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miss entycing 06-29-2012 03:57 PM

brightest blessings, always.
my light remains.

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Turtle 07-03-2012 08:00 AM

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...life can be incredible...mystical...sometimes it all can actually glow...even in the mundane...

Blessed Be and Ashay

Lady Pamela 07-03-2012 01:12 PM


Lighting a candle for T4Texas

Asking at this time that your health be guarded.
That those in charge of you be directed in what to do.
And that you feel the energy and heal at this time.


Miss Scarlett 07-06-2012 06:42 PM

For my Beloved

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May the Universe guide and protect you...
May only the positive touch you...
May you be safe and at ease in body and spirit...



Spirit Dancer 07-06-2012 08:28 PM

For Tommi and Peg as she enters a new home and surroundings, may she have the peace that she deserves. Light for Tommi who has cared so tenderly for her and much Strength to hym as he travels back home.

For
Canela
Lady D
Lady Pamela
Katchzen
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Spirit Dancer 07-06-2012 08:31 PM

When we are weary and there seems to be no end
when we forget to tend to ourselves, risking our own health
give us the energy to ride the next plane.
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LoyalWolfsBlade 07-06-2012 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 612054)
When we are weary and there seems to be no end
when we forget to tend to ourselves, risking our own health
give us the energy to ride the next plane.
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I came in tonight to light a candle and when I saw Spirit Dancer's it reminded Me that in order for Me to give strength, energy, positive thoughts, and guidance I must first tend to My inner self. This is what drew Me to this thread long ago and keeps Me coming back. Because when My energy is replenished I can continue to help those in My circle.

So I pass on SpiritDancer candle...may it help another as it helped Me.

Lady Pamela 07-07-2012 02:23 AM


Healing energy for all who chooses to use it.

But for those names listed in candle thread above..I send it to you all now.

Spirit Dancer
Tommi
Peg
Canela
Lady D
Katchzen
Miss Entycing
Wolfy
Alix67
T4Texas

And anyone I may have missed who needs some added energy.


Namaste
And Blessed Be!


.

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LoyalWolfsBlade 07-08-2012 01:04 PM

I light my candle today for my girl and anyone else that needs the light and strength it provides to relieve the physical pain you may be experiencing...


With the flame I send my strength and positive energy out to you.

ladyhawkxx 07-08-2012 05:02 PM

For You Dad...
 
I lite my candle in honor of my father who passed this morning at 6:45am. I miss him already but know he's trying to beat my brother at Spades and is cheating... and they're laughing... For you Dad. Today tomorrow and always. I love you.

Lady Pamela 07-08-2012 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ladyhawkxx (Post 612756)
I lite my candle in honor of my father who passed this morning at 6:45am. I miss him already but know he's trying to beat my brother at Spades and is cheating... and they're laughing... For you Dad. Today tomorrow and always. I love you.

Lighting a candle off of your candle tonight for you and your family.

May you and your loved ones, healing be swift.
May you feel his spirit surround you always.
May memories come when needed, all posotive.
And may his life here be celebrated by all who knew and loved him.

Know that there are people on the planet who understand how you feel.
And that you only need to ask, and they will be there for you.

Blessed be to you,
Namaste

puddin' 07-09-2012 04:27 PM

healin' thoughts sent out to all in need...
 
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Tommi 07-09-2012 05:12 PM

Between the lines of text
 
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Give thanks to all who were along on my journey that was more than just 900 mere miles.

A long long journey, and that Jacuzzi hot tub at the Best Western at the end of the road. New respect for and a knowledge about love and life and loss of more than material things. A time for grieving it all and being thankful for it all and a time for rest and peace between all things big and small.

puddin' 07-11-2012 02:03 AM

fo' jenny & her master...
 
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SugarFemme 07-12-2012 04:18 AM

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I am always lighting candles and saying prayers for people who need it most. Sadly, on this day, I am lighting them for myself. I am ashamed to do this, but I need it. I'm feeling so overwhelmed lately. Between major health issues and having to move, it's too much. I'm usually so tough, but it feels like my fight has taken leave of me for a while. I know I will get it back, but today, I don't want to struggle. Thank you and bless each and everyone of you here.

