Being lied to by someome who i truly thought was a friend.

And folks not wanting inclusion in life.

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Fire ant bites. Lots of them

My aunt Carol.

My aunt Janet is having a gathering at her house today for her husband's birthday. My mom told me a couple weeks ago she wasn't going. My mother is OCD and the most sanitary person I have ever met. She told me she doesn't feel like some people at these gatherings are very sanitary. For example, at the last event one of the nieces changed her baby's diaper and didn't wash her hands and then someone used their hands to get food. My mom's immune system is very low so she has to be very careful about germs. Plus, she hasn't been feeling well.

When she told my aunt Carol she didn't want to go my aunt gave her a hard time. (My mom won't tell her how she feels about the unsanitary stuff or when she's not feeling well) Carol thinks just because my mom doesn't look sick and that she still goes on walks and does things in her yard that my mom is fine. She always drives and then keeps my mom up there all day. My mom always feels bad when she gets home.

I am a little irritated with my mom for not sticking to her guns. I want to say something to Carol but my mom doesn't want me to do that. I feel like I should at least say something.

I am sorry buddy, it seems like a hard situation to be in. Can you take mom to the party but eat elsewhere?

Best wishes for you and your mom,
Chad

Thank you, Chad. She went with my aunt. I had to run out before she got here. I'm still debating on whether or not to say something to her when they get home. Part of the irritation is my mom will complain to me about it and then I go into protective mode. I wish she wasn't so stubborn and would be honest and tell people when she's not feeling well. She's an adult but it pisses me off when people don't have compassion and common sense. Chemotherapy is rough on anyone. My mom tries her best to stay active even when she feels crappy. She's been experiencing flu like symptoms for weeks which is common with chemo and she tires quickly. I just hate that she's not doing what she wants to do and letting my aunt guilt her into things. I wish they could just feel what she feels for a week and see how well they handle it. Plus it's just dangerous for my mom to be around germs right now.

I'm just ranting do forgive me.

Can I swear??????? Frickin 367$&&(;)$?|~>}{<> PayPal.
Ok so I have had the same PayPal acct for like 20 years, before stupid crap got popular. Well anyway I wanted to hook a different Visa card to PayPal . Simple right. I enter number hit button I get msg it says card is already associated with anothervpaypal account......ok I figure I screwed up number enter again same thing... one more time same message. So I call PayPal .... seems my credit card that is an account only in my name and only one card issued in my name is listed and authorized in someone else’s account 🧐🤨🧐🤨🧐 so I ask how did that happen? The account has no other info about me just my credit card number and they won’t tell me who the person is, they need to protect the dickheads privacy 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬mfingsobfingasshat can steal my card and they protect the thieving 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬’s privacy. So PayPal gonna investigate. I call the bank tell them... oh yeah there are charges 😤😤😤😤😤😤🤯🤯🤯🤯🤬matter of fact🤬🤬a big bunch...not mine since they were all thru PayPal and PayPal np right... umm not quite...I head out of town Thursday, this card is no good, the $$ limit the thief hit... anduntil paypal and the bank have a little chat... I’m 😮🤬🤬🤬🤬in the 🤬🤬🤬🤬 with no card. I am at the mercy of PayPal and a bank to get this straightened out...so I can have a usable card which I was planning on using to buy a new bike since I will be in the country that has a store that sells it. Beautiful extraordinary magnificent bike that is so fine and so beautiful and streak lines and great goat skin saddle , this is a once in a lifetime bike... in 65 these things don’t have much more time to pop up in my life......yes I understand people are starving and I’m whining about a bike... the shipping charge is outrageous that’s why I was excited, I could just bring it home with me.....
Arrrrrrgggghhhhh. Then to make the day complete I took my weekly pic..... of me.... growing a beard... and so I took my picture and when I saw it, it wasn’t me staring back. It was my brother$&&$&&$@&&@&&@&& oh hell no! Not him!
I go thru all this to look like his twin????? This day has gone from crap to total sg$&@. Girlfriend and I are arguing over stupid crap, I of course apologize all sincere and stuff I said the words wrong or something she gets madder.... hangs up on me won’t take my calls, goes out with friends... when does that T side effect really kick in? Not hard to figure out...so here I am no credit card no bike I look like my neabderthal brother girlfriend pissed off and I am so sexually aroused that painting I did of a nude on a bed with a rooster on her head... even the damn cock is starting to look hot! 🤹🏻‍♀️🤹🏻‍♀️🤹🏻‍♀️ Ok thanks for letting me vent going to go juggle some balls; yeah I know not mine cause the gf has them in a grip...

not been pissed off at all today, only hot and swampy feeling as I mowed the front lawn in shifts ... I think it became a lot hotter a lot quicker this year --->>> it is normally July before it is this unbearable

It sounds like your girlfriend is a smart and thinking woman, she'll come around. In the meantime, I don't know paint pictures of Eunuchs with horse heads or something.

Rude, inconsiderate drivers

People who clean out their car and leave trash on the ground in state parks

Losing GPS signals

Losing your or the people in the park's GPS signal?

My Partner's sister cannot go anywhere without her GPS. Don't they still
make maps? They're a little more reliable and generally don't get lost. A map won't lead you blindly into desert terrain that you can't get out of! js
This luddite doesn't know how to program a GPS and has never owned a smartphone.

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Nothing but the day's still young!

Douchebag calling the office, thinking he's so clever, giving my associates grief... Yes, transfer him to me.

Of course... POS didn't know what he was talking about... in several areas and I was happy to educate him. Anything I help you with sir? *click* Yeah, that's what I thought.

As Mgmt, I put up with a lot from customers... and NON customers like this asshole... but when you starting bullying my employees... you're gonna get spanked!

This gawd awful heat killing or almost killing most of my garden

Hate to keep beating a dead horse but the post office...........:deadhorse:

Post op surgery annoyances........

Woke up to a message from nurse asking to call her to see how I was due to having some issues. So I called her back and we talked. She asked me to come in to be seen.

I requested not to see dr n. (Who I’ve seen once before and she swooped in and out without really listening to me so I had a negative opinion of her) due to my surgeon not being in today. So they said they will try to get me in with dr c. Don’t know her but I’m like ok. Ended up with dr n anyway. Which this time wasn’t so bad so I was ok with it. But my paper work says I saw dr c. Wtf? Anyway they decided to do a C.T. but I guess because she wanted results now and not by appointment which I guess could mean a different day....told me to go over to the ER and get it done. So I spend all damn day in the ER drugged up half asleep most of the time. (I didn’t ask for pain meds they just asked about pain and when they gave me the IV next thing I know they give me pain meds through it) so I Finally get C.T. then am told dr n is in flight and they will speak to her once she lands to see how she wants to proceed. Again wtf?? So I sleep more and wait for what seems like forever. Finally leave with antibiotics starving and feeling worse than when I went in because it was 8pm and I had been drugged and no food or drink since I woke up today. I did have fluids through IV but also a big ass headache when all was done.

Pretty annoying day. Glad it’s over. And yes I feel pissed that I had to do all that for antibiotics. Especially the freaking ER!

Someone who usually isn't nice to me being nice to me now that money is involved.