Would Like To Meet... a thread for your personal ad
 

This is a thread for those singles out there that are looking for dates. Post an ad in here so people can respond by IM to what you put up. Obviously you should have some photos on your profile - they help!

I know I'm on the wrong side of the pond, but since I'm starting it, I'll stick my ad up just to get the ball rolling...

Skinny Dipping, Thriller Movies and Counting Frogs


I'm just looking for some dates, really. (UK translation if there's any out there, "lets just hang out" but without the akwardness of not knowing whether it's a date or not or if it might be a possibility. Unless you need that, then let me know and I'll fein obliviousness and pretend I have no desire to snog)

After a bit (*cough*) of a rough time the last few months, I'm really feeling the need to be treated a bit special, treat someone else a bit special, bit of mutual spoiling and company appreciation. A good natter, some lovely food no matter how it's served up: could be restaurant, a winter pic nic, a lovely dinner at home, or maybe breckfast in bed...

I skip through the daises, laugh like a loon, can’t find my shoes/purse/keys, and love to cook. I can be random with my humour and rather off-the-wall. I adore science and love doing science based activites/outings. I want to learn to play the concertina/ukulele.

I live 50 min from London and visit my mates there often, lived there many years.

42, canadian, femme will eventually be looking for a butch cassidy (34 - 52, but can budge a bit) to my femme sundance kid. What kind of butch? Any kind. I'm very versatile with all of that: from stone butch to glitter butch. I'm feisty and independent so please be able to take the piss and have the piss taken. Understanding irony is a requirement.

I want adventures in companionship and slithery sheet foibles. Eat sushi in strange places. Have a glass of champers at 8am and then go swimming in a lake. Watch wierd/alternative movies with a homecooked spread or good take out, cuddle during suspense/thriller or kung fu films and exchange banter/theories. Get excited about BBC science programs and try to make a plaster of paris volcano. Make home made pizza and glue broken things around the house together in an absurd pile and stick a light in it. Pick wild food or count frogs while camping or on a day out.

I´m blunt and *very* open.- I don´t play emotional games as they bore the sh*t out of me. I value honesty, loyalty and an appreciation of the utterly ridiculous. I´m also an experimental gal and love a good toybox with an experienced owner. I have a great sense of play and good imagination – For the love of ****, be communicative: in the every day nitty-gritty to keep everything well greased and honest and also open enough to able to talk about what you want/desire sexually in glorious technicolour detail. I'm versatile with what's required from stone to switch - please enquire! I´ve got a good figure - I suit a corset quite well. Check my gallery.

I love cycling, camping and hiking and hope to frolick in the woods with an ethusiastic nature buff. I also love city breaks full of museums and dancing.

I´ve travelled quite a bit and would love to explore the world some more. I love new and interesting foods/experiences/sights. Spontinaity and adventurous spirit is required, talking till 3am is appreciated.

sex and friendship first, then maybe a bit down the road, if there's something good there, all of the above

I see this isn't a popular idea with peeps to post a "would like to meet" as no one has followed suit in the thread... I take it there's a butch-femme dating site that of more use that people use. Linky, anyone?

oh, and I'm good with holidays. *cough*. just sayin, like. In case someone charming is travelling through london/oxford... I know some very good kick ass real ale pubs with very good food and know oxford/london quite well for alternative queer night life...

god, if i were younger and butch and not in the UK and cool enough, i would so be responding to this one. Sigh at an available (but not) Honeybarbara.

btw i meant if i WERE in the UK. In fact, if i were, i might ask for a date anyway and hope she might mistake me for a butch who wears eyeliner.

really? that's sounds interesting..... I'm intrigued now.

Happy NY Juney!! <3 *MWAH*

I would pin you down and lick the eyeliner off your face, martina.

LOL

aw, darlin, we could have a naughty femme night in. I *do* take brief forays in that direction. y'know, sometimes us gals gotta give each other comfort, y'know? lol

lol hey darlin! Essex is pretty, I was just there the other weekend and am headed back for a walk on the mashes soon.


so I take it I'm recruiting for a *cough* pyjama party femme orgy now?