LoyalWolfsBlade 07-12-2012 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by OneOfAKind (Post 613954)
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I am always lighting candles and saying prayers for people who need it most. Sadly, on this day, I am lighting them for myself. I am ashamed to do this, but I need it. I'm feeling so overwhelmed lately. Between major health issues and having to move, it's too much. I'm usually so tough, but it feels like my fight has taken leave of me for a while. I know I will get it back, but today, I don't want to struggle. Thank you and bless each and everyone of you here.

I add My flames to your's OneOfAKind may they give you a sens of tranquility. You are a strong woman that is always helping others in need. May what you have sent out to the world be brought back to you in your time of need.

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With My candles I send strength, positive thoughts, and a wish that your pain is lessened.

LoyalWolfsBlade 07-13-2012 11:09 AM


I light my candles today for E/everyone and A/anyone that needs a respite from stress and tension. May the light of the flames replenish Y/your energy. May My energy and positive thoughts help ease your burden today.

Turtle 07-13-2012 11:18 PM

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There is a time for grieving many different kinds of losses,
… a time for remembering the fun times, the laughter and the LOVE…
… a time for healing and learning how to deal with the pain…
… a time for growing strength in shielding ourselves from shame…
… and like Tommi said, a time for rest and peace between all things big and small…
… we could do none of this without being connected to each other and to Spirit…

Blessed Be and Ashay

Turtle 07-14-2012 08:44 AM

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Rest In Peace, Phyllis. You were so loved and and will be so missed.

LoyalWolfsBlade 07-14-2012 10:15 PM


Today I am focusing my energy on diabetes and all the people surrounding it. I am sending out my energy, prayers, and positive thoughts to all researchers; may they finally find a cure or at least a better treatment. To all doctors may you have the knowledge and compassion to hear when you patients tell you that the treatment is worse then the illness. To all members of society may you realize that while it is not cancer it is just as important to have knowledge of and support for those suffering from it. To all that suffer from it whether Type 1 or Type 2 I send you healing energy so that you may endure the side affects of the pills, the pain of the needles, and the constant desire for a cure.

To all that see this I ask that you join your energy in whatever way you believe with mine and countless others to find a cure.

Spirit Dancer 07-16-2012 06:29 AM

For those whom darkness threatens to comsume, may the path be lit
and hope remain.
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Spirit Dancer 07-16-2012 06:37 AM

For
Eagle Spirit
Lil Spirit
As our journey unfolds keeping strength in times of fear.

For Tommi
As your chapter closes, peace for tomorrow.

For D
Hope`Faith

For Lady Pamela
Even Warriors need to remember to breathe.

For Canela
Many blessings

A blessing and silent prayer sent above
hear my prayers and see my light, it shines for you.

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Turtle 07-17-2012 07:28 PM

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Oh, but to open up those places where the grief hides...

and let them breathe fresh air...

May tears and laughter mix...

May we know peace in our hearts and souls.


Blessed Be and Ashay

Lady Pamela 07-18-2012 12:57 AM

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For Spirit Dancer and your entire family.

Sending you healing waters at this time.
Also lighting a candle that continues to burn.

Know that you have others who help aide
in healing and energy. Always.


I also want to thank you very much!
For keeping me in your works and thoughts.
I truely needed a burst of energy today.
And somehow you always know...smiles
Thanks again...truely!

miss entycing 07-18-2012 07:26 AM

for my beautiful spirit sister,
know you are loved, and you matter.
sending you strength.. always, my light burns for all of you.

brightest blessings my friends...

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miss entycing 07-18-2012 07:32 AM

for my friend here, whos in the hospital.
know that You are in my prayers, and You are loved.
i'm keeping my light burning so You get better.

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rockybcn 07-19-2012 05:46 AM

For in life, there are surprizes.....no matter what is cast our way....let us breathe and embrace them for our higher good. I light a candle for all lifes surprizes!!!

