I still haven't figured out what a Stone femme is. I'm married to a Stonebutch, but i'm not "Stone" in any way. This is how he identifies which I respect immensely. If you are Stone then it's fine if you identify by it but to be thrown into that category simply because you are going with a Stone doesn't feel logical. Also it seems to me it's not just a behavior but a part of who you and how you see things (imo). It's wonderful to see so many different points of view because it helps me to crystallize mine. Thanks everyone.:candle: