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Leigh 01-21-2010 07:42 PM

I have to say first of all that I *LOVE* this group!! I've been thinking alot about losing weight lately, and especially since finding out that I have to go for surgery I know for a fact that I need to lose weight (for My health, not for any other reason). I've been truly inspired reading this thread, not only by Candace and her will to lose weight in a way thats healthy for her but also that she has created this space as a way for herself (and others) to remain accountable for their own weight loss .............. brilliant !!!!!!!

I went to a specialist this past Tuesday to find out if I had to go for surgery or not (long story but turns out I do) and they weighed Me on a scale (which is the first time I've been weighed in a LONG time). The numbers were in kilos so once I got home I looked up the conversion into pounds on the internet and almost fainted when I saw what those kilos actually meant ............ I am at 354 lbs!!!!!!! Holy crap, how in the HELL did I ever let Myself get this far???? I saw those numbers and said to Myself alright man, its time to stop letting yourself go and start doing something about it so I'm coming back to this thread to get motivated to become healthy!!!!

I will be coming back to this thread often ............ thank you to all of those who have posted so far (and those yet to post), and I look forward to being along for the ride with all of you while we get healthy and lose weight :thumbsup:

canmarielan 01-21-2010 09:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lips (Post 37262)
Good Job Candace! That a lot of weight to lose!

Now, why haven't you called me back...hmmmmm?


I didn't know you called. I got this voicemail a while back from a 512 number was that you?? I couldn't understand anything you said on the message!!!!!! I thought it was a bill collector :) hahaaaaa.......

CALL ME AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Quote:

Originally Posted by Braedon (Post 37458)
I have to say first of all that I *LOVE* this group!! I've been thinking alot about losing weight lately, and especially since finding out that I have to go for surgery I know for a fact that I need to lose weight (for My health, not for any other reason). I've been truly inspired reading this thread, not only by Candace and her will to lose weight in a way thats healthy for her but also that she has created this space as a way for herself (and others) to remain accountable for their own weight loss .............. brilliant !!!!!!!

I went to a specialist this past Tuesday to find out if I had to go for surgery or not (long story but turns out I do) and they weighed Me on a scale (which is the first time I've been weighed in a LONG time). The numbers were in kilos so once I got home I looked up the conversion into pounds on the internet and almost fainted when I saw what those kilos actually meant ............ I am at 354 lbs!!!!!!! Holy crap, how in the HELL did I ever let Myself get this far???? I saw those numbers and said to Myself alright man, its time to stop letting yourself go and start doing something about it so I'm coming back to this thread to get motivated to become healthy!!!!

I will be coming back to this thread often ............ thank you to all of those who have posted so far (and those yet to post), and I look forward to being along for the ride with all of you while we get healthy and lose weight :thumbsup:

We all have to start somewhere my darling!!!!

I am so glad you are putting your best foot forward :)



So, I finally had so much pain in that ankle that I had to go to the doctor. I have the worst sprain the doctor has seen for a while. We wrapped it and he has instructed me to NOT workout for a week. A WEEK!!!!!!!! Geezus.....

I've been doing so well, this makes me nervous. I will continue and keep my head up...and my leg up for that matter hahaaa...

I'm sorry I missed the chat room tonight...unfortunately I was at the damn doctor. Had a late apt 6:30 since I procrastinated so long.

I hope it went well. I love you all....

Arwen 01-21-2010 11:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diavolo (Post 37228)
Uh, there you have it. :blink:

LOL. I took your name in vain today when I saw that I was over my sugar intake AGAIN. :) Somehow I know it's your fault, honey. Now come to Austin so I can let you have it.

We will discuss what it is when you get here.

christie 01-22-2010 07:34 AM

One of the things that I would like to make mention of here is that I think we all need to be mindful of not measuring (or diminishing) our individual progress against each other.

The lovely Diva said something, that I am sure was tongue in cheek, about her "measely three pounds". I think that we need to remember that each of our bodies are different and while I may be on a plan where I lose 7lbs in a week, you can't compare yourself to that if you are on a plan where you lose 7lbs in two weeks.

