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Okiebug61 07-06-2011 06:59 PM

One of the most disturbing things for me about the entire situation is the vigilante way people act. I am not the higher power, I am not a person who can say she did or did not commit this horrific crime. It saddens me that so many are followers instead of leaders. If you think she is guilty then do something to help prevent this from happening to another child.

I am human and I have made mistakes, some have been not so good. I am thankful that I was not faced with a mob of vigilante finger pointing people who think they should have the final say in my destiny.

Peace!

Andrew, Jr. 07-06-2011 07:49 PM

I am wondering what is going to happen to Casey Anthony after the judge free's her. Where is she going to go? She is really not going to have any sort of life. It is pretty much like what happened to OJ Simpson. And like OJ, I do believe that Casey will be back in jail at some point. I think she is suffering from some sort of mental illness. She maybe sane, but she has something going on.

As for George and Cindy Anthony, I am sure they will be moving. They need a new start. I don't think that Casey will be welcome in their home after she threw them under the bus. That relationship is just destroyed. Casey killed it.

Oakiebug61,

I loved your post. I agree with it. There is a petition you can sign that if anyone (mother, father, grandparent, etc.) doesn't report a missing child, infant, etc. you can be jailed, fined, and charged with a misdameaner crime.

I always have had fingers pointed at me for anything I did right or wrong. It is how I was raised. And even to this day, my bio-parents still do it. Even strangers point at me because of being a ftm. The gang up situation is not pleasant. Not by a long shot. It kills one's self esteem.

Mister Bent 07-06-2011 08:01 PM

Following the logic...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 373494)


I always have had fingers pointed at me for anything I did right or wrong. It is how I was raised. And even to this day, my bio-parents still do it. Even strangers point at me because of being a ftm. The gang up situation is not pleasant. Not by a long shot. It kills one's self esteem.



Just to be clear, am I to understand you're concerned for Casey Anthony's self esteem? (Given that this thread is about her and the recent trial).


JustJo 07-06-2011 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 373441)
I have been listening to the news and I just learned the following:

1. the State of FL is going after Casey for the money spent on searches for Caylee, and the court costs;

2. the jurors want to be paid for any and all interviews that they do;

3. Casey wrote in a letter to another cellmate that she wants to adopt another child or two;

4. one of the juror's (no. 3) is back peddling after realizing most of the world is against the verdict;

5. Casey has been offered a porn job, but the offer was taken back after the promoter saw the reaction to the verdict;

6. Casey will earn a ton of money to tell her story via book, tv movie, film, and so on.

Lots of this is speculation and rumor at this point...

NJFemmie 07-07-2011 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 373433)
When I lost a child, drinking and dancing was the furthest thing from my mind, I'm trying really hard to wrap my mind around the partying, the "the kids out of town", the blaming 2 POC, the breaking in her own parents shed for gas cans, duct tape, I mean I could go on and on. Sociopaths can go on with life without skipping a beat, she's got a taste for it she won't stop, they never do.

You're right - they never do. In their minds, whatever they do is justifiable. Maybe not to you or me or anyone else, but in their minds, everything, including lives - are expendable. I'm not necessarily stating that every narcissist/sociopath in the world is a killer, but the ones that are, are very dangerous and cunning people indeed. They push on with no conscience whatsoever.

On another note: There is a juror who is speaking about it now, and she says that the only reason why she was acquitted was because of the evidence -- no one knows how Caylee died - it wasn't because of what they felt in their hearts. I don't think she is back peddling - one of the first things she said was what has been said in here - she's not guilty, but she's not innocent. I think the majority of people feel that way with very few feeling that she was actually innocent.

Makes me wonder if the defense team had their own doubts about her, which I am sure they did. They called her out as a liar right off the bat ... so how can they not? Which makes me think about this supposed book deal that is in the works ... not that I would ever consider buying it - but with four counts of lying to the police and authorities - the book should be considered fiction. Her side of the story means absolutely nothing - it would be all lies anyway I imagine.

