either. maybe im doing something wrong. anyways............. this is a interesting thread. will subscribe........ annnnd guess i need to get to work... have a awsome day/ weekend , everyone. |
good morning FATF dwellers and peekers i been reading some postings here yesterday and well just can not understand this............ 2 people...... doesnt matter if your str8/ftm/mtf/butch femme or what ever. when a couple has so much love for each other... why can not they make it work??? doesnt love conquer all??? it is soo hard to find true love , a deep love and when you do find it and its mutual , stick with it... its like that song.. if you see a chance take it.. find romance embrace it?? think thats how it goees.. lol its a old Steve Winwood song... heh Darbonaire n LadyRieinAL life is way way to short.... and in our age group, its soo soo very hard to find someone ... must be something to work out to keep ya'll together. I hate seeing such loving couples fall apart when it could of been prevented. I guess i am a strong believer in working on a relationship when its worth saving. ya know grandma n grandpa didnt get to there 50th wedding anniversary on a bed of roses, im sure there were some thorns somewhere along the way. anyways. just my thoughts this morning.... ha and i havnt had my coffee yet.. lol im heading to Ithaca and then to detroit today. have a great day everyone. :) |
Just came in to say good morning to everyone :)
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One day at a time....
Treated myself to a wonderful massage today....wow, maybe I should date a massage therapist?.....LOL......I'm trying my best to stay positive, fill my days with new friends & new experiences.....thank God for my cat......lol......she's my baby girl & has gotten me through a LOT !
I just wanted to stop in & say hello & I wish everyone a super evening & a wonderful tomorrow ! Jonathan |
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my cat has gotten me through a lot also now if i could get him to stop snoring at nite hello to all the ladies and gents on the thread |
My husband was always into feminine, straight, bi or gay. It makes no difference to him who I fancy, provided he's quite high on the list.
I think ten years back girls like me were just too lesbian to date FTM's, whereas now we're all part of the same community. For the boys, I guess it's a lot safer dating a lesbian once you look like a man. For the girls, I guess we get the authentically queer experience, with someone who's simultaneously breaking as well as maintaining binaries ... or perhaps that's just my take on it all. It did surprise me that I could fancy the pants off a man, it didn't surprise him that he could fancy me. He led me astray, clearly! |
Just came in to spread my love around for all the amazing guys here :)
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Ohhh.. Hello all :) I'm FTM and am attracted to femmes.. I guess I might belong in this thread :p *waves to everyone*
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I consider myself to be pansexual.. Meaning that I am attracted to the person rather then thier gender.. that being said.. For me personally, I tend to have fun and play with guys and settle down and date women.. I am also poly, so this has worked well for me in my personal life :) Currently I am "single" meaning that I do have some very close intimate friends and playmates, but I am not dating anyone nor am I in a relationship with anyone.. That is just my thoughts on the original post :) |
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Don't give up!
You're plenty feminine! Don't you dare think otherwise! Driving a truck, far out! Nothing wrong with that! Hell! Turns me right the heck on! I like it when people are who they want to be, regardless of stereotyping and labeling. There is someone out there for you. Hang in there. Love's a funny thing, it sneaks up on you lots of times right after you've given up...then WHAMMO! So don't worry...love is coming. You don't have to change a thing...just be there for it. You're perfect, just the way you are. |
I thought I would peek around the curtain and say hello. :bath:I am looking for a welcoming place to hang my hat. Good evening one and all.:formalbow:
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Femmes are amazing.
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