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Jesse 01-03-2011 05:10 PM

FOOD! At least for now

Tucker 01-03-2011 05:13 PM

Theres only one way I know how to say. I want you.
 


Laughter. Laughter until our tummys hurt and we can't breathe.

(Oh, and someone that can make fun of me.)





Gemme 01-03-2011 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme (Post 258723)
I changed my mind!

When I was in Australia - Dreamer and I went into an Opal store in Melbourne - OMFG

This was the most brilliant Boulder Opal I have ever seen (as if I have seen a lot) and it was surrounded by tiny diamonds - the gold had a black rhodium finish - so it was neither yellow or white but black. The Opal was free form - simply stunning and a work of art.

I wanted this!
I did not get this!

I might feel loved if I did.
And it was less than a canary diamond.

That sounds gorgeous! When I was on a cruise, I saw a lovely opal that made me wish I had the money for it sooooo bad. I wanted it and it wanted me, I could tell. It's tragic, I tell you.

*cry*

http://www.paulgallienne.com/page19.htm

I love the black and boulder opals on this page.

katsarecool 01-03-2011 09:09 PM

Receiving books and chocolate is a good start!

Tommi 01-03-2011 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by katsarecool (Post 258989)
Receiving books and chocolate is a good start!

giving away books, (f) and getting lotttsa chocolate.

Leigh 01-03-2011 09:16 PM

What I need to be loved is very simple - tell Me and show Me

Strappie 01-03-2011 09:37 PM

My Friends

My Family

Oh and a gf would be the bonus.

bigbutchmistie 01-03-2011 09:39 PM

To just be able to snuggle up and talk about the day. No matter how good or bad it was...

Sharing hopes and dreams..

little_ms_sunshyne 01-03-2011 09:40 PM

Hmmmm...What I need to feel loved...

~ Ask me how my day went...and actually listen and care about the response

~ Tons of affection filled with snuggles, hugs, and kisses

~ Eyes meeting even in a crowded room, lingering glance

~ Sweet Gestures or thoughts

~ Tell me you want me or how much you missed me

~ A nice text or a surprise phone call

~ Being able to laugh and just be silly together

~ Being there to comfort me and listen when the world just doesn't make sense...knowing that I will do the same

~Sharing in the laziness of a rainy day that calls for take out, snuggles, and movies

~ Being able to share in those intimate moments behind closed doors...The type that only you and your partner know about...delicious, sinful, and loving all wrapped in one :)

:) Too specific, I'm sure..But hey I am a girl who knows what she wants :)

Corkey 01-03-2011 09:52 PM

My wife
that's all.

Soft*Silver 01-03-2011 10:01 PM

submission

Lynn 01-03-2011 10:27 PM

To feel loved, I need to be accepted as I am, without a need for me to change in order to meet anyone else's expectations. I need to be able to ask for and get hugs and support. I will feel loved if I am loved according to my own needs and desires, and not those defined by another. I feel loved when I am listened to and HEARD, and when I am CONSIDERED. When we do something just because I want to do it, and when she is happy because *I* am happy, I feel loved. And, when you tell me how you need to be loved and then let me love you that way, I also feel loved. xxoo

I do feel loved.

Just_G 01-03-2011 10:32 PM

I need to know that we are BOTH vulnerable and ready to BE loved.



Starbuck 01-04-2011 07:52 AM

To feel loved I need:
 
Your soft caress on my arm that asks, "how was your day?"

Letting me show my affection for you makes me feel loved

When you look in to my eyes and tell me how pretty they are

To know that you accept me for me, w/o reservations

Shared kisses that speak volumes in moments of complete silence

To know you feel the same way

Baby Bear 01-04-2011 09:21 AM

Hmm what do I need to feel loved
 
For someone to love me unconditionally, and allow me to be vulnerable and dependent in their arms yet recognize my strength and abilities as a individual.

redrose 04-22-2011 11:25 AM

what do I need to feel loved??? a lot lol!!!

-food (lol! no one would like me if i'm hungry)
-on call (lol! should always be available)
-good listener (i am a nagger, lol! i am so quiet with other people, and i only talk to my butch, unfortunately, i could be annoying)
-has a good memory (should never forget important occasions)
-should bring out the best in me (i need to feel beautiful and wanted without saying it, lol!)

bigbutchmistie 04-22-2011 11:48 AM

I need to know that no matter what life throws at me I have a partner who stands by my side through it.

Affection and lots of it

Make me feel like I'm your King cause I will only treat you as my Queen

So much more but I need to get back to work :)

Jesse 04-22-2011 12:26 PM

For me, what is important in love is to take the time to find out what love feels like to my partner and then make sure I know how to love them in that way and vice versa. This is important because what feels like love to me may not feel like love to another person, and their way of showing love may not reach me in that capacity.

Merlin 05-17-2011 06:15 AM

Physical attention,
Plenty of kissing,
Caresses,subtle touches.
Cuddles.
Hair ruffles,
Candlelit baths,
Intimate massages,
Nice meals cooked,

storyofmylife 05-17-2011 06:32 AM

what do i need to feel loved........
 
Just the knowing that I am.......
even if we are miles apart :stillheart:


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