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morningstar55 07-14-2012 06:07 AM

Mawning loft dwellers and peekers hope u al r having a great Saturday morning ..... am off 2 Ohio ... hanging around the northern mid section, 280 to findly , may make a pit stop at bass pro.... wish i knw sm bf folks in these parts, cuz i dont hav 2 pk up my load until Monday morning. So hav al weekend 2 kill...and dont hav my art supplies or fishing stuff... sigh.... hav a doc, appt nex fri. So wil hav 2 make due. Gawd i hate using my phone 2 post...

morningstar55 07-14-2012 12:44 PM

Gawd am bored no lap top ..... no tv ... no art supplies, cant wait til i get home

ruthie14 07-17-2012 04:22 AM

Good morning lofters! Going to try to stay cool .... near 100 today in lovely humid NJ. I love summer...but this current heatwave could be done and I would not mind! lolol

Have a wonderful day!
Ruthie

morningstar55 07-17-2012 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 616356)
Good morning lofters! Going to try to stay cool .... near 100 today in lovely humid NJ. I love summer...but this current heatwave could be done and I would not mind! lolol

Have a wonderful day!
Ruthie

Afternooners...... wow ruth.... wonder where everyone is?? Ths thread has died. Am hangn in Columbus...... and wil b headlng 2 Rochester later

ruthie14 07-17-2012 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 616470)
Afternooners...... wow ruth.... wonder where everyone is?? Ths thread has died. Am hangn in Columbus...... and wil b headlng 2 Rochester later

I know what you mean. Keep posting in hopes that others will return. Probly a lot of vacations and such.

My grandparents used to live in Rochester... is it still a nice area?

Have fun and keep cool!
Ruthie

morningstar55 07-17-2012 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 616554)
I know what you mean. Keep posting in hopes that others will return. Probly a lot of vacations and such.

My grandparents used to live in Rochester... is it still a nice area?

Have fun and keep cool!
Ruthie

Evening.... Rochester i guess i dont get ther as often . But i do knw there's a great bf group ther )

ferret 07-17-2012 05:15 PM

I'm lurking. Plus I have a lot of things going on in my life right now. I just want things to finally settle down.

Sue

Okiebug61 07-17-2012 05:32 PM

I forgot I had turned 50..LOL. OK I have been busy, Red is gone again for another week. We have a new dog Abigail Adams Abby for short! She showed up on the week of the 4th of July. So I have the joy of taking care of a 5 dogs, 1 cat a pool and all the other homeowner things one must do. I'll try to participate more. Sorry!

RockOn 07-17-2012 06:00 PM

I will be 56 in about 3 weeks. It is a number. I feel great.

Best wishes to all the lofters.
:)
Brock

ruthie14 07-18-2012 04:18 AM

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Originally Posted by ferret (Post 616607)
I'm lurking. Plus I have a lot of things going on in my life right now. I just want things to finally settle down.

Sue

I know what you mean! I hope it happens soon for ya!

I forgot I had turned 50..LOL. OK I have been busy, Red is gone again for another week. We have a new dog Abigail Adams Abby for short! She showed up on the week of the 4th of July. So I have the joy of taking care of a 5 dogs, 1 cat a pool and all the other homeowner things one must do. I'll try to participate more. Sorry!

Shew.... take it easy there!! Congrats on the new dog!

I will be 56 in about 3 weeks. It is a number. I feel great.

Best wishes to all the lofters.

Brock

Happy birthday early Brock! Hope it's a great one! I turned 50 a few months ago... I totally agree with you that is a number. I usually feel quite young... except on fridays when my back lets me know I'm not 25 anymore!! lol

MORNINGSTAR... hope you have a wonderful and safe day of travel!!

Ruthie

OS Butch 07-18-2012 04:37 AM

Good morning early bird Ruthie, Brock, ferret, Okiebug and Morningstar!

