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stopping in to say hello. :) *waves*
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moving to Alaska
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But then Anchorage a pretty good sized city about 8 hours away gets only to like 78. JUST thought I would let U know.... |
Good Evening to all the lofters how is everyone this evening?? FEllow classmates are job hunting and I tell you its not that easy even in the health-care field. I just hope it doesn't take too long to find work as a MA!!
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mawning Kitchen junkies.... well what a morning I had.... lol went for a power walk, grabed my coffee on the way bk to my truck, then checked my oil, had to walk bk to store, get oil, add to engin, then my oil cap fell under truck...*sigh* had to crawl under there to get it,, so ok im dirty now, walked bk to building to clean up, walking bk to truck, witnessd an old couple in there 70's hit a parked car in the parking lot .:blink: and right in front of me so ran after them cuz they kept going.. *whewww* ok now im off to head to my favorite art supply store here.. there is a new soul food restraunt next door , im thinking of getting something to go . and next to it is a chinese buffet. with a nice variety of SUSHI!! .. wow hard to decide.. lol anyways........... ttfn:chocolate::cherry: |
Hi all.
I think this is the first time I've been in here in over 30 days. Everyone have a good weekend. |
Good afternoon lofters have a great weekend!!
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mawning Lofters lol http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o.../06B2nBALd.jpg its been a awsome crisp cool day here in Nashvegas.... but warming up ... im about to hit the road.. have to be in Alliston On.. which is just north of Toronto by monday morning. soo will be driving most the day today. anyways..... need to git here...... have a great weekend everyone. |
Goodmorning everyone,
Its my first time in here so I thought I would say something lol.Its my first weekend off in 3 weeks and wouldn't you know it all my buddies are working today.Oh well guess I'll find something to do around here. Have a great day everyone. |
afternooners lofters
ya know.... lately i dont know what it is..... but i been running to some butchs i find of interest only to find out they are into other butchs..... and i dont know why ..... but when i see them all cooing over each other on each others profile.. on FB and such .... it well .... i just cant stand to see that.. and i get the hell out of there... even ones that are just friends... hope this doesnt offend anyone here... on that subject. im just a girl whom loves and is very into the Butch/femme dynamic big time. I love my girly side and makeup and girly things... and my domesticated ways of taking care of my guy and our house hold... but i guess to each there own..... heh |
Morningstar, don't you think those are kind of role stereotypes? Jeez, you drive a big ass truck. Somebody might say that's not feminine, even if it's bedecked with flowers. In real life, how many people actually fit the mold? I agree, "each to their own"
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Good Evening Lofters how is everyone doing, its suppose to storm this evening yikes I don't like that at all!!
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the whole Butch/butch thing
Ummm Star....Yeah I am rather offended.....I am a softbutch/androgynous person who is ONLY into butches and androgy people. NOT into the whole femme thing.......sorry that is just me.....and yeah none of US as Jude put it.....Fits the Mold....I am into taking care of others. I am a MAJOR caretaker....Does that make me femme?? NOT sure....I LOVE flowers...Hate pink and purple......more into Light blues and Jades and that rubber ducky yellow color....I shop in the men's department...trying helplessly to wear my hair in a fohawk...but I am NOT good at it. Above all I am JUST me. a friend of mine calls me a Chapstick Lesbian
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Gentle Moderation
We appreciate the way Jude and naturlover addressed morningstar's post. We need to be able to talk to one another about these things without being harsh and hurtful. We do *indeed* need to be ever mindful and respectful of the beautiful diversity we celebrate here. Just because something is "not my thing" doesn't mean I need to say anything about it. I just need to say what my thing is...and I can do that without bringing up the "negative" or flip side. |
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and how we put things is going to be monitored now? |
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2. We have asked that threads not be continually derailed simply because someone does not care for the moderation. Do that via PM. 3. You are being sarcastic as hell in asking that, and you know it. You know full good and well what our intentions were in posting that reminder, and your interjection is not helpful nor is it appreciated. 4. If you have any further issue with this, contact me via PM. Thinker (moderating) |
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Can this thread be turned into something affirmative? One of the positive things about growing up (presuming everybody in this thread is a bon afide "grown up") is that we get to take a look at some of the roles we've been playing in life and recognize them as either useful or non productive. Every one of us have both feminine and masculine aspects. All human beings are somewhat androgynous (gay or straight). How wonderful to be us and able to experience ourselves as we truly are and give full expression to the varied facets of ourselves. As we mature, one of the bonuses in life is coming to the point where we don't really give a damn what anybody else thinks of us. I don't care what you think of me so long as my authenticity is expressed within my own demeanor. We wasted a whole lot of time in our youth "giving a damn" :balloon: Just my thought. Afterthought: I'd like to say that I am sooooooooooooooooooo pleased that I came upon Butch-Femme Planet. You've got some thoughtful, brilliant, intuitive people here that are hard to come by in the real world. My personal thanks to whomever came up with the idea and to those who moderate and subsidize it with their time and efforts. It's so nice to have a place to try out ideas (possibly try on different hats) and feel right at home. XXX to everybody here. |
been around these threads for a long time both here and the dash site- and *I've* never seen this particular thread anything less than affirmative :) *I* still don't. *I* also think the original post was nicely moderated- with tact, and grace. :) life's too short to dwell... yanno? my version of 'productive' may be your version of an idiot- so what? our differences, and our versatility in an interconnecting space here are what a community makes. we are all fabulous, and perfectly flawed.... period. so, moving on..... good afternoon Lofter's! hope everyone is having a delicious day thus far. :sunglass: |
My thing......
My thing is femmes.... Femmes in all shapes, sizes, short or tall.... Femmes with a sly sense of humor.... Femmes who don't mind a butch helping in the kitchen... Femmes who like to have their butch open their doors.... Femmes who can dance a two step but who know when it's time to sit down and take a bit of a rest.... Femmes who may be able to get me to do what I don't want to do....... Femmes who are independent, those who know how to stand on their own two feet... but who also lean a bit when they need to.... Femmes who can cock an eyebrow as if to say "oh no, you did not just say that"..... Femmes who also like butches! Me likem Femmes...... :cigar2: :cigar2: :cigar2: |
Good Afternoon lofters just watching Alive the movie where all those rugby players crashed in the Andes so sad only one med student to help those poor people!! Hope everyone is having a great day!!
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