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Stud_puppy1991 08-30-2016 10:06 PM

Appreciation, loyalty, to be told I have worth, cuddles, kisses, gentle touches, and honesty. I don't think that's asking too much

Gemme 08-31-2016 09:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1087500)
A Honey Do List..................

It's good to feel wanted and needed!

Zimmeh 08-31-2016 11:15 AM

That I will have days where I just need a hug to make my day complete.

Zimmeh

girl_dee 07-07-2017 03:31 AM

one of the things......
 
i recently retook the 5 languages of love test and while i am not even sure i agree with the results, this came up....

Words of affirmation are key. i don't know why but those words that come from no where, for no reason.... anchor me in.

2qt 07-07-2017 06:57 AM

A smile even when you know i'm just being stubborn.... Personal space to grow & learn from myself & in each other...Not to be your only priority in life...To just be held in my weakest moments when I may not appear to want it...

A massage now & then would be great... lol

hopelessromantic69 07-07-2017 08:41 AM

Understanding me as I can be hard to love at times. Allowing my loner side some space. Forgive my weaknesses and enjoy my strengths. Except the fact that I talk a lot...I mean a lot after drinking coffee lol. Trust in my understanding Of your fears or concerns.

When I'm sick I tend to take care of myself but some home made chicken noodle soup would be nice ;)

Tuff Stuff 07-30-2017 07:34 PM

Cupcakes... :cheer:

gotoseagrl 07-30-2017 07:50 PM

~ Consistent peace
~ Authenticity
~ Listening
~ Respect
~ The feeling that words can't provide
~ Puppy sleeping on my head in the morning

hopelessromantic69 07-30-2017 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 2qt (Post 1154268)
A smile even when you know i'm just being stubborn.... Personal space to grow & learn from myself & in each other...Not to be your only priority in life...To just be held in my weakest moments when I may not appear to want it...

A massage now & then would be great... lol

I will hold you in your strongest moments also 😉

The massage is only if you have behaved...

kittygrrl 07-31-2017 08:19 AM

to feel safe-

2qt 07-31-2017 09:12 AM

Coffee..... :giggle:

Canela 07-31-2017 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 1154249)
i recently retook the 5 languages of love test and while i am not even sure i agree with the results, this came up....

Words of affirmation are key. i don't know why but those words that come from no where, for no reason.... anchor me in.

I was just going to post the same thing!

Words of affirmation are exactly the balm my spirit needs sometimes. Just that is enough usually... but then I'm a teacup... lol

homoe 07-31-2017 10:09 AM

CASH.......bushels and bushels of cash.........:giggle:

firecat242 07-31-2017 10:12 AM

love
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by 2qt (Post 1160128)
Coffee..... :giggle:

and some cheesecake....

girl_dee 07-31-2017 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canela (Post 1160146)
I was just going to post the same thing!

Words of affirmation are exactly the balm my spirit needs sometimes. Just that is enough usually... but then I'm a teacup... lol

Words stay with me...ohhh those sweet little tidbits make me melt.... :bunchflowers:

BullDog 07-31-2017 11:15 AM

Kindness

Respect

Thoughtfulness

Willingness to work out problems and misunderstandings. Recognize that I always operate from good intent and am willing to communicate and work things out and be willing to offer the same.

knight 07-31-2017 12:11 PM

Love Thyself
 
For the Person to Love themself

2qt 07-31-2017 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1160147)
CASH.......bushels and bushels of cash.........:giggle:

Bushels here is a brand of tea bag so when translated it become tea bags & tea bags of cash....Made me giggle even harder.... :D


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Originally Posted by firecat242 (Post 1160148)
and some cheesecake....

I am out of cheesecake! But I do have some cookies if those will work :)

Shystonefem 08-06-2017 07:17 PM

Let me be me. I am quirky, crazy, fearless and fearful. I can beat anything that tries to stop me but sometimes I need to hide from the bad. I need to feel the sovereign .... I don't need to be harped on when I am wrong, I can figure that out. I just want a place to go that is safe from ridicule and safe from the energy suckers.

I got my partner and I expect my partner to have me.

kittygrrl 08-06-2017 08:34 PM

People who spread lies about people they don't even know will end up losing everything they value. If you want to be loved, be a decent honorable person because in the end you have to live with yourself. Remember that.

firegal 08-06-2017 10:03 PM

The little things.. i want to be more than a passing..obligated thought.

girl_dee 08-07-2017 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by firegal (Post 1161619)
The little things.. i want to be more than a passing..obligated thought.

YES.

if someone feels obligated what is the point?

Gemme 08-07-2017 05:18 AM

A little time, a lotta love and the freedom to be me and to be appreciated for what I bring to the table. When you know you are really and truly valued in a relationship, there are no limits.

jingles76 08-07-2017 08:45 AM

Safe feelings and patience, I hear I am hard to love

thedreamerin 08-12-2017 11:21 PM

Just good vibes
 
I'm sensitive. I need to feel it. I also need to hear it. The best way is to listen. When you listen and respond with gentleness I eat that up.

CherryWine 08-13-2017 01:10 AM

Consistency.

homoe 11-27-2017 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adorable (Post 89988)
I have been thinking about this for the last few days. Sometimes I think, we think we know - but do we really? Can we actually say or explain our needs to another person?

What makes YOU feel secure and loved?

Is it a way that someone talks to you? That they pay attention to how you feel and are in tune with your emotions? Do they make you feel interesting and special? Is it being able to say nothing and just "be" with that person?

Or is it in gestures? Flowers, breakfast in bed? Notes on the pillow?

Is it routine? Coming home every Friday and knowing that Friday is always pizza night? Making the bed together every morning? Sunday is cleaning day?

What do you need to feel loved the way that you need to be loved?

May I suggest scanning Chapman's book Five Languages of Love ...

girl_dee 11-27-2017 04:35 PM

To feel like a priority :wine:

REA33 06-24-2018 07:25 PM

Ha!
 
She is there for me when I really need her presence
She doesn't blame me if I make a mistake in harsh words
She knows how to soothe my bitter and hard feeling
She gives her patience toward me
and being faithful with me


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