Have a great day and stay cool! Looks to be a hot one here on the East Coast!


morningstar55 07-19-2012 05:07 AM

morning loft dwellers and peekers

how is your week going so far??
OKie...... you have a full house i see .. heh.. ever make your doggies, dog popsicles?? , if they have a kong .. you plug up 1 hole and find a way to set it up.. and pour chicken or beef broth in it.. then stick it in the freezer... they will love it on hot days. :) or just pour some in a plastic container of some sort, i made my brothers dog some in small containers that salad came in from the super market.

brock , ha your catching up with me.. :)
ruth... hope your staying cool over there..
((((OS))))) ...... ever crave a apple pie a la mode when your traveling around?? ..... you can get one at McDonalds... lol really... get a ice cream in a cup...and one of there hot apple pies.. and well.. u can break it up and put it on ice cream.. lol just a thought... i tried it.. its pretty good. :)

ha ferret , sometimes i lurk too.

im at home right now so am able to type a bit more .. i hate doing a lot of that from my phone. ... hopefully soon, i can get my lap top back up and running.


**making a note here**..
next time down in Okie town, crash Okiebug's pool... hmm better stock up on doggy treats keep em busy.. hehe...
(f)(f)(f)

LadyRieinAL 07-19-2012 05:32 PM

over 50
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Brock (Post 616620)
I will be 56 in about 3 weeks. It is a number. I feel great.

Best wishes to all the lofters.
:)
Brock

Whatcha want for your birthday - and I invited to the party? KK's giving one?

lusciouskiwi 07-23-2012 08:20 PM

slippery slope towards 50...
 
Good morning blossoms, my first time here. :)

Was checking out different GLBT NZ sites and came across this (I knew about it from when I lived in Auckland, but haven't been following it):

https://www.facebook.com/levnz Lesbian Elders Village, Auckland, NZ.

Hope you're having a great day/evening :)

morningstar55 07-24-2012 05:39 AM

Morning loft dwellers and peekers

And welcome 2 the loft ms kiwi .. :)
The thread seems 2 b kinda dead right now, but it gets perky now n then. Lol

ruthie14 07-24-2012 02:25 PM

Saw 3 different movies the last 2 weekends during Qfest... 1 I saw twice because it was so damn good! So funny!! That one is called Cloudburst and it stars Olympia Decakus (sp?). She is awesome in it!!!! Also saw Molly's Girl and A happy Ending. Both very good and there was a Q & A after each of the last 2 with some of the actors, directors and producers. I am hooked! I will HAVE to go next year! Have a great week lofters!


Welcome Kiwi

Ruthie

Sweet_Amor_Taino 07-25-2012 10:33 AM

Next year 60
 
Good morning to everyone
I guess I will join you all,I am 59. I am ageing gracefully and for that I am grateful. I am enjoying my life more each day and being true to myself and creating beautiful memories with he ones I love.
This is very impost to me.

Enjoy today as it were your last :danceparty:

ruthie14 07-26-2012 03:23 PM

Having a bad day. Started out wrong and just continued. Because of my wrist/elbow and back injuries I need to move to an older classroom. The one that I wanted will not have enough kids in it to function. The only room I could take is working with a woman who is difficult to work with. I'm hoping that somehow she and I will click. I have to leave my current coteacher behind so I am NOT at all happy about that. We are going to try it for a week (next week) to see how it goes. We shall see how it goes. It just makes for more stress and right now, I DO NOT NEED ANY MORE STRESS!

I do, however, need a new job!!!!

Hope everyone has a great weekend! I am going to try my very best to have a relaxing and enjoyable weekend.

:beerbros:

lusciouskiwi 07-26-2012 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 621472)
Having a bad day. Started out wrong and just continued. Because of my wrist/elbow and back injuries I need to move to an older classroom. The one that I wanted will not have enough kids in it to function. The only room I could take is working with a woman who is difficult to work with. I'm hoping that somehow she and I will click. I have to leave my current coteacher behind so I am NOT at all happy about that. We are going to try it for a week (next week) to see how it goes. We shall see how it goes. It just makes for more stress and right now, I DO NOT NEED ANY MORE STRESS!

I do, however, need a new job!!!!

Hope everyone has a great weekend! I am going to try my very best to have a relaxing and enjoyable weekend.

:beerbros:

What do you mean by an old classroom Ruthie?

There are vacancies in my company if you fancy Malaysia!

Have a great day :)

ruthie14 07-26-2012 05:24 PM

Hey Kiwi.