Just as we are all different in how we think, etc, our bodies are wired differently. I think that ALL of our victories and efforts are cause for celebrations with fanfare and grandiosity!

Kudos to each of us in our efforts to be healthier! :cheer:

Diva 01-22-2010 07:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by christie0918 (Post 37634)
One of the things that I would like to make mention of here is that I think we all need to be mindful of not measuring (or diminishing) our individual progress against each other.

The lovely Diva said something, that I am sure was tongue in cheek, about her "measely three pounds". I think that we need to remember that each of our bodies are different and while I may be on a plan where I lose 7lbs in a week, you can't compare yourself to that if you are on a plan where you lose 7lbs in two weeks.

Just as we are all different in how we think, etc, our bodies are wired differently. I think that ALL of our victories and efforts are cause for celebrations with fanfare and grandiosity!

Kudos to each of us in our efforts to be healthier! :cheer:


Thank You, Christie......it was tongue in cheek.....

And I can't say "measely" any more....because I've lost 5 now....:D

:flowers:

christie 01-22-2010 07:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 37635)
Thank You, Christie......it was tongue in cheek.....

And I can't say "measely" any more....because I've lost 5 now....:D

:flowers:


WTG!!!

I am really back on the no carb wagon now! I came home early this week and Jess had made me a delish broccoli soup and ground chuck steak dinner - no carbs! yay!

I have discovered that WaWa not only has the eggs/bacon bowls, but i can have them take a cheesesteak and make it in a bowl too! I hope with the sale of Ukrops to Giant that I dont lose the amazing salad bar! That would be tragic!

Arwen 01-22-2010 11:33 AM

If you miss mashed potatoes, try mashed cauliflower. Chili's used to serve this dish. Really loved it. I also like mashed turnips. :) Blame that on my crazy Yankee aunt. She blames it on our cousins in Ireland.

Sachita 01-22-2010 12:27 PM

I think you're doing great! I also love reading your post and hearing about your challenges. I even visited a few sites.

I suck at counting and keeping track. Last year I was feeling like crap. I had pain in my chest, stomach and for years trying to lose 50 lbs I picked up after a break-up.

anyhow, I looked into a diet called "Eat to Live". It seemed really extreme but I was ready to not only lose weight but heal my body. I adapted it quite a bit and lost a lot in a short amount of time. I struggled because I still like meat now and then and eat organic chicken. It was also hard to center your life around eating but I will say this... I never felt better.

I still eat things I really love just not as much. I love tacos and buy free range bison and organic ground turkey.

Here's the key and if you do this, just add this, it will greatly improve your health which will also help you naturally lose and begin to change your life.

I bought a Bullet Express. I juice carrots, ginger, celery and some kind of green- kale, spinach, whatever.
I also chopped cabbage, broccoli, parsley, all kinds of raw veggies. Put some olive oil and balsamic and some crumbled goat cheese.

I also do a fruit smoothie. Frozen berries, a banana, pineapple, frozen mango and a bit of organic soy milk. I make a BIG one too. Its very filling so many times i have this later in the day to help with my cravings.

I try to get as many raw fruits and veggies in my diet as I can. I make brown rice ahead and throw in all kinds of stuff. I eat whole wheat wraps with humus and more greens.

BUT I also eat other stuff, however many times I'm full from all the greens. I dont count anything. I focus on getting as many nutrients into my body as I can and stay away from processed food.

The other thing that helps me is that I make stuff ahead. Not just salads but chili, curry stews, things that are comforting, warm and will curb some cravings. I just make sure I add a salad or something.

I also buy organic fruit babyfood simply because some things are hard to get where I live and you run out. I want to get at least 6 servings of fruit a day... pears, blueberries, banana, mango, etc. Im in a hurry I eat babyfood or I run out of fruit.

