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Kobi 01-04-2011 09:59 PM

Would you date yourself?
 

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

bigbutchmistie 01-04-2011 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 259513)

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Abso frieking LUTELY :) I would. I am awesome, extremely faithful, highly romantic, affectionate. Love to laugh, make others laugh. Im a huge teddybear with a big giving heart. Ive been told a great lover, and a great friend... And Im hella sexy ;) Just for starters. Im so much more. Im not perfect. I have my flaws... :) I never require in a femme what I dont already possess... Just sayin..

katsarecool 01-04-2011 10:08 PM

I would without a doubt. I am a good catch. Kind, compassionate, well read and yes attractive to boot. :seeingstars:

Strappie 01-04-2011 10:09 PM

I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...

Gaige 01-04-2011 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strappie (Post 259520)
I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...

lol...and you have a great sense of humor

Corkey 01-04-2011 10:13 PM

No, cause I'm married, and I don't fool around on my wife.:seeingstars:

moxie 01-04-2011 10:16 PM

I would have to lean towards no.

Don't get me wrong, I have lots of qualities I like about myself. That's not it.

I am looking for someone who complements me, not someone who is exactly like me. If they are exactly like me and like ALL the same things that I do and has all the same exact opinions that I do then I will not be challenged. There have to be some commonalities but not everything.

Strappie 01-04-2011 10:20 PM

Well I know "Strappie" would love me but I'm not so sure I would love "Strappie" The heat seeking moisture missile is a lot to handle.

Ohhh I went there......

Kobi 01-04-2011 10:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by June (Post 259525)
Yes, I admire me for my awesome cooking and mad sexual skillz too. I would definitely send myself some flowers and ask for a second, or even third date.



Kobi knew there was a reason June was on the women to lust after from afar list. :)

Gayla 01-04-2011 10:26 PM

No. I'm really not my type. Way too old, cranky and set in my ways.

Strappie 01-04-2011 10:27 PM

Me and I are non committal, we won't talk about Strappie.... :)

Strappie 01-04-2011 10:31 PM

Me and I are going to bed before we get Strappie in trouble... G'night!

betenoire 01-04-2011 10:37 PM

Yeah, I think I'd date me.

I know that I can be trusted to give myself a lot of space, and I like my space. I wouldn't get my feelings hurt when I don't return my phonecall, because I would have forgotten that I had called myself to begin with. That sounds good.

Plus I wouldn't have to argue with myself over what radio station to listen to, and I would never begrudge myself a True Blood Marathon Saturday. I wouldn't criticize myself for drinking several pots of coffee a day, because I'd be drinking that much too. I'd never pressure myself to quit smoking. I wouldn't want me to change anything about myself.

If I moved in with myself I wouldn't have to compromise with myself on things like what colour to paint the bathroom, because me and myself have the same taste.

Jesse 01-04-2011 10:45 PM

I don't know that I would have enough patience to date me.

Diva 01-04-2011 10:49 PM

I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......



Kenna 01-04-2011 11:05 PM

No. I'm too stubborn, headstrong, sassy, fiercely independent and I make terrible squish fritters!




dixie 01-04-2011 11:12 PM

I would so date me...lol
 
Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol

PROS
- loving
- caring
- passionate
- quirky
- always in the mood (*wink wink*)
- mad bedroom skills (*teehee*)
- pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too)
- intelligent
- easily amused
- tenacious
- patient and loyal (most of the time)
- optimistic
- impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table)
- enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows
- thoughtful (when not being forgetful)
- compassionate
- attractive
- fun to do things with/travel with
- good with animals...and some humans lol
- yada yada yada

CONS
- jealous
- attracted to shiny objects
- somewhat of a packrat/hoarder
- sometimes absent-minded
- crazy cat lady in training
- sometimes too silly
- picky eater
- sometimes too horny
- cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes)
- some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious
- devious (which can also be a good thing in the bedroom lol)
- sometimes annoyingly over-optimistic and/or cheery and/or perky
- coldhearted vicious ice queen bitch if disprespected

Medusa 01-04-2011 11:18 PM

I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.

Blade 01-04-2011 11:28 PM

yep I'd date me

Starbuck 01-04-2011 11:29 PM

Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!

The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help :fishingboot:.

Kobi 01-04-2011 11:58 PM


I'm still not sure if I would date myself.

One the one hand, I would like the responsibleness, organization, adherence to routine and ritual, get it done approach to life with someone who doesnt drink or do illicit substances.