Andrew, Jr. 07-07-2011 05:47 AM

JustJo: ABC News paid up to 5 figures according to Barbara Walters for juror #3's interview on tv yesterday. The jail house letters were made public for all to read (about having children, changing her hair color, changing her name, and so on). The State of FL has already filed for Casey to repay the state for the searches done for Casey, and court costs. I am not sure about fines. This will be answered at her hearing at 9am today. You have to remember that in the State of FL there are no laws about Casey's income potential following this case.

Andrew

NJFemmie 07-07-2011 05:52 AM

Unfortunately, her income potential will be based on all the creepy men who find her "hot". Ugh. Despicable.

Andrew, Jr. 07-07-2011 05:58 AM

The one thing juror #3 said was that "they were sick over the verdict" in this case...well, it was obviously the wrong decision.

I wonder about Equi-Search from Texas - if they will also file a suit against Casey Anthony today for costs of searching for her for Caylee.

Cindy Anthony could face perjury charges...I really doubt that this will be followed up on. I do think that this will never be addressed in court. It was a mother trying to save her daughter's life.

JustJo 07-07-2011 06:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 373765)
You have to remember that in the State of FL there are no laws about Casey's income potential following this case.

Andrew

Actually, there would be no legal limitation to her profiting anywhere...not just in Florida.

The laws that disallow profiting from a crime apply to people who are found guilty. She was found not guilty...so she can profit from anything she can convince people to pay her for.

Frankly, I'll be thrilled if Florida recoups their money from the cost of searches from any profit she makes. I live in Florida, so I'd rather not help pay those costs....let her do it.

Mr. Moon 07-07-2011 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 373507)


Just to be clear, am I to understand you're concerned for Casey Anthony's self esteem? (Given that this thread is about her and the recent trial).


Nice..... this is a very nice way to bait someone. wtf?
If he was saying that he would have said that. Yer reading in.

Now I see how people get in arguments on this site. I'm not here enough to witness it first hand, but this time I am.

Hope this made you feel good, whoever you are.

I'm irritated by it. Blocking now. So say whatever. I'd report it if I knew how.

The_Lady_Snow 07-07-2011 08:24 AM

Sigh..
 
Well, she'll be out at the latest in July. Bleah...

princessbelle 07-07-2011 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 373816)
Well, she'll be out at the latest in July. Bleah...

It's all so unfair and nothing we can do.

I suppose it is what it is. However, i believe as many here, she will end up back in jail for something, it is just a matter of time. Just worries me what it will be due to.

Hate to be a "debby downer" but it's just all very sad to me and disheartening.

Apocalipstic 07-07-2011 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 373433)
When I lost a child, drinking and dancing was the furthest thing from my mind, I'm trying really hard to wrap my mind around the partying, the "the kids out of town", the blaming 2 POC, the breaking in her own parents shed for gas cans, duct tape, I mean I could go on and on. Sociopaths can go on with life without skipping a beat, she's got a taste for it she won't stop, they never do.

This is what gets me. Even if what she said in court is true....she is scary.

Jess 07-07-2011 08:39 AM

If there can be anything "good" seen coming out of this tragedy, it is the people's action to indeed change or create new laws based upon the unrest of sentiment following this trial.

Several states as well as a motion to create a Federal Law dubbed the Caylee Law are now the buzz.

As a people, we do certainly have the right to feel enraged when we see what we think is injustice, however, instead of arguing among ourselves, it may serve our righteous anger better to find or start the movement to prevent this from happening again.

A couple of stories that give me hope that WE are NOT sitting idly by, but are indeed looking for a means to change things:

In Oklahoma:
http://www.koco.com/r/28472049/detail.html

In Florida:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43659842...caylees-death/

On the Federal level:
http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/con...nal-power.html

One thing we can do:
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/2/cay...marie-anthony/

Queerasfck 07-07-2011 08:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Moon (Post 373813)
Nice..... this is a very nice way to bait someone. wtf?
If he was saying that he would have said that. Yer reading in.

Now I see how people get in arguments on this site. I'm not here enough to witness it first hand, but this time I am.

Hope this made you feel good, whoever you are.

I'm irritated by it. Blocking now. So say whatever. I'd report it if I knew how.

FYI, to report someone's post you simply go to the bottom left side of the particular offensive post and click on the small red triangle with the exclamation point on it and leave your message as to why the post is being reported.

