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Would you date yourself?
This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight. This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches. It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc. And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not? |
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I would without a doubt. I am a good catch. Kind, compassionate, well read and yes attractive to boot. :seeingstars:
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I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...
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No, cause I'm married, and I don't fool around on my wife.:seeingstars:
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I would have to lean towards no.
Don't get me wrong, I have lots of qualities I like about myself. That's not it. I am looking for someone who complements me, not someone who is exactly like me. If they are exactly like me and like ALL the same things that I do and has all the same exact opinions that I do then I will not be challenged. There have to be some commonalities but not everything. |
Well I know "Strappie" would love me but I'm not so sure I would love "Strappie" The heat seeking moisture missile is a lot to handle.
Ohhh I went there...... |
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Kobi knew there was a reason June was on the women to lust after from afar list. :) |
No. I'm really not my type. Way too old, cranky and set in my ways.
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Me and I are non committal, we won't talk about Strappie.... :)
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Me and I are going to bed before we get Strappie in trouble... G'night!
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Yeah, I think I'd date me.
I know that I can be trusted to give myself a lot of space, and I like my space. I wouldn't get my feelings hurt when I don't return my phonecall, because I would have forgotten that I had called myself to begin with. That sounds good. Plus I wouldn't have to argue with myself over what radio station to listen to, and I would never begrudge myself a True Blood Marathon Saturday. I wouldn't criticize myself for drinking several pots of coffee a day, because I'd be drinking that much too. I'd never pressure myself to quit smoking. I wouldn't want me to change anything about myself. If I moved in with myself I wouldn't have to compromise with myself on things like what colour to paint the bathroom, because me and myself have the same taste. |
I don't know that I would have enough patience to date me.
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I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......
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No. I'm too stubborn, headstrong, sassy, fiercely independent and I make terrible squish fritters! |
I would so date me...lol
Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol
PROS - loving - caring - passionate - quirky - always in the mood (*wink wink*) - mad bedroom skills (*teehee*) - pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too) - intelligent - easily amused - tenacious - patient and loyal (most of the time) - optimistic - impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table) - enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows - thoughtful (when not being forgetful) - compassionate - attractive - fun to do things with/travel with - good with animals...and some humans lol - yada yada yada CONS - jealous - attracted to shiny objects - somewhat of a packrat/hoarder - sometimes absent-minded - crazy cat lady in training - sometimes too silly - picky eater - sometimes too horny - cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes) - some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious - devious (which can also be a good thing in the bedroom lol) - sometimes annoyingly over-optimistic and/or cheery and/or perky - coldhearted vicious ice queen bitch if disprespected |
I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.
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yep I'd date me
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Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!
The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help :fishingboot:. |
I'm still not sure if I would date myself. One the one hand, I would like the responsibleness, organization, adherence to routine and ritual, get it done approach to life with someone who doesnt drink or do illicit substances. I would also like the appreciation of simplicity, the need for peace, quiet, and lots of space, the love of electronic toys, and nature and the sea. I would adore not having to explain how I can eat the same thing morning, noon and night for a week, why IF the toilet paper MUST be on the holder, it will be under not over, why I sing the theme songs to old tv shows in the shower, why the tv show Big Bang Theory is funny, or a sardonic sense of humor. On the other hand, I don't know if I would want to deal with an intense, serious, curmudgeony, aloof, pain in the ass. Plus, I would find myself to be high maintenance cuz I would have to hire a cook, housekeeper, laundress, handyperson, and decorator. Hm. I must ponder more. |
okay sure, but our first kiss would be a lil awkward.
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Big Bang Theory is currently the ONLY funny show on television.
If Leonard was a real person and not a character on a teevee show I would divorce my lawfully wedded wedded person and pursue Leonard wholeheartedly. I would even be willing to put up with Wolowitz if I could have Leonard. Oh sorry. I forgot that this isn't the "would you date that person who doesn't actually exist" thread. My bad. |
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Yes, but I thought that was what being single meant!
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Yeah, I think I would fasten my seatbelt and go for this ride. But then I've always felt that passion was the best motivator in life.
Plus, I know all the secrets to bringing out the best in me. :heartbeat: |
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And just for the record, I'm really ok with this.......I can't settle for someone who can't deal. |
Yes. We'd have great sex and terrible fights. i wonder if the conversation would be interesting or too predictable. The bdsm would be a problem since i don't switch. i think it would have to be an open relationship.
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Me? In a New York minute, I would. I like my company. I think I'm very funny. I like to do all the things I like to do so it's easy to plan a date.
I will go out to eat alone. I will go out to the movies too. I sometimes have to force myself because so-called society thinks it's weird, but there ya are. I'm officially weird. I just get annoyed when I double book myself and stand me up. |
limits!!!
i would but after much thought there would have to be limits when dating myself. we would also need a safe word for a timeout on those days we just can't deal with me anymore!!! ohhhh and i would have to like using vampire gloves on me, that is important.:mohawk:
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I think I would, but then again, I'm already with someone who is very much like myself - which is quite spooky at times - but other times - very comforting. Being on the same wave length, thinking the same things at the same time, sharing a lot of the same experiences, qualities, etc...
On the other side of that, we do have our differences and I think that is the key to what makes me a better person. |
Good God no! I'm not my type, far too grumpy and impatient.
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Oh yeah I would!!! It would have to be polyamorous though, and the other me COULD NOT own a goat damn BEAGLE!!!
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I'd probably be too frustrated by how little time that I would have to spend with me right now. Maybe in another year or so, when things have settled down a bit.
Even then, though, there will be the issue of always wanting to kick me out of the kitchen so that I can cook. |
Not only would I date me...I'd move me in and be in a committed relationship pronto! :)
Just think...someone who cooks the way I like it, bakes, makes the coffee, wants to go to the beach all the time, plays like a big goofy kid at Disney, has a job with lots of freedom, and gets things done around the house...awesome! On the down side...it's hard enough to get me to go for a walk or to my doctor appointments now. If I had me giving myself more slack...that could be an issue. Sexually...ummm....not going there :winky: |
not even if you paid me..ALOT!!! i am cranky,moody,forgetful,grumpy,relunctant to see any other way than my own,forgetful(did i say that already?) a smart ass,an asshole at times,take things for granted,expect things/ppl to be a certain way,defensive about the smallest things---the list could go on,but then Jo may start wondering why she is still with me :|
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Based on looks alone...no. I'm not into feminine-looking women.
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