I grow a lot but with this diet I need to increase but I dont grow fruit in winter. I started figuring out cost, gas, time and availability. In the winter it makes more sense for me to www.diamondorganics.com the food is shipped FREE overnight and its really fresh. Fresher then the stores. I get a large sampler packaged for 115 (12 lbs of produce) and that last me about 10 days. I still buy my organic carrots and tubs of spinach elsewhere.

You have to do what works for you. This works for me and I am noticing a difference in every aspect of my life. I do a pint of ice cream once or twice a month, love fresh bread and other goodies. I treat myself and I am still losing and week by week notice lots of things. I fell off over the holidays, ate too much crap an within 2 weeks felt like crao again and quickly got my ass in gear.

I just stopped smoking again, FIVE DAYS now and really feeling good.

Sachita 01-22-2010 12:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen (Post 37688)
If you miss mashed potatoes, try mashed cauliflower. Chili's used to serve this dish. Really loved it. I also like mashed turnips. :) Blame that on my crazy Yankee aunt. She blames it on our cousins in Ireland.


Or mashed sweet potatoes with cinnamon! l

Corkey 01-22-2010 02:05 PM

I joined sparkpeople today and because my exercise is limited, I am going to track my nutritional levels to see just where I'm at.
I have DDD, fibro and arthritis so there are things I just can't participate in.

Diavolo 01-22-2010 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen (Post 37555)
LOL. I took your name in vain today when I saw that I was over my sugar intake AGAIN. :) Somehow I know it's your fault, honey. Now come to Austin so I can let you have it.

We will discuss what it is when you get here.

I'm working hard to be there for the Ride for the Roses. We'll see what kind of year I have.

Arwen 01-22-2010 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diavolo (Post 37968)
I'm working hard to be there for the Ride for the Roses. We'll see what kind of year I have.


You know my home is open to you if you need a place to park your head. :alarm:If you are allergic to cats, however.... :) They will sit on your head.

canmarielan 01-23-2010 04:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 37710)
I think you're doing great! I also love reading your post and hearing about your challenges. I even visited a few sites.

I suck at counting and keeping track. Last year I was feeling like crap. I had pain in my chest, stomach and for years trying to lose 50 lbs I picked up after a break-up.

anyhow, I looked into a diet called "Eat to Live". It seemed really extreme but I was ready to not only lose weight but heal my body. I adapted it quite a bit and lost a lot in a short amount of time. I struggled because I still like meat now and then and eat organic chicken. It was also hard to center your life around eating but I will say this... I never felt better.

I still eat things I really love just not as much. I love tacos and buy free range bison and organic ground turkey.

Here's the key and if you do this, just add this, it will greatly improve your health which will also help you naturally lose and begin to change your life.

I bought a Bullet Express. I juice carrots, ginger, celery and some kind of green- kale, spinach, whatever.
I also chopped cabbage, broccoli, parsley, all kinds of raw veggies. Put some olive oil and balsamic and some crumbled goat cheese.

I also do a fruit smoothie. Frozen berries, a banana, pineapple, frozen mango and a bit of organic soy milk. I make a BIG one too. Its very filling so many times i have this later in the day to help with my cravings.

I try to get as many raw fruits and veggies in my diet as I can. I make brown rice ahead and throw in all kinds of stuff. I eat whole wheat wraps with humus and more greens.

BUT I also eat other stuff, however many times I'm full from all the greens. I dont count anything. I focus on getting as many nutrients into my body as I can and stay away from processed food.

The other thing that helps me is that I make stuff ahead. Not just salads but chili, curry stews, things that are comforting, warm and will curb some cravings. I just make sure I add a salad or something.

I also buy organic fruit babyfood simply because some things are hard to get where I live and you run out. I want to get at least 6 servings of fruit a day... pears, blueberries, banana, mango, etc. Im in a hurry I eat babyfood or I run out of fruit.

I grow a lot but with this diet I need to increase but I dont grow fruit in winter. I started figuring out cost, gas, time and availability. In the winter it makes more sense for me to www.diamondorganics.com the food is shipped FREE overnight and its really fresh. Fresher then the stores. I get a large sampler packaged for 115 (12 lbs of produce) and that last me about 10 days. I still buy my organic carrots and tubs of spinach elsewhere.