Apocalipstic 07-07-2011 08:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess (Post 373823)
If there can be anything "good" seen coming out of this tragedy, it is the people's action to indeed change or create new laws based upon the unrest of sentiment following this trial.

Several states as well as a motion to create a Federal Law dubbed the Caylee Law are now the buzz.

As a people, we do certainly have the right to feel enraged when we see what we think is injustice, however, instead of arguing among ourselves, it may serve our righteous anger better to find or start the movement to prevent this from happening again.

A couple of stories that give me hope that WE are NOT sitting idly by, but are indeed looking for a means to change things:

In Oklahoma:
http://www.koco.com/r/28472049/detail.html

In Florida:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43659842...caylees-death/

On the Federal level:
http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/con...nal-power.html

One thing we can do:
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/2/cay...marie-anthony/

If nothing else, I bet the number of crimes one is charged in these cases will increase...at best case scenario she did way more than just lie to the police.

Jess 07-07-2011 08:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic (Post 373827)
If nothing else, I bet the number of crimes one is charged in these cases will increase...at best case scenario she did way more than just lie to the police.


I agree. I think unfortunately the cruelty that our society imposes upon one another ( even on our children) has been too taboo to speak about ( much less create laws regarding) until the advent of the internet and our ability to instantly share our feelings.

I do think we will see more encompassing laws as "the people" are able to respond so quickly and directly to our lawmakers.

Depraved indifference is the one thing that keeps coming to mind.

Not to continue stirring a pot, I do hope that as a society, we begin to more quickly enlist a means for prevention rather than live in the "woulda/coulda/shoulda" mentality of our past.

Mister Bent 07-07-2011 09:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EzeeTiger (Post 373824)
FYI, to report someone's post you simply go to the bottom left side of the particular offensive post and click on the small red triangle with the exclamation point on it and leave your message as to why the post is being reported.

You really know how to help a brother out.

At least I was spared having to give a lesson in how to follow the logic of a statement.


Jess 07-07-2011 09:07 AM

Campaign to Create "Caylee's Law" Goes Viral
 
Oklahoma woman calls for parents who fail to notify police of missing child to be charged with felony; more than 37,000 supporters join in less than 24 hours.

More than 37,000 people in all 50 states have joined a Change.org campaign calling for a federal law -- called “Caylee’s Law” -- that would make the failure of a parent to notify law enforcement of a child’s disappearance a felony.

Casey Anthony was found “not guilty” of first-degree murder or manslaughter on Tuesday in the case of her two-year-old daughter Caylee’s death. One of the central controversies of the case has been the fact that Anthony never notified law enforcement that her daughter was missing. Caylee was last seen on June 16, 2008; grandmother Cindy Anthony notified the police on July 15, a month later.

After hearing the verdict and seeing a Facebook page response, Oklahoman Michelle Crowder started a Change.org petition asking Congress to create “Caylee’s Law,” making it a federal offense and a felony for a parent or guardian to fail to report a child’s disappearance to law enforcement.

Nearly 2,000 people have signed the “Caylee’s Law” petition each hour since its creation, making it the fastest-growing campaign on Change.org.

"When I saw that Casey Anthony had been found not guilty in the murder of little Caylee, and that she was only being convicted of lying to the police about her disappearance, I was sickened; I could not believe she was not being charged with child neglect or endangerment, or even obstruction of justice,” said petition-starter Michelle Crowder.

“I saw a page on Facebook proposing that a law be made, but I saw nothing about a petition being started for it. So, I decided to start one on Change.org because I have signed several petitions on the site and I knew it would be a way to reach people and hopefully get something done.”

Michelle continued, “I am hoping that this will be made into a federal law so that no other child's life, disappearance, and/or death is treated in the manner that poor Caylee's was treated. No child deserves that."

“There is extensive debate about this issue, and this campaign has been remarkable,” said Change.org founder Ben Rattray. “In less than 24 hours, a woman in Oklahoma has recruited tens of thousands of supporters for her cause. Change.org is about empowering anyone, anywhere, to take action on the issues that are important to them, and it is the perfect platform for this record-breaking campaign.”

