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Chad 06-24-2016 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 1072323)
Ok, I get it. Completely.

What was actually going on in my head was the memory of me teasing Chad in the "crush" thread a couple of months ago. He came in at two different points saying, "nope, I don't see my name here" (something along those lines). I teased him about it at the time "saying that I had seen my name in there thousands of times, and I believe there was also that "butch 2x4 talk in the thread close to those posts (so the 2x4 comment was a flashback to that moment in the thread, too). So, that is probably why I had tunnel vision on that post. Plus, I really thought that his question was the point of the post.

I don't think that I have ever seen my name in so many posts. Dapper buddy I loved your post to me.

The posts from Soon and Gemme have given me food for thought. I usually just ignore bad behavior but this young lady at work does behave unprofessional and something should be done about it.

I appreciate everyone's feed back and will ponder my next steps. I think for me the first step is to tell my coworker that her behavior offends me. If she continues then I will elevate the conversation.

Thank you to everyone that offered advice.
Chad

Soon 06-24-2016 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 1072323)
Ok, I get it. Completely.

What was actually going on in my head was the memory of me teasing Chad in the "crush" thread a couple of months ago. He came in at two different points saying, "nope, I don't see my name here" (something along those lines). I teased him about it at the time saying that I had seen my name in there thousands of times, and I believe there was also that "butch 2x4" talk (which I have always found annoying), in the thread close to our posts (so the 2x4 comment was a flashback to that moment, too). So, that is probably why I had tunnel vision on that post. Plus, I really thought that his question was the point of the post.

Thanks for engaging with me in a respectful manner and hearing where I was coming from! :)

*Anya* 06-24-2016 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TL1 (Post 1072305)
What she does is goes to people and says it so I can hear and I will say something like.... "I don't think so" or I throw in choice words also. Then she laughs. So she makes it look like playing but she does it alllllllll the time. You would think she wouldn't find it amusing anymore but I guess she does. There has been talks and they helped some. She is also a sort of supervisor. But she is always acting out like she craves attention from everyone. She picks with a bunch of people but i don't get why I am the only one that she acts like that with.

I'd say it's a mix of professional and "loose". HR recently fired a man for sexual harassment.

Icky to the absolute max.

It doesn't matter if it is a female, a male or a trans person either on the giving or receiving end; it feels sexually and behaviorally inappropriate and I would also feel very uncomfortable.

It is not workplace behavior!

Good grief!

Sweet Bliss 11-16-2016 06:54 PM

That awkward moment when someone leans in to kiss you, and you pull away/turn your head..... lol

Don't do that to me on first meeting....geez let me have my space.

homoe 11-16-2016 07:41 PM

When someone invites you out to eat and they have not only terrible table manners but are rude to the waitstaff:|

C0LLETTE 11-16-2016 07:53 PM

When waitstaff is rude, ruins my dinner with horrible service and I grab them by the throat and throw them across the room, only to find my dinner companion hiding under the table.

Brisa 11-16-2016 07:58 PM

Brisa
 
the awkward moment when your x starts screaming at someone at the fishing pier and you pretend you don't know her.........

C0LLETTE 11-16-2016 08:16 PM

The odd moment when you suddenly decide fishing is cruel to fish and start yelling at everyone on the pier that they're going to go to hell and your partner tries to hook your mouth shut.

easygoingfemme 11-16-2016 08:30 PM

That awkward moment when you go out for dinner with your daughter, an hour away from home, look up after sitting down, and realize you are wearing pretty much an identical outfit. (her red Chucks, me red Docks, both in blue jeans, both the exact same v-neck long sleeve black t-shirt- seriously the same exact shirt. Didn't even know we both owned it. Hair done in similar fashion.

DapperButch 11-16-2016 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by C0LLETTE (Post 1108001)
When waitstaff is rude, ruins my dinner with horrible service and I grab them by the throat and throw them across the room, only to find my dinner companion hiding under the table.

Well, it's good to know early if they are a wuss. :cigar2:

cinnamongrrl 11-17-2016 06:17 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1108026)
That awkward moment when you go out for dinner with your daughter, an hour away from home, look up after sitting down, and realize you are wearing pretty much an identical outfit. (her red Chucks, me red Docks, both in blue jeans, both the exact same v-neck long sleeve black t-shirt- seriously the same exact shirt. Didn't even know we both owned it. Hair done in similar fashion.



As I was reading this the Patty Duke song sprang into my head. They look alike sometimes they even dress alike....what a wild duet!

akiza 09-19-2017 12:56 AM

you tell at your girl crush hetero that you have sentiments for her ^^ and she tells you politly that no yeah akward as fuck but thanks it happens only once!

Gemme 09-20-2017 07:57 AM

The moment you realize that the sword that they are creating on Forged in Fire is basically a giant penis.

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