You have to do what works for you. This works for me and I am noticing a difference in every aspect of my life. I do a pint of ice cream once or twice a month, love fresh bread and other goodies. I treat myself and I am still losing and week by week notice lots of things. I fell off over the holidays, ate too much crap an within 2 weeks felt like crao again and quickly got my ass in gear.

I just stopped smoking again, FIVE DAYS now and really feeling good.

Congrats on all your great changes, darling.

I need to get me a juicer. And a blender. Those are my next missions :)

I always wondered if what they said was true about carrot juice being tasty.
hmmm...

*smiles*

Welcome aboard!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Corkey (Post 37754)
I joined sparkpeople today and because my exercise is limited, I am going to track my nutritional levels to see just where I'm at.
I have DDD, fibro and arthritis so there are things I just can't participate in.

I completely understand! I've now learned that there is only so much that my knees and ankles can take right now. I need to be careful and ice up before i exercise. These joints have been carrying a hell of a lot of weight around for a lot of years. I haven't been nice to them :)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen (Post 38025)

You know my home is open to you if you need a place to park your head. :alarm:If you are allergic to cats, however.... :) They will sit on your head.

This is so true.

Also, the fox are dangerous.

Diavolo 01-23-2010 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen (Post 38025)

You know my home is open to you if you need a place to park your head. :alarm:If you are allergic to cats, however.... :) They will sit on your head.

The only thing that makes me break out in hives is racism and bigotry. Be sure to check out today's rant....

Arwen 01-23-2010 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by canmarielan (Post 38094)
This is so true.

Also, the fox are dangerous.

The fox miss you. :) I saw a great picture today of a fox as a housepet and thought of you. hee. Take care of that ankle, honey! Maybe explore some water exercises to take some strain off those joints for now. Love you!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diavolo (Post 38321)
The only thing that makes me break out in hives is racism and bigotry. Be sure to check out today's rant....

On my way to read some colorful mammal ears. :)

canmarielan 01-24-2010 04:01 AM

*sad face* where is everyone??

Today was an okay day. I worked. I came home. I cooked dinner, I packed my lunch.

I'm now watching TV and posting here.

I'm sort of bored.

Kass went out tonight. She invited me...but....I didn't go.

I'm still really leary of going out after what happened the last time. I can't stand the thought of anyone....looking at me.

I hate it.

amiyesiam 01-24-2010 10:22 AM

Hi
I hope you feel better soon!
I am not going to ask what happened last time
I just hope it doesn't happen again

It is ok, just fine, normal to have feelings

Gemme 01-24-2010 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 37715)
Or mashed sweet potatoes with cinnamon! l

A quick note for those who don't know...cinnamon has been shown to help rev up the metabolism, so not only is it deeeelish, it will have a beneficial effect on YOU!



Candace, you are such a darling person. Like ami, I don't know what happened last time, but I can guess. It's so difficult when you are at the point that you are. You're still figuring out what is best for you and are making some strong and well-defined but also some tentative and unsure changes and the last thing you need is negativity coloring your world. Let them have their own damn coloring book. Yours is taken! Hugs and a little :ohm: for you and some :nyahnyah: and :spider: for them.

Lady Jewel 01-24-2010 08:29 PM

WLS
 
Wanted to apologize to everyone who came to the WLS group on Thursday. I started getting sick that evening and havent been back since then. I have pneumonia :( So I havent been here since that night. I do check my email once a day so if anyone needs to get a a hold of me, PM here at BFP and I will see it in my email. Im so proud of everyone who has made that first step towards a longer life and better health. Im sorry I havent been much support since we started the WLS group, but I promise as soon as I am better I will come out fighting.

My love to all,
Jewel:bunchflowers:

amiyesiam 01-24-2010 11:09 PM

Wishing you a speedy recovery Jewel.


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