I would also like the appreciation of simplicity, the need for peace, quiet, and lots of space, the love of electronic toys, and nature and the sea.

I would adore not having to explain how I can eat the same thing morning, noon and night for a week, why IF the toilet paper MUST be on the holder, it will be under not over, why I sing the theme songs to old tv shows in the shower, why the tv show Big Bang Theory is funny, or a sardonic sense of humor.

On the other hand, I don't know if I would want to deal with an intense, serious, curmudgeony, aloof, pain in the ass. Plus, I would find myself to be high maintenance cuz I would have to hire a cook, housekeeper, laundress, handyperson, and decorator.

Hm. I must ponder more.

Guy 01-04-2011 11:59 PM

okay sure, but our first kiss would be a lil awkward.

betenoire 01-05-2011 12:05 AM

Big Bang Theory is currently the ONLY funny show on television.

If Leonard was a real person and not a character on a teevee show I would divorce my lawfully wedded wedded person and pursue Leonard wholeheartedly. I would even be willing to put up with Wolowitz if I could have Leonard.

Oh sorry. I forgot that this isn't the "would you date that person who doesn't actually exist" thread. My bad.

nicetgurl_30 01-05-2011 12:08 AM

Easy A
 
Yes, but I thought that was what being single meant!

Nightshade 01-05-2011 12:42 AM

Yeah, I think I would fasten my seatbelt and go for this ride. But then I've always felt that passion was the best motivator in life.

Plus, I know all the secrets to bringing out the best in me.
:heartbeat:

Diva 01-05-2011 12:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 259566)
I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......






And just for the record, I'm really ok with this.......I can't settle for someone who can't deal.




Martina 01-05-2011 01:07 AM

Yes. We'd have great sex and terrible fights. i wonder if the conversation would be interesting or too predictable. The bdsm would be a problem since i don't switch. i think it would have to be an open relationship.

Arwen 01-05-2011 01:10 AM

Me? In a New York minute, I would. I like my company. I think I'm very funny. I like to do all the things I like to do so it's easy to plan a date.

I will go out to eat alone.
I will go out to the movies too.

I sometimes have to force myself because so-called society thinks it's weird, but there ya are.

I'm officially weird.

I just get annoyed when I double book myself and stand me up.

weatherboi 01-05-2011 07:29 AM

limits!!!
 
i would but after much thought there would have to be limits when dating myself. we would also need a safe word for a timeout on those days we just can't deal with me anymore!!! ohhhh and i would have to like using vampire gloves on me, that is important.:mohawk:

NJFemmie 01-05-2011 07:59 AM

I think I would, but then again, I'm already with someone who is very much like myself - which is quite spooky at times - but other times - very comforting. Being on the same wave length, thinking the same things at the same time, sharing a lot of the same experiences, qualities, etc...

On the other side of that, we do have our differences and I think that is the key to what makes me a better person.

Daktari 01-05-2011 08:02 AM

Good God no! I'm not my type, far too grumpy and impatient.

The_Lady_Snow 01-05-2011 08:19 AM

Oh yeah I would!!! It would have to be polyamorous though, and the other me COULD NOT own a goat damn BEAGLE!!!

MsDemeanor 01-05-2011 08:19 AM

I'd probably be too frustrated by how little time that I would have to spend with me right now. Maybe in another year or so, when things have settled down a bit.

Even then, though, there will be the issue of always wanting to kick me out of the kitchen so that I can cook.

JustJo 01-05-2011 08:50 AM

Not only would I date me...I'd move me in and be in a committed relationship pronto! :)

Just think...someone who cooks the way I like it, bakes, makes the coffee, wants to go to the beach all the time, plays like a big goofy kid at Disney, has a job with lots of freedom, and gets things done around the house...awesome!

On the down side...it's hard enough to get me to go for a walk or to my doctor appointments now. If I had me giving myself more slack...that could be an issue.

Sexually...ummm....not going there :winky:

scootebaby 01-05-2011 12:55 PM

not even if you paid me..ALOT!!! i am cranky,moody,forgetful,grumpy,relunctant to see any other way than my own,forgetful(did i say that already?) a smart ass,an asshole at times,take things for granted,expect things/ppl to be a certain way,defensive about the smallest things---the list could go on,but then Jo may start wondering why she is still with me :|

cinderella 01-05-2011 01:09 PM

Based on looks alone...no. I'm not into feminine-looking women.


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