Change.org, the world’s fastest-growing platform for social change, was profiled this week in the New York Times, Sacramento Bee, and Washington Times.


You can click here to sign this petition: http://www.change.org/petitions/create-caylees-law

cinderella 07-07-2011 09:38 AM

And you what, Femmie...
 
(sorry, that should've read: And you *know* what, Femmie...)

even if she came out and blatently said she did do it, and even elaborated on how/why she killed Caylee, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING they can do to her - she has been acquitted, and cannot be tried again for the same crime - that's Double Jeopardy. Except, of course, she cannot run nor hide from the people's wrath. Even if she never said anything, she still has to face the public, and a good majority of the public is outraged and angry. Somebody may just be angry enough to 'off' her. All I know is, no matter where this woman goes, she will have no peace. Not because she cares or feels any remorse over Caylee, but because of the hell people are going to give her. So essentially, she will never be 'free', even if she is not in jail.



Quote:

Originally Posted by NJFemmie (Post 373763)
You're right - they never do. In their minds, whatever they do is justifiable. Maybe not to you or me or anyone else, but in their minds, everything, including lives - are expendable. I'm not necessarily stating that every narcissist/sociopath in the world is a killer, but the ones that are, are very dangerous and cunning people indeed. They push on with no conscience whatsoever.

On another note: There is a juror who is speaking about it now, and she says that the only reason why she was acquitted was because of the evidence -- no one knows how Caylee died - it wasn't because of what they felt in their hearts. I don't think she is back peddling - one of the first things she said was what has been said in here - she's not guilty, but she's not innocent. I think the majority of people feel that way with very few feeling that she was actually innocent.

Makes me wonder if the defense team had their own doubts about her, which I am sure they did. They called her out as a liar right off the bat ... so how can they not? Which makes me think about this supposed book deal that is in the works ... not that I would ever consider buying it - but with four counts of lying to the police and authorities - the book should be considered fiction. Her side of the story means absolutely nothing - it would be all lies anyway I imagine.


princessbelle 07-07-2011 09:44 AM

Release date....

Casey Anthony walks on JULY 13. Next Wednesday.


The law was followed. The judge could do no more than issue her the maximum amount of time.

I don't get why her time served for bad checks can now go retro to the offence she was just charged on. However, that is evidently the law.

Again, it is what it is.

Signing that petition for Caylee's Law.

Maybe, possibly...something positiive out of this...

cinderella 07-07-2011 10:00 AM

I'm surprised only one Zenaida Gonzalex surfaced...
 
...that's not an uncommon Hispanic name. Maybe she was the only one in the vacinity, but still, many Zenaida Gonzlez' will be stigmatized by this, I think.

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJFemmie (Post 372812)
The real Zenaida already stated that she will sue Casey for defamation. She was denied employment because she was believed to be a baby kidnapper.

I hope they appeal and file a civil suit. It will keep Casey in the judicial system for a while if nothing else.


Heart 07-07-2011 10:15 AM

A different perspective on "Caylee's Law:" I worked with a survivor of horrific intimate partner violence whose husband suffocated their 2-month old under a mattress and forced the mother to bury the child. Because they were poor immigrants the authorities didn't know or care about what was happening in this family. When the mother was finally able to flee the house in which she had been literally imprisoned and hop a bus to escape, she was so traumatized, she could barely speak. Eventually, with help, she alerted authorities who arrested her husband.

How do you think Casey's Law would affect this mother?

(And I hope no one thinks that prosecutors wouldn't use such a law against a poor battered immigrant victim of domestic violence -- because I can assure you they would. There are hundreds of such victims imprisoned all across the U.S. right now).

Heart

apretty 07-07-2011 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 373836)
You really know how to help a brother out.

At least I was spared having to give a lesson in how to follow the logic of a statement.


now i know why the sky is so blue and the summer is so hot and your legs are so white!

princessbelle 07-07-2011 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heart (Post 373913)
A different perspective on "Caylee's Law:" I worked with a survivor of horrific intimate partner violence whose husband suffocated their 2-month old under a mattress and forced the mother to bury the child. Because they were poor immigrants the authorities didn't know or care about what was happening in this family. When the mother was finally able to flee the house in which she had been literally imprisoned and hop a bus to escape, she was so traumatized, she could barely speak. Eventually, with help, she alerted authorities who arrested her husband.