Spirit Dancer 07-19-2012 06:22 AM


LoyalWolfsBlade 07-22-2012 04:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 615992)
For those whom darkness threatens to comsume, may the path be lit
and hope remain.
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Quote:

Originally Posted by Turtle (Post 616652)
Oh, but to open up those places where the grief hides...

and let them breathe fresh air...

May tears and laughter mix...

May we know peace in our hearts and souls.


Blessed Be and Ashay

I came to this thread needing something but not knowing what exactly and Spirit Dancer's candle and Turtle's words told me I was in the right place. That I was guided here to see those two posts as soon as I logged on to the thread. So I pass them on to the next person that comes her. May you feel the positive healing energy wash over you as I did. Thank you everyone here just for posting and the energy you send out so unselfishly.

Turtle 07-22-2012 04:20 PM

Breathe In.........Breathe Out....
 
Come Into The Silence........

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Cut the ties that do harm...cast them adrift - the people, the experiences, the thoughts, the feelings...

Breathe In..........Breathe Out......

Strengthen the connections that heal.......Feel the connections getting stronger....

Breathe In......... Breathe Out......

Smile as you remember the wonderful people and the experiences you have had with them.....bask in the smile.......Soak in the glow......

Breathe In........Breathe Out.....

Come Into The Silence And Let Your Spirit Heal.........

Breathe In........Breathe Out......


Spirit Dancer 07-22-2012 06:55 PM

A Pause for Reflection
 
We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned,
so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.

Joseph Campbell
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Spirit Dancer 07-22-2012 06:59 PM

The simplicity of a single flame, to touch and send energy
still amazes me how a single flame can be felt around the globe.
Energy, and renewal to those who need it.

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Parker 07-23-2012 07:38 AM

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This is for the woman in Lincoln, NE who was brutally attacked in her own home yesterday by 3 men, simply because she's a lesbian. Were it not for the failed attempt at setting her house on fire (they created only a flash fire from the gasoline vapors that did not continue to burn), this candle would be burning in her memory.

But even though she escaped death, the scars from the cuts and the homophobic slurs that were carved into her body will be a painful reminder of a crime based on hate .... and fear.

All of the recent violence against lesbians recently is frightening; so this candle is also for other sisters' lives lost and shattered.

Here is a link to an article about the incident.


This is a pic of what the men painted in the woman's basement, as taken by her friend:

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These are pics of a candlelight vigil held in Lincoln, NE last night:

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Spirit Dancer 07-24-2012 06:44 AM

This poem from an unknown author was sent to me, thought I would share it here.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are..
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson,
Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

Thank you for being a part of my life,
Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.


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Turtle 07-24-2012 07:49 PM

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Someone I care very deeply about entered into hospice care today. My Soul aches.


I wish her the relationship healing with family that she desires - Please let that go well. I wish her comfort and an easy passing - she has had a hard life.

Shalom

ruffryder 07-24-2012 08:30 PM

Colorado State Senator Michael Johnston wrote this essay after the theater shootings. Take a moment to read it, take a lifetime to experience it:

Aurora Shootings: Love Back Written by Mike Johnston on July 20th, 2012 at 9:59 pm

Yesterday, four million Coloradans went to work and played football in their front yard; strangers opened doors for each other; people gave blood, offered shelter, served hot meals, held grandkids, played pick-up basketball and committed unnumbered acts of kindness and gentleness. One Coloradan dressed up like a villain and believed that by showing up at the site of America's mythical hero he could slay our actual heroes. It's true there was no Batman sitting in the theater to fly down and tackle James Holmes, as he hoped there might be. He had tactical assault gear covering his whole body, ready for America to fight back.

But love is more organized than that. Love has cellphones and ambulances, nurses and doctors, complete strangers and policemen and emergency responders always at the ready. Love has nurses who will jump out of bed in the middle of the night and get family members to watch their children so they can rush to the hospital and save the life of someone they've never met. Love has first responders who will walk into a booby-trapped building to save the lives of neighbors they will never meet. It must be lonely being James Holmes, spending the first part of your life planning alone for an act that will leave you sitting alone for the rest of your life. For the rest of us, life is crowded. Love is always only three numbers and one movie seat away.

