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Miss Scarlett 04-10-2011 09:08 AM

Forgot to add this to my previous past...

When things get too overwhelming i drive up to the mountains for some meditation time atop Waterrock Knob or Richland Balsam (pics of both are in my gallery) - the two highest places along the Blue Ridge Parkway...:ohm:

Kenna 04-10-2011 09:21 AM

Watching all the beautiful bluebirds [from my porch and window] who have called our yard and trees home. This is the first time in my life that bluebirds have chosen to nest so close. It's a thrill to watch them and a special treat to see their flash of color and watch their antics (even if it means my car has birdie poop all over it).

Sitting hear enjoying a late breakfast while listening to all the birdies.... music to my ears.

Miss Scarlett 04-10-2011 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 317145)
Watching all the beautiful bluebirds [from my porch and window] who have called our yard and trees home. This is the first time in my life that bluebirds have chosen to nest so close. It's a thrill to watch them and a special treat to see their flash of color and watch their antics (even if it means my car has birdie poop all over it).

Sitting hear enjoying a late breakfast while listening to all the birdies.... music to my ears.

You have Bluebirds? OMG that is so cool! i don't have anything over here except Robins, Cardinals, Finches, Sparrows, Grackles, Crows, Mockingbirds, Red-shouldered Hawks and Barred Owls...

i miss Blue Jays, Bluebirds and hummingbirds - won't put out a hummingbird feeder because it attracts yellow jackets, wasps, bees etc. and i am deathly allergic to them...

justpjhere 04-10-2011 11:57 AM

peace
 
floating on the bay in the sailboat and listening to the water against the boat....everything wrong kinda gets made right...

Diva 04-10-2011 12:01 PM

This may sound totally silly & redundant......but PEACE gives me peace.....

Just knowing that in spite of it all, everything's going to be ok.....a quiet Sunday morning....Ottmar Liebert playing in the background....a wonderful cup of coffee....and painting......knowing I am loved.....knowing I am LIKED.....all of those things give me peace.


Life is good.





miss entycing 04-10-2011 12:43 PM

peace...
i try to make my own peace... until my own mind gets in the way.
riding up the mountain up to Lake Lure for the day, or week, or....
an 8 year old boy with lots of swagga, laying in my lap.. unbelievable peace.
my writing, even the dark ones give me peace.
having the house to myself, and surrounding myself with loud music.
the company of someone exquisite... beyond peaceful.
the love of my best friend and sistah gives me unconditional peace.
i find peace when i fly... then drop deep.

lionpaw 04-10-2011 01:58 PM

Peace....


That my peace always begins with me....

My relationship with my wife......

Hearing the sounds of nature around us.......The geese flying overhead.....The crickets in the evening....

Love coming from our dearest friends.....

Guy 04-10-2011 02:01 PM

Hearing the kids in the pool next door screaming marrrrrcooooo polooooooooo.

Confirming that my favorite time of year has finally arrived.

Being on the water

The sound of the motor at top speed

Hearing the wake pounding against the bow

Being surrounded by the beautiful Gulf waters

Kenna 04-10-2011 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 317185)
You have Bluebirds? OMG that is so cool! i don't have anything over here except Robins, Cardinals, Finches, Sparrows, Grackles, Crows, Mockingbirds, Red-shouldered Hawks and Barred Owls...

i miss Blue Jays, Bluebirds and hummingbirds - won't put out a hummingbird feeder because it attracts yellow jackets, wasps, bees etc. and i am deathly allergic to them...

OMG!!! LMAO!!!! :rofl:
I just asked Blade "what is a Red-shouldered Hawk? I've heard of Red-Tailed Hawk....but Miss Scarlett says we have Red-shouldered Hawks here?
his response: :eyebrow: :seconddoh: She must'a been looking at them upside down.


:rofl:

Miss Scarlett 04-10-2011 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 317654)
OMG!!! LMAO!!!! :rofl:
I just asked Blade "what is a Red-shouldered Hawk? I've heard of Red-Tailed Hawk....but Miss Scarlett says we have Red-shouldered Hawks here?
his response: :eyebrow: :seconddoh: She must'a been looking at them upside down.
:rofl:

OK...i admit i may be a bit challenged when it comes to things like pipe insulation and closing car windows...but i know enough to know that looking at hawks upside down only tells you if they are a boy or girl....wait, that's cats and dogs and you lift their tails...LOL

Seriously - here's a photo

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_AiHL6WpaVn...,+2008+(6).JPG

And a link...

They do exist...LOL

Blade 04-11-2011 02:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 317661)
OK...i admit i may be a bit challenged when it comes to things like pipe insulation and closing car windows...but i know enough to know that looking at hawks upside down only tells you if they are a boy or girl....wait, that's cats and dogs and you lift their tails...LOL

They do exist...LOL

And they are seemingly such talented creatures

By the time they are five days old, nestling Red-shouldered Hawks can shoot their feces over the edge of their nest.


Soft*Silver 04-11-2011 09:03 AM

listening to horses eat their evening meal

baking a batch of cookies

mixing potting soil

feeding the birds on a cold winters morning

painting my toenails to match my fingernails

pulling out summer clothes and having them all fit or be loose

eating a cantelope that is warm and juicy

water lapping on my ankles as I watch a child play in it

going thru the many cards I have kept over the years from various people for various reasons

coffee on the front porch very early on a very hot summer day

remembering love not gone wrong


Andrew, Jr. 04-19-2011 01:45 PM

What gives me peace...
 