How do you think Casey's Law would affect this mother?

(And I hope no one thinks that prosecutors wouldn't use such a law against a poor battered immigrant victim of domestic violence -- because I can assure you they would. There are hundreds of such victims imprisoned all across the U.S. right now).

Heart

Surely under these circumstances it would be dealt with differently. She certainly was fearing for her life.

Thanks for giving this a different perspective. Information is always a good thing. :)

Novelafemme 07-07-2011 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heart (Post 373913)
A different perspective on "Caylee's Law:" I worked with a survivor of horrific intimate partner violence whose husband suffocated their 2-month old under a mattress and forced the mother to bury the child. Because they were poor immigrants the authorities didn't know or care about what was happening in this family. When the mother was finally able to flee the house in which she had been literally imprisoned and hop a bus to escape, she was so traumatized, she could barely speak. Eventually, with help, she alerted authorities who arrested her husband.

How do you think Casey's Law would affect this mother?

(And I hope no one thinks that prosecutors wouldn't use such a law against a poor battered immigrant victim of domestic violence -- because I can assure you they would. There are hundreds of such victims imprisoned all across the U.S. right now).

Heart

This is just horrific, Heart. Thank you for sharing as this scenario is one that needs to be addressed before implementing such a law.

JustJo 07-07-2011 10:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 373931)
This is just horrific, Heart. Thank you for sharing as this scenario is one that needs to be addressed before implementing such a law.

Absolutely, yes. It seems like it could certainly be written to address a situation in which the parent feared for their life or safety and still address the "Casey situation" in which she was clearly just partying on and having fun.

Mister Bent 07-07-2011 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess (Post 373838)
Oklahoma woman calls for parents who fail to notify police of missing child to be charged with felony; more than 37,000 supporters join in less than 24 hours.

More than 37,000 people in all 50 states have joined a Change.org campaign calling for a federal law -- called “Caylee’s Law” -- that would make the failure of a parent to notify law enforcement of a child’s disappearance a felony.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heart (Post 373913)
A different perspective on "Caylee's Law:" I worked with a survivor of horrific intimate partner violence whose husband suffocated their 2-month old under a mattress and forced the mother to bury the child. Because they were poor immigrants the authorities didn't know or care about what was happening in this family. When the mother was finally able to flee the house in which she had been literally imprisoned and hop a bus to escape, she was so traumatized, she could barely speak. Eventually, with help, she alerted authorities who arrested her husband.

How do you think Casey's Law would affect this mother?

(And I hope no one thinks that prosecutors wouldn't use such a law against a poor battered immigrant victim of domestic violence -- because I can assure you they would. There are hundreds of such victims imprisoned all across the U.S. right now).

Heart


Heart, you raise an excellent point. While Caylee's Law only means that a parent could be charged, not convicted. Unfortunately, that means we have to trust the police and the justice system in the handling of those cases. Ideally, proper investigation would clear an abused or otherwise victimized parent. I think one thing that the Casey Anthony media circus underscores, and which has been discussed here, is the schism in our justice system when it comes to race. I can imagine a scenario where the mother you wrote about and Casey Anthony are both put in the situation of having to explain where their child is, or why their child is missing, and only one of them walking out of the police station.

The intent is good, however, toward an effort to keep children safe and making parents more accountable (because apparently some have forgotten that fundamental concept of parenting). My question is what's to be done for a child like Christian Choate, of whom the state seems to have lost track? Maybe that's a different thread topic, but it raises all sorts of questions for me, like what is the state's responsibility in a situation like his, in which Child Protective Services had been involved?


NJFemmie 07-07-2011 11:09 AM

Now THAT'S what I call professionalism ...
 
http://www.wesh.com/2011/0706/28459082_240X310.jpg

Yup, that's kinda how a lot of people feel .... like we've been given a huge fuck you.

girl_dee 07-07-2011 11:24 AM


George and Cindy had their lawyer prepare a statement for the press, which has just been released, saying:
"The family may never know what happened to Caylee Marie Anthony. They now have closure for this chapter of their life. They will now begin the long process of rebuilding their lives. Despite the baseless defense chosen by Casey Anthony, the family believes that the jury made a fair decision based on the evidence presented, the testimony presented, the scientific information presented, and the rules that they were given by the Honorable Judge Perry to guide them."




