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kittygrrl 06-30-2020 09:33 PM

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Wrangler...So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing

Teddybear 07-01-2020 07:56 AM

Wrangler

We both are saddened by the news if your mom's passing. Know our prayers are with you and your family during this time.

If you ever need a shoulder in which to lean on, scream into please reach out

Teddybear 07-09-2020 06:18 PM

UPDATE:

Today I was scheduled for my PET scan next Wednesday morning. I am a little worried since the last night a new tumor was found. I dont have the dread I had in April prior to the scan.

I try to be upbeat about it all but we all know at times our mind can run wild with us .

Hope everyone is doing well.

Wrangler you are still in our prayers

Wrang1er 07-09-2020 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear (Post 1271470)
UPDATE:

Today I was scheduled for my PET scan next Wednesday morning. I am a little worried since the last night a new tumor was found. I dont have the dread I had in April prior to the scan.

I try to be upbeat about it all but we all know at times our mind can run wild with us .

Hope everyone is doing well.

Wrangler you are still in our prayers

Thank you, Teddy. I should have responded to the posts but I just haven't been able to.

You'll be in my thoughts.

rustedrims 07-12-2020 09:55 PM

Well had my biopsy on my right kidney last tuesday. Waiting to hear from someone. Nobody likes the waiting. This time i want to wait a little longer. I found out if I get a early call then somethin is up. I dont feel an urgency this time with this. I feel ok and nothing has changed where i would be concerned. Just dont want that stuff back. I dont want to loose my hair and 60 pounds again. Had a tough time gettin through that.

When I got the news bout my kidney I went head first balls to the wall in my yards. Did 3 straight days nonstop then crashed. Took a step back and realized that wasnt going to help me. Mom told me to slow down and of course I didnt listen to her. Was thinkin if I got that biopsy I would not be able to do anything. Wanted to get things done so I wouldnt get to far behind. Had to take at least 3 days off. Sweeping off my sidewalk was a bad idea. Hurting that night. Dont want to call but might call tuesday. That will be a week. Gotta get some sleep.

As always thank you for reading and caring. I love you all. Fighting the Fight in The Planet.!!

s

Teddybear 07-12-2020 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 1271574)
Well had my biopsy on my right kidney last tuesday. Waiting to hear from someone. Nobody likes the waiting. This time i want to wait a little longer. I found out if I get a early call then somethin is up. I dont feel an urgency this time with this. I feel ok and nothing has changed where i would be concerned. Just dont want that stuff back. I dont want to loose my hair and 60 pounds again. Had a tough time gettin through that.

When I got the news bout my kidney I went head first balls to the wall in my yards. Did 3 straight days nonstop then crashed. Took a step back and realized that wasnt going to help me. Mom told me to slow down and of course I didnt listen to her. Was thinkin if I got that biopsy I would not be able to do anything. Wanted to get things done so I wouldnt get to far behind. Had to take at least 3 days off. Sweeping off my sidewalk was a bad idea. Hurting that night. Dont want to call but might call tuesday. That will be a week. Gotta get some sleep.

As always thank you for reading and caring. I love you all. Fighting the Fight in The Planet.!!

s


Sending up prayers and positive thoughts for you

Wrang1er 07-13-2020 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 1270936)
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Wrangler...So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing

Thank you, kittygirl. Her memorial service was yesterday. I think she would have been pleased with it. I'm glad that part is over. I miss her and it's still hard to believe she's gone. The only solace is knowing she isn't in pain or suffering.

She loved flowers so thank you for that. This is a little song I wrote for her.



~W

~ocean 07-13-2020 12:58 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 1271574)
Well had my biopsy on my right kidney last tuesday. Waiting to hear from someone. Nobody likes the waiting. This time i want to wait a little longer. I found out if I get a early call then somethin is up. I dont feel an urgency this time with this. I feel ok and nothing has changed where i would be concerned. Just dont want that stuff back. I dont want to loose my hair and 60 pounds again. Had a tough time gettin through that.

When I got the news bout my kidney I went head first balls to the wall in my yards. Did 3 straight days nonstop then crashed. Took a step back and realized that wasnt going to help me. Mom told me to slow down and of course I didnt listen to her. Was thinkin if I got that biopsy I would not be able to do anything. Wanted to get things done so I wouldnt get to far behind. Had to take at least 3 days off. Sweeping off my sidewalk was a bad idea. Hurting that night. Dont want to call but might call tuesday. That will be a week. Gotta get some sleep.