Older kids.. right now i am teaching 18 month to 2 year olds...they are going to put me in a class of 2 1/2 to 3 1/2 year olds. I actually wanted the 3 1/2 to 4 year olds...but that is the class that they think they will not have enough kids for.

Malyasia huh... I thnk my elderly mother would have a few things to say about that! lololol A little more of a commute than I would like! lololololol

morningstar55 07-28-2012 12:18 PM

Hey lofters.... hows everyone sat.?? Mine is so so... hanging here in Morris IL. Till 2morrow afternoon thn headng 2 ..... West Lake, ohiya :)

ruthie14 07-28-2012 12:51 PM

Hello Lofters!

Morning Morningstar... Hope you are finding something fun to do while you hang out in Ill.

I went to the er yesterday with another migraine. Took a day off work and since mom is away, had to ask a friend to take me. The wonderful Wendy was right there to be my shero! lol Anyway, new migraine med did NOT work so hence the er visit. I am NOT a fan! Love the relief, but not the bills. sigh.. Back to the dr I go to try a new one. I need to stop lifting things ... I hate that I have the muscle to do this stuff and my neck doesn't like it!! Very frustrating. Lifted a box earlier this week (should not have I know), nailed 2 shelves.. also a no no, will have to get someone to finish that for me, and I dared to clean out my bedroom closet... apparently now THAT is a no no.. I am going to have to change how I do some things. Spread them out more and ask for help. I HATE asking for help.. sigh.. but I hate the bills more! I wish I had the cash to pay someone to do some of this stuff. I hate having to ask friends. My mom does things, but she is 72, I don't like asking her either. I need a new body.

Anyway, relaxing and watching some of the beautiful women who are playing in the Olympics. Watched the end of the Columbia vs US womens soccor game.. great game... we won. at 3 I'm watching beach volley ball... love that.

Trying to take care of some stuff around the house SLOWLY! A little laundry... .. ice and relax.. a little put this or that a way.. ice and relax... I have a date tomorrow. Going to the beach with this really wonderful butch I have been dating recently. She doesn't want a commitment so it is sexless fun for now. lolol It is fun getting to know her though. I just can't do the sex without commitment thing. Don't have to be living together or have a ring on my finger... but have to be committed and not dating anyone else. We shall see. Having fun for now... dating other ppl as well. Nice to have some choices.

ttyl,
Ruthie

morningstar55 07-28-2012 04:02 PM

WAA.... i just lost a long post...... HATE ..doing ths frm my phn.
H understand ruth, i hate asking 4 help 2.... always feel guilty or self concious about askng. I thnk they wil thnk am using thm .. or taken advantage .

morningstar55 07-29-2012 06:40 AM

Morning loft dwellers ... another awsome Sunday morning here at the planet ..
later today.... i head up north of Chicago land , and then landing over just West of Cleveland ...
Ruth hope ur feeling better over there.

morningstar55 08-01-2012 10:39 AM

Wow whats it gona take 2 , get ths thread going again?? Heh

Afternooners all u old farts ... lol
am roaming the roads of ohiya lands 2day.... nex stop ... Clyde oh... wher evr that is... heie.. my grandfather's name Clyde :)
Anyways....... have a awsome day.

ruthie14 08-05-2012 08:55 AM

Hello Lofters.. Morning star!

Hope everyone is having a great weekend! I had a relaxing day yesterday and today I am going to a ladies dance... fun! Going to put blond highlights in my hair today for the first time. I enlisted Mom's help and we shall see.. never did it before, but hey, hair is meant to be played with..right!?

Ruthie :blueheels:

fever 08-05-2012 11:38 AM

Good morning
 
The landlord is power washing the house. I was awakened at 7am to the sound of big equipment roaring. lol So, having a coffee, watchin a chick flick, and trying to stay cool in 30 degree celsius weather. (I can't open the windows because he is power washing) I think I will go and see the Spiderman movie tonight. What are the rest of you doing this long weekend?

Candice

morningstar55 08-08-2012 03:43 AM

Wow what a awsome lunch and visit with 2 awsome guys . Simpleasdirt nd the ever fabulous Dutch Leonard . A very smiling girl here..
Now bk to work i go.
And good morning loft dwellers nd peekers
Have a awsome day.

spiritfemme7 08-08-2012 10:36 PM

Love this forum!
 