*Swimming

*Sending out cards

*Meditating/Praying

*Fishing

*Birdwatching

*Gardening

*Loving on my furkids

Soft*Silver 04-19-2011 02:54 PM

sitting quietly and reading a good book with the old kitty in my lap

calling an old friend and refreshing our acquaintance

praying

honey in my hot tea

my town is called the city of churches and I love to hear the church bells ring...I find myself listening for them throughout the day


femmedyke 04-19-2011 03:06 PM

music, particularly with an acoustic guitar.

Sweet_Amor_Taino 05-24-2011 10:01 PM

Peace of my and soul
 
A warm morning shower
Sitting on my balcony early in the monring drinking a cup of coffee.
Watching the hummingbirds visit me and enjoy their meal
Chanting and reciting morning and evening Gongyo ( Buddhist prayers)

Tommi 05-24-2011 10:08 PM

Create
 
stark white linen canvas

Squeezing a strip of color onto a palette

swiping a clean sable brush through it

that first stroke on a blank canvas

somewhere from within an image

a painting is born

Venus007 05-24-2011 11:05 PM

Deep peace givers. . .
 
Acceptance
Releasing desire
Calm knowledge that it all ends one day

NorCalStud 05-25-2011 01:02 AM

Giving a good spanking and all that juicy stuff

ruthie14 05-25-2011 04:19 AM

The ocean... which I haven't seen for far too long. Will be rectifying that soon!

Ruthie

LipstickLola 05-25-2011 10:40 AM

Walking in the barn and inhaling deeply, listening....looking, exhaling......

Lying in her arms.....

Sitting by the water....

The birds in early morning....

Jar 05-25-2011 10:54 AM

When I figure it out you'll be the first to know ... :watereyes:

Diva 05-25-2011 09:17 PM

Weeding my garden...............a deep cleanse...........




T D 05-25-2011 10:13 PM

Sleeping..... tis true :|


FeminineAllure 05-26-2011 07:00 AM

Watching flames as in a candle or fire.:vigil:

cuddlyfemme 05-26-2011 08:06 AM

Listening to music
Watching my cats sleep and listening to them snore

miss entycing 05-26-2011 08:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jar (Post 345836)
When I figure it out you'll be the first to know ... :watereyes:


i second that my Friend.
:|
lotsa things give me peace normally.
instant gratification is sounding sweet right about now tho!
thinking today my 'peace' shall be a nice drive with really loud music.
indeed.

Jar 05-26-2011 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EntycingFemme (Post 346425)
thinking today my 'peace' shall be a nice drive with really loud music.

Since I hit a brick wall (not literally) a few weeks ago I've found that I appreciate music a lot more. It brings me a sense of peace to drive through the Ct. countryside and listen to sad, lost your love, type of songs. My poor dog is ready to hang herself ....

Diva 05-26-2011 11:19 AM

Removing toxicity from my life gives me peace.....sometimes, it's easier said than done, but when it happens, it's magically delicious!




Latino.Hrt 05-26-2011 11:26 AM

for today___
 
sittin' in complete Silence-

Andrew, Jr. 05-26-2011 11:26 AM

What gives me peace...
 

*Watching the fire in my chimnea;

*Angels;

*Stained glassed windows in any Church;

*My garden.

Latino.Hrt 06-09-2011 11:14 AM

Layin' in the grass on My back__and starin' at the clouds then closin' My eyes and gettin' lost in all the sounds around....:praying:

Jess 06-09-2011 11:54 AM

Falling asleep with a gentle rain falling on the house, cuddled up with the wife, our boy in his room and all the pups sleeping soundly. Peace.

Softhearted 06-09-2011 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 3191)
If You've had a cruddy day, what do You do to 'shake it off'? Meditate? Listen to music? Read? Walk?

What do You do to center Yourself...to bring peace to Your soul?



~Diva





In order to bring peace to my soul, I go to the park and watch the squirrels and birds... It works for me!

Novelafemme 06-09-2011 01:25 PM

right now what brings me peace is:

strong arms that hold me when fear knocks

the quail singing in the back yard

listening to my girl, adele

~BluEydFemme~ 06-09-2011 01:32 PM

What Gives Me Peace
 
What Gives Me Peace:
1.) Listening to music....especially "Rolling in the Deep" by Adele
2.) Going for aimless drives
3.) Being near the ocean
4.) Spending time with good friends
5.) Listening to the rain

AtLast 06-09-2011 01:34 PM

Putting around in the garden.

Giving myself kudos for sticking to my values and boundaries without guilt!

Watching my little Frog Dog take in the scent of a flower.

Giving my old cat that is in the end of life phase due to kidney failure lots of love and brushing him while he purr thanks me.

gotoseagrl 06-09-2011 02:18 PM

water
quiet library
museum
creating
breeze through the trees
cool sheets
totally relaxed cats
Chopin
vd D (ultimate peace)

avec_amore 06-09-2011 02:39 PM

Watching the waves break on the shore, the smell of seasalt in the air
Listening to a beautiful thunderstorm (great for making love to :) )
The smell of rain in the desert
My favorite music, especially on a long drive with the windows down
Reading a very good book
Time with friends
Memories of my "children" when they were little, building sandcastles on the beach
California Poppies
Being loved, understood, appreciated and *wanted*
Holding hands with above said person :) whoever that may someday be
A really long, sweet kiss (see above)
Spooning to sleep
Long, hot showers

Camo Eagle 06-09-2011 10:48 PM

Inner growth, and that AHA moment, when you realize it.


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