I could do that. but I need a leather gimp. any volunteers?

haven't a fuckin clue which marshes, luv! LOL

I'm just learning now as I had never been there before. Oh, hey, if you are interested:

http://boards.gingerbeer.co.uk/index.php?topic=105025.0

I know bar wotever does this kind of stuff weekly on a tues but I figure a sat eve might suit some people more who are coming from a distance. :)

I'll be at those during the day myself :)

the next one will be in about 6 weeks. check back on the board. ;)

I think it's a great idea and I'm surprised no one has posted their own ad. (maybe I will post mine). And I'd love a link for a b/f dating site, a good one, for this side of the pond. :)

single butch
 

good evening ladies!!! just thought I'd sliiiide on in and say hello to all you lovely femmes!!

just a short add for now....52, single, available butch in NYC looking for a single, available femme within driving distance (preferably) see pics in gallery

enjoy your evening :rrose:

Jay

i haven't had a date off of OKCupid. i am poly but have been busy with work, gained a BUNCH of weight, and otherwise have placed a number of roadblocks in front of dating outside my D/s (which i am free to do and want to do at some point). ANYWAY, i am a member of OKCupid and love the folks they send my way. They seem like real and cool people. i do not know if there is an OKCupid for the UK.

All the single ladies
 

Hey I'm 32..., haven't given up hope yet! Be nice just to meet other singles to do things with

I'm not sure about the colour but hopeful that, if I ask the judge nicely, he / she would allow me to get the prison garb styled by Roberto Cavalli. If so, it would make my time behind bars that bit easier.

In any event, with my record of bribery, I might just be able to get off with a fine ;)



The last time I went to Bar Wotever was two years ago when I did a striptease. NEVER AGAIN !!! - I think that I'm still wanted for causing shock and upset to the more sensitive members of the audience :eek:

http://i926.photobucket.com/albums/a...gq/wotever.jpg

there were sensitive members at bar wotever?? That doesn't sound like when I used to go!! you must have had a bad audience night? The room was usually full of delightful letches. Well. I haven't gone since it left kings cross when it was above the piss-play fuck club for gay men. I hope it hasn't gotten prudish. My heteroflexible mate got up and played an irish style folk tune on a fiddle and changed to words to having a hot load of jesus' love in her mouth (and other various sexual acts with the saviour) and no one blinked. It would be sad to have lost that randy aspect.

So then, what did you do that got some of the more delicate creatures in a bit of a flap? and did Ingo spank you?

totally understand.

if you use:
http://journeyplanner.tfl.gov.uk/use...T2?language=en



and scroll down to only tick the type of transport you'd be ok with (bus and rail) then it will give you a couple of alternatives of how to get from Fenchurch rail station to soho.

I just pluged it in - take the 25 to oxford/soho. take you about 30 min. if you plug that in yourself, it will give you the map of where to get it and the route map. :)

Thanks for the link....my usual haunts in London are the West end/Waterloo/Kingston using the river bus and trains, and North London via Harlow.

I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out.

I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo....

So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results?

(working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!)

I still have a profile on Butch-Femme-dating, but, only sign in now when I get a message from someone. I have had many dates from UK based sites, Women at tangowire and PinkCupid/Sofa....the latter two also have women looking within Europe, which is great for me. :)

Best of luck! :)

There are only two that I know of that are free to join and free to communicate..I've made some dear friends from these sites..but that's I seek now...but there are many that are looking for LTR and dating...Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid. I have friends that met on these sites and are still together after all this time..I like them because there is something for everyone from a yard sale buddy...to a lunch/dinner companion to a serious relationship. Good luck!!!!

Board games and dessert wine
 

I'm also tired of getting my hopes up with people, only to find out that they didn't think it was a date, and aren't interested in kissing me goodnight and texting me the next day.

I'm on OKCupid (1grlentourage), but haven't gotten any