This is really cool that there is a thread for us forty and fifty somethings! i'm 45 and holding! lol! it's not so bad being in the forty something group, even though sometimes i feel like i've been through the war! but i did enjoy my first time skydiving recently! so that makes up for a lot of the bad and sad times in life! so where are the hot single butches in their forties on here? lol! :sunglass:

ruthie14 08-09-2012 07:26 PM

Dance was fun... however on the way to the dance I was at a red light that had just turned green and the car in front of me backed into me.... hard. I pulled over, they took off....ofcourse! Thank goodness I have an honest mechanic who will do the work for 500 that everywhere else would charge me over 1000. Oye On a better note, with the meds change and less lifting at work, I have been almost heachache free for 8 days. I usually get several a day in addition to the migraines so this is a HUGE and WONDERFUL change!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have a great friday and a wonderful weekend! :blueheels:

Ruthie

ruthie14 08-11-2012 06:23 AM

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morningstar55 08-12-2012 04:55 AM

Morning lofty dwellers nd peekers
Its a awsome Sunday morning here near DC .....
IN a little bit here, Will b visitng with ...... chef Jo ( aka chef jo) who Will b whipping upta awsome breakfast...
On another note......... y is ths thread so dead???
Hope everyone is having a awsome weekend
:):rrose:

ruthie14 08-12-2012 06:21 AM

Morning lofters... or should i just say Morning Morning star..... I know what you mean! Where is everyone???

Have a great breakfast with Chef Jo! Pictures please, I have high expectations! lolol

Going on a date today.... lunch then swimming or swimming then dinner... Always a lot of fun with her... too bad she has a commitment issue right now. Oh well, I always seem to find the ones that are out of long term relationships before they are ready for another one. I thought this one would be different... she has been out of that relationship for a while. Oh well, the heart mends when it mends. Gonna have fun while its fun...but after a while.. it starts to affect my self worth. That's when I will have to give it a break. I know I shouldn't let it... but somehow it does. *shrug*

Ruthie

KayCee 08-12-2012 06:35 AM

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ruthie14 08-12-2012 08:46 PM

While date was fun, she was definately pulling away. There was affection, but not as much as before. No making out etc. I know she is dating other people, and one other in particular. We have both been very honest with each other. I will not have sex outside of a relationship, she doesn't want a relationship..but does want sex. She has respected my boundaries and I respect her honesty. However, after today, I think she is leaning towards the other woman. We were seeing each other every other weekend (she has kids). Now she is going away on the weekend we usually see each other and the next time I see her will be at a women's event where we will be in the same cabin for a weekend with a number of other women. I know she is having sex with this other woman... fine. My head knows, and I told her, that she needs to figure this out for herself. She no longer wants to be monogamous because of past hurts. I want her to figure this out, I don't mind that she is doing this.It is something she feels she needs to do for a while and figure out what she wants. What bothers me is that she seems to be pulling away from me. She still seems to like me, played with my hair, kissed me sweetly several times, took me swimming and then out to dinner. But I am getting the feeling that she is wanting to go backwards... more of a friendship. I think I need some time away from her to figure out what I want to do. It's starting to hurt, and I don't like that.

lusciouskiwi 08-14-2012 10:32 AM

short film - 9 mins, bring tissues
 
I randomly came across this while watching something else. I cried. Thought this was the most appropriate place to put it ...


KayCee 08-14-2012 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi (Post 632427)
I randomly came across this while watching something else. I cried. Thought this was the most appropriate place to put it ...


This is so sad. I esp. liked the words: 'In this world we can't worry about what others think...'

Thank you for posting this.

ruthie14 08-15-2012 04:25 AM

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OS Butch 08-15-2012 04:53 AM

Good morning Ruthie:) I don't get here very often, but thought I would pop in before I head to work.

Have a great day!


Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 632902)


morningstar55 08-15-2012 05:59 AM

Morning loft dwellers nd peekers
am sitting in in , Bojangles getting breakfast and listening 2 Christian music ... where's my coffee .... heh
((((((((Ruth)))))))))))
I did take sm pictures of chef jo..... but hav 2 wait til i get on a computer.
hope everyone has a blessed day. :)


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