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Mopsie 07-28-2018 07:56 AM

On my mind...

Quiche

Happyfemme 07-28-2018 05:08 PM

Making sure that the people I am friends with are my friends because we enjoy each other's company not because I can do things for them. I am realizing that may be the case with some people so I am working disconnecting from them and connecting with people that just enjoy our friendship.

CherryWine 07-28-2018 08:39 PM

I am concerned for a loved one who is going through a depressive episode. He is pushing people away, and it is really hard to watch.

I’ve been looking back on some other relationships/friendships and realize that those people may have been going through something similar, and I did not handle things as they should have been handled at the time. I didn’t fully understand what was going on or perhaps, even, I was just more selfish at those times.

It’s not something that you can just snap out of.

Hopefully going forward, I can be a better and more supportive friend.

That’s what’s on my mind.

Gemme 07-28-2018 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mopsie (Post 1220379)
On my mind...

Quiche

What kind?

:eating:

easygoingfemme 07-28-2018 08:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1220493)
What kind?

:eating:

mmmm Quiche...

VintageFemme 07-28-2018 09:43 PM

I'm going to be a Mina {grandmother} again! So so excited!!!

JDeere 07-28-2018 10:23 PM

I went through my closet again, i gave dad 4 t-shirts that ive never worn. He has way too many holey old shirts, he was happy. I figure since things arent going so good, that something simple may make his day.

cinnamongrrl 07-29-2018 05:54 AM

My mom...

She's on a lot of pain meds (she has four kinds of.cancer.it turns out) and it's almost like she's only half here now. I miss her spark and humor. I just miss her and want her to be better ♡

Bèsame* 07-29-2018 01:04 PM


girl_dee 07-29-2018 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VintageFemme (Post 1220506)
I'm going to be a Mina {grandmother} again! So so excited!!!

congratulations!!!!!!

Reach *BANNED* 08-01-2018 03:00 PM

That no one should ever give up on finding "the one".

WolfyOne 08-09-2018 08:24 AM

Heard from an ex of 18 years on messenger the other day. She was the only woman I ever fell in love with. It's funny, how the head can move on, but the heart didn't. I always knew it, but never realized it until she messaged me. It was a nice chat that brought back old memories for both of us. After me, she chose comfort and safety then grew to love the woman that has taken care of her all these years. Sadly she'll stay with her even though she hasn't been happy for many years. All I could tell her was to be true to herself. Her kids are grown with kids of their own and only she can decide how she wants to live the rest of her life. I told her, I will always chat with her anytime she needs an ear to bend. I'm just glad she finally stopped being angry with me. I never meant to hurt her. Back then, I just didn't know how to settle down and allow another to help me stop doubting my worth.

Kenna 08-10-2018 07:57 PM

That 2018 Tundra..

Chad 08-11-2018 12:45 PM

On my mind
 
Hoarders, I would like to have a discussion about that but I am not sure if there is a thread for that.

I had to tell a very distraught company that they are dealing with a hoarder today and it hurt my heart. I am a biologist not a phycologist. I don't really understand it but I am trying to cope with it.

Any suggestions?

Reach *BANNED* 08-11-2018 05:01 PM

1 hr. 10 minutes from now :heartbeat:

socialjustice_fsu 08-11-2018 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1221817)
Hoarders, I would like to have a discussion about that but I am not sure if there is a thread for that.

I had to tell a very distraught company that they are dealing with a hoarder today and it hurt my heart. I am a biologist not a phycologist. I don't really understand it but I am trying to cope with it.

Any suggestions?

It’s a mental illness. Perhaps you could contact the company again and let them know that. If the environment is unsanitary that will likely need a different intervention. It’s actually a fascinating area of study. Lots of research emerging in this field. If you would like more info let me know. I have worked with a number of people with this illness.

Chad 08-12-2018 09:40 AM

On my mind
 
I woke up thinking about my long time friends. They have known me and loved me for more than 40 years. There is something about friends that knew me when I was young, cute, and foolish that seems to have lasted. They know all my secrets and flaws but still love me.
I feel blessed.

:cowboy:

Chad 08-12-2018 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by socialjustice_fsu (Post 1221835)
It’s a mental illness. Perhaps you could contact the company again and let them know that. If the environment is unsanitary that will likely need a different intervention. It’s actually a fascinating area of study. Lots of research emerging in this field. If you would like more info let me know. I have worked with a number of people with this illness.

Thank you. I will pm you if needed. You are so kind to help.

Kobi 08-12-2018 10:52 AM

Valor........May 3rd to August 7th, 2018
 

2qt 08-12-2018 03:24 PM

Life is just moving too quickly.... Trying to get off this roller coaster is like trying to surf without a board... The waves just keep on smashing into me....Trying to keep focus on the end goal but also wanting to just throw the towel in & beg for mercy... Exhaustion is the only emotion I am capable of feeling at the moment & I am losing contact with friends who feel i'm just too busy to fit them in my life..... If they only knew.....:seeingstars:


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