We have lived our country's history as a chapter of wars, and many of those wars we have been blessed to win. We are a team that loves each other and will fight for each other, and if you punch us in the mouth, we will fight back. That is one of our obvious strengths, but it is not our greatest strength. America's awesome strength to fight is overwhelmed by its irrepressible strength to love. James Holmes took twelve lives last night. Love saved fifty-nine lives. Policemen on the scene in minutes, strangers carrying strangers, nurses and doctors activated all over the city. But we didn't stop there.

Love saved the 700 other people who walked out of the Aurora movie theater unhurt. But we didn't stop there. Love saved the 5,000 who went to see Batman all over Colorado, and the 1.2 million who saw it all over the country, who walked in and out safely with their friends, arm in arm. But we didn't stop there. Love claimed the four million other Coloradans who went to bed peacefully last night, ad who woke up this morning committed to loving each other a little deeper. The awe of last night is not that a man full of hate can take twelve people's lives; it is that a nation full of love can save 300 million lives every day.

I sat this morning wondering what I could do to help: give blood, support victims, raise money, stop violence. How could we start to fight back? My friends were texting me that they had plans to take their kids to Batman tonight but were now afraid to go. Others who were going to play pick-up basketball or go out to dinner were now afraid to leave home. They thought they would bunker down in their home and wonder, "How do we fight back?" The answer is we love back. We live back. We deepen our commitments to all the unnumbered acts of kindness that make America an unrendable fabric. We respond by showing that we will play harder, and longer. We will serve more meals, play more games, eat more food, listen to more jazz, go to more movies, give more hugs, and say more "thank yous" and "I love yous" than ever before.

So while James Holmes settles into the cell where he will spend the rest of his life, wondering what we will do to fight back, we will love back. We will go to a park this afternoon and play soccer, we will go to the playground and restaurants and movie theaters of our city all weekend and all year. He should know not only that he failed in his demented attempt to be the villain, but that Batman didn't have to leap off the screen to stop him, because we had a far more organized and powerful force than any superhero could ever have. Even the twelve lives that he took, this nation will love so strongly and so deeply that we will ensure they get a lifetime full of love out of a life he tried to cut short. And the fifty-nine lives we took back will be so overrun with love that they will live their lives feeling blessed every day, and everyone who ever meets them will pass on in an instant a love they never knew they earned but we will never let them forget. In a movie theatre in Aurora 50 years from now, one of last night's survivors will be waiting in the popcorn line and mention that he was in Theatre 9 on that terrible summer night in 2012. And inexplicably, with an arm full of popcorn, a total stranger will reach out and give that old man a huge hug and say, "I'm so glad you made it." Love back. We've already won.

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LoyalWolfsBlade 07-25-2012 12:08 AM

Someone I care deeply for is having a difficult time in many areas of her life including experiencing severe pain. This candle is for her as well as my positive thoughts and energy.
You are a strong woman and I know you will find the answers and support you both need and deserve my friend. My thoughts are with you!

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Spirit Dancer 07-28-2012 01:20 PM

For Blessings seen and unseen
For prayers and light
For forgiveness and Understanding
For balance when there is none
For Renewal......
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CharmingButch25 07-28-2012 02:18 PM

What if someone truly is alone and they really dont have anyone to love them? I came home to an empty house after 3 weeks of talking myself into the fact that reality really didnt happen to me, I am sad as I sit here crying my eyes out, truly there isnt anyone
Quote:

Originally Posted by JazzGirl (Post 94970)


Today, I light candles for any who feel lonely or alone. You are not. You are loved by all who know you.

Jazzie





MaggieBluIze 07-29-2012 07:35 AM

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This candle is for my little 6 month old grand-daughter ((((Aimee)))).
She in the hospital right now ... Has a fever that is spiking up to 103.
She can't keep food down and they have an IV in her tiny little hand.

Nana loves you sweet baby girl ...
I know it doesn't feel like it, but you'll be better soon.

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