As always thank you for reading and caring. I love you all. Fighting the Fight in The Planet.!!

s


(((((( hugs for you )))))) using your muscles around your kidney after surgery ~ sweeping !!! hellooooooo !!! rest ,rest, and get more rest ! :readfineprint:

C0LLETTE 07-13-2020 03:54 PM

Wrangler, I've "known " you off and on over several years and from here and from there.
I've always found you thoughtful and kind and I have no doubt this is the legacy of your Mom.
The video tribute is both beautiful and moving and I thank you for posting it.

Wrang1er 07-13-2020 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by C0LLETTE (Post 1271583)
Wrangler, I've "known " you off and on over several years and from here and from there.
I've always found you thoughtful and kind and I have no doubt this is the legacy of your Mom.
The video tribute is both beautiful and moving and I thank you for posting it.

Thank you, Collette. It made me feel a little better. :)

kittygrrl 07-13-2020 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er (Post 1271577)
Thank you, kittygirl. Her memorial service was yesterday. I think she would have been pleased with it. I'm glad that part is over. I miss her and it's still hard to believe she's gone. The only solace is knowing she isn't in pain or suffering.

She loved flowers so thank you for that. This is a little song I wrote for her.



~W

Your song is beautiful Wrangler..thank you for sharing it (((hugs)))

Teddybear 07-14-2020 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er (Post 1271577)
Thank you, kittygirl. Her memorial service was yesterday. I think she would have been pleased with it. I'm glad that part is over. I miss her and it's still hard to believe she's gone. The only solace is knowing she isn't in pain or suffering.

She loved flowers so thank you for that. This is a little song I wrote for her.



~W

Beautiful tribute Wrangler. We all should be so honored to inspire such

easygoingfemme 07-14-2020 04:49 AM

Wrangler, that was a beautiful and loving tribute to your mom. Thank you for sharing that with us. Your song is beautiful and perfect.

easygoingfemme 07-14-2020 04:51 AM

I had to put on my big girl pants yesterday and call my oncologist about some bone pain I've been having for about a month. It is so damn hard to make those calls. The anxiety to get ready to even pick up the phone knocks me out. Finally yesterday I took a half of an ativan and then made the call after that kicked in. They sent me to x-ray and I went and had scans done yesterday and now I wait.

There are a lot of things it could be. Just, I can't deal with sorting that out unless I've knocked out the biggest scariest monster which would be a recurrence of the cancer.

~ocean 07-14-2020 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1271594)
I had to put on my big girl pants yesterday and call my oncologist about some bone pain I've been having for about a month. It is so damn hard to make those calls. The anxiety to get ready to even pick up the phone knocks me out. Finally yesterday I took a half of an ativan and then made the call after that kicked in. They sent me to x-ray and I went and had scans done yesterday and now I wait.

There are a lot of things it could be. Just, I can't deal with sorting that out unless I've knocked out the biggest scariest monster which would be a recurrence of the cancer.

((((( easy )))))) lets blame it on the heat and humidity ! makes us all achy. stay strong :goodluck:

easygoingfemme 07-14-2020 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 1271596)
((((( easy )))))) lets blame it on the heat and humidity ! makes us all achy. stay strong :goodluck:

My oncologist called about a half hour ago. I'm all good :) I don't know what's causing the pain but it isn't cancer so I don't care what it is.

clay 07-14-2020 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1271599)
My oncologist called about a half hour ago. I'm all good :) I don't know what's causing the pain but it isn't cancer so I don't care what it is.

((((((((((((((((((((((((easy))))))))))))

That is absolutely fantastic!

Wrang1er 07-14-2020 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1271599)
My oncologist called about a half hour ago. I'm all good :) I don't know what's causing the pain but it isn't cancer so I don't care what it is.

Woohoo! So glad to hear this, easy! ��

Teddybear 07-16-2020 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1271599)
My oncologist called about a half hour ago. I'm all good :) I don't know what's causing the pain but it isn't cancer so I don't care what it is.

What great news.

I go today to see my oncologist to get the results of my PET. Since they found a new tumor last PET Im a little worried but I am holding on to faith the radiation kicked its butt along with the Keytruda

Teddybear 07-17-2020 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear (Post 1271655)
What great news.

I go today to see my oncologist to get the results of my PET. Since they found a new tumor last PET Im a little worried but I am holding on to faith the radiation kicked its butt along with the Keytruda

Ok it took a minute for me to process the news I got yesterday at the doctors office.

He said I am officially in REMISSION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Still a little bit of shock. I am thankful for the doctors and the treatment.


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