sexy arms and a great sense of humor

self confidence

getting cruised from across the room!

strong shoulders and backs are my weakness.....always have been....

Yowza! I second all of these!

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music..... :|

I love accents as well. Certain South and Central American accents are my favorites. I feel them on a visceral level. And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful. Then there are things that a person I am attracted to can do to turn me on. My wife doing or saying something that I find particularly hot (which happens often really) works instantly but I doubt it would have the same effect if anyone else were doing/saying it. I guess she has the keys to the instant turn-on switch.

there are certain fragrances that Victoria secret has that for some reason flip a switch , I have a very hard time containing myself

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me.... ;)

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment. If we are speaking of a more physical outcome then a turn on with one person does not translate into a turn on with another. I agree with that. I also cannot tie one thing into an instant turn on other then a general physical and mental butchness which has to be accompanied by the attractiveness, as interpreted by me, of that person as a whole.

I can remember mentioning to people who would comment on my crooked teeth that it my unique characteristic and is a part of what makes me me. I expect it was your positive reinforcement that allowed me to believe it.

I'm sure that is what it is supposed to be. I don't know if you know this about me, but I tend to over-analyze stuff. I turn it over and over looking at it from every angle possible, then I might dunk it in a pail of water to see how it handles being wet. Then I squeeze it making sure to wring out every bit of spontaneity and joy. I examine and then re-examine. I even bore myself.

Instant.
 

Instant to me is visual, audio, physical.
The click of high heels on the floor.
Blonde hair.
Beautiful & manicured hands.
Manicured nails on my skin.
Said hands in my hair.
A soft whisper.
A soft Southern accent.
That look...in her eyes & in her appearance.
Damn, I got more but I think I beat stop here.
Lol

Her smile as I get
 

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look :love1:

This is how you see me? Wow. I love you forever. Your kaijira

Oh, I do know that gets you Love. Big Hug. j