CLOSURE?

Heart 07-07-2011 11:36 AM

to con't a different perspective
 
Whenever I hear/read about making parents more responsible/accountable, I consider how we live in one of the most family UNfriendly countries in the world, (so-called "family values," notwithstanding). With no universal child-care, afterschool or health care, no meaningful paid maternity/paternity leave, ever-shrinking access to free family planning and mental health care, not to mention lack of affordable housing and livable wages in many sectors, it's a wonder most parents do as well as they do.

This has nothing to do with this awful case, per se, but if we had these things in place, as many other devloped countries do, it would be a heck of a lot easier to weed out the truly pathological parent from the over-stressed, under-resourced parent.

But these issues are complex, and require long-term solutions. It's easier to rant about a head-line grabbing case, whipped into a frenzy by the Nancy Graces of the tabloid media, and push through rightous and emotional legislation that may hurt innocent parents and their children.*

Heart

*not personal to anyone here, just my viewpoint.

princessbelle 07-07-2011 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 373967)

George and Cindy had their lawyer prepare a statement for the press, which has just been released, saying:
"The family may never know what happened to Caylee Marie Anthony. They now have closure for this chapter of their life. They will now begin the long process of rebuilding their lives. Despite the baseless defense chosen by Casey Anthony, the family believes that the jury made a fair decision based on the evidence presented, the testimony presented, the scientific information presented, and the rules that they were given by the Honorable Judge Perry to guide them."




CLOSURE?

Thanks for posting Sassy girl. Well isn't that spiffy they can find closure. I, for one, cannot and will light my porch light every night for this little girl.

More than that...for all the little people of this world who have been murdered or abused and their murderers/abusers walk free.

This whole thing is just sickening.

Gráinne 07-07-2011 11:59 AM

Anyone else notice that the web /newspapers don't show her sobbing; they show her laughing or smirking.

I think justice failed here, laws and proceedures nonwithstanding. I hope guilt eats her from inside the rest of her days (but I doubt it). She'll have more money than Job by the following Monday.

Heart 07-07-2011 12:05 PM

guess I'm on some kinda roll
 
Here we go:

http://news.yahoo.com/brothers-3-4-f...002109465.html

These children went missing, mother had police contact, told them what she knew, and the children were discovered -- murdered, apparently by her abusive boyfriend, who had a long history of violence. He's been arrested.
While this mother could not be charged under Caylee's Law, as she DID contact authorities, how many will blame her anyway -- for being involved with an abuser/criminal?

In the 1980s Hedda Nussbaum's adopted daugher was killed by her abusive husband Joel Steinburg. They were both arrested, he for murder, she for neglect. She turned state's evidence and was granted immunity. There was a huge national outcry against her even though he had permanantly re-arranged her face, (I mean this literally -- she looked nothing like she did before she met him), tortured and terrified her and the child for years. He was convicted of manslaughter and receivedof 8-25. She had to go into hiding because of the public's rage against her for "allowing" it to happen.

My point? One of our favorite past-times in this country is blaming mothers.
I'll lay bets that most of you can name five killer mothers off the top of your heads. Now try and name five killer fathers. (Father's are ten times more likely to be responsible for the death of a child.)

In another case in NH, a mother begged and pleaded with authorities to find her children who did not return on time from court-ordered visitation. The police did nothing, sending the mother to family court which took days. In the meantime, the kids were killed by her ex. Caylee's Law is intended to punish bad parents (especially bad mothers), but what about systems such as police, child welfare, courts, that neglect the needs of families, the fears of violence survivors, enact racist, sexist, anti-immigrant, and homophobic biases, and hold mothers and fathers to vastly different standards?

Seriously. Can we move beyond this case and get to some of the deeper issues?*

Heart

*I don't mean anyone here personally, I just mean the discourse in general.

scootebaby 07-07-2011 12:13 PM

unpopular post im sure and random as usual
 
Of course the TVs and websites and newspapers are gonna ONLY show her laughing and smirking. The general public wouldnt want it any other way. I know im one of the outsiders where this is concerned,but as i was telling Jo last night...there ARE ppl out there that support Casey(and have from the beginning) and they are posting and commenting and interviewing but THEY dont get any media time whatso ever bc that would take attention off of the media circus surrounding all of this.

And i dont mean this too any particular person in here,more a general /observation from me,but this has been going on for over 3 yrs..Remember she was last seen on JUNE 16th 2008--we are now in July 2011...where were the porch lights,the support,the ppl trying to get laws passed then? was the public waiting to see if she would get put to death? would that have changed things? would the porch lights not be on now? would there not be a petition for Caylees Law?

My point is this--after the initial media crush there was VERY little about this in the news or on the lips of ppl. Im truly curious as to the why.

oh and something that came to me last night--bc im known to look at different scenarios/possibilities--George Anthony was a retired HOMICIDE detective...he would know(or at the very least have some knowledge of procedure) what would really be needed to get a conviction,and knew it would never be found....so could he have been more involved? could Caylees reaction be to him "throwing" her under the bus--on top of any other crime perpetrated upon her in her life by him? I personally feel she did not act alone in this.

As someone said we will NEVER know all the facts surrounding this case,and altho i understand the emotion response i also know that things can be misconstrued all the time--and does, and people pay the price.


just my thoughts at the moment!

NJFemmie 07-07-2011 12:43 PM

Change starts will the little people
 
Please sign this petition and share on your FB pages and twitter accounts:

http://news.change.org/stories/more-...s-law-campaign

They have over 370K signatures already and need more for Caylee's Law.

Whether you agree with the verdict or not - no child should go missing and unreported like this again.

scootebaby 07-07-2011 12:52 PM

thanks NJ signed!

and agreed...no matter personal thoughts this bill should be signed,and hopefully it will get passed!

AtLast 07-07-2011 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Heart (Post 373973)
Whenever I hear/read about making parents more responsible/accountable, I consider how we live in one of the most family UNfriendly countries in the world, (so-called "family values," notwithstanding). With no universal child-care, afterschool or health care, no meaningful paid maternity/paternity leave, ever-shrinking access to free family planning and mental health care, not to mention lack of affordable housing and livable wages in many sectors, it's a wonder most parents do as well as they do.

This has nothing to do with this awful case, per se, but if we had these things in place, as many other devloped countries do, it would be a heck of a lot easier to weed out the truly pathological parent from the over-stressed, under-resourced parent.But these issues are complex, and require long-term solutions. It's easier to rant about a head-line grabbing case, whipped into a frenzy by the Nancy Graces of the tabloid media, and push through rightous and emotional legislation that may hurt innocent parents and their children.*

Heart

*not personal to anyone here, just my viewpoint.

Yes, very complex and right now the pittiful few and under-funded services in the US are under attack so that a very few can continue to pay less in taxes that support these services than the many.

When will the US get the priorities in line with needs and the things that can make a difference in child rearing and parent support? Being able to identify pathological parents is vital to stopping these kinds of things from happening.

There are counties right now that are cutting the school week to 4 days- and the US is falling below in education around the world.

I also am having trouble with the "mother blame" that goes on. No, I do not see the verdicts here as just at all and I can't even watch video of this little girl- haven't been able to since the start of this case. But, so much of what promotes these kinds of horrible actions in our country just never seem to get addressed.

Toughy 07-07-2011 03:05 PM

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Seriously. Can we move beyond this case and get to some of the deeper issues?*
Thank you Heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You beat me to the punch. I truly sincerely worry when folks run about and sign on-line petitions for laws they haven't even read. GREAT care must be taken in how these laws are written so there are no unintended consequences. This is pure reaction and is not really going to help. Considered action makes far more sense.

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I still don't understand why folks think she deserved the death penalty when there are no facts as to who killed the child, how the child was killed and why it happened. Facts are needed in our system, not conjecture and emotion. Justice is never served when emotion and vigilanteism are disguised as fact.

edited to add: part of me wishes Casey would sue Nancy Grace for defamation, libel and slander. I hate Nancy Grace and all the pundits like her.....they do way more harm than good....


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