It depends... Are we talking about things we learned from, or messages from others?
One of the biggest thing that I've held dear is a kindergarten teachers message to the class one morning of "Remember kids, this is a playground. You may not like everyone on it, but you still need to play nice."

Another message I remember very clearly is a VM that came. I was too busy to answer the phone that morning. Too busy with what? Seriously... I kick myself. I was making coffee, and thought I could chat later. That was the last VM I ever got. The person died that day. They had called to say hello, and wanted to tell me what was on their mind that they had been thinking about... To this day, I wonder what those thoughts were.


TTT- If you could push a button, and someone somewhere in the world would die (who is not connected to you through family/friends) in exchange for $1,000,000.00, would you? (Yes... this is from the movie)

What goes around comes around. No guts no glory. You are only as good as your word. Never surrender of your own free will. Lead by example. You can have anything you want if you want it bad enough.

If there is an area in your life you are not happy with , what would it take for you to fix that. And why do you think you haven't done that yet? What is truely stopping you ?

I want to be a therapist again but am afraid of me breaking down physically like I did the last time I tried to hold a small client load. I had been thinking of trying it again recently and then a couple weeks ago I was taken by ambulance to ER from my store. BUT I think I am going to take the classes I need to do this, in case, ever, I really can do this. I will be ready if I ever get well enough. I need some classes to catch me up for certs.

think of the person you love the most in life and death. What arent you telling them?Or didnt get to tell them?

the day my father had his last heart attack he was in a coma in a hospital several hours away from where i was living at that time. i made his girl friend hold the phone up to his ear and i told him what i wanted him to know --- that he was the best father any child could have ever hoped for, that i was grateful to him for saving my life, that he was the best thing that ever happened to me, and that he didnt have to wait for me to get there if he needed to go now. what i should have said was that i was sorry for missing father's day, and his birthday and all the other days i missed because i was somewhere else. and i should have said all those thing while he was alive.

what would you/will you say to the love of your life as soon as you have the chance?

I love You....and probably say a lot more than just that.


What would you do/say or what have you done/or said if and when...
you accidentally walk (ed) into the wrong sexed bathroom and the inhabitants saw you?

never.

what is the last lie you told? and why?

No, I like what I buy.

But if you do not have the money but need the outfit for some occasion it makes sense.

What is the last thing you have bought for yourself?

A super cute vintage Mary Tyler Moore coat at Buffalo Exchange for $13.

Have you ever been to a strip-club?

Yes

T/F--You are still under the covers.

True, I'm sitting up in bed with the laptop, drinking coffee she brought me when she went downstairs to work out.

True or False... you "code switch" your way of speaking, depending on those around you.

True, with a Tween girl in the house it is a necessity.

True or False....you enjoy your "alone time."

I do enjoy my alone time. I have spent a good portion of my life alone and have grown used to it, I probably enjoy it more than I even realize.

What famous person would you love to share a passionate kiss with?

I don't lust over "famous people".


If you could pick one thing to do before you die (anything at all), what would it be?

Clothing.......

What movie did you see last?

despicable me 2

name one thing in your diet you could not live without

fresh garlic


If you could quote your day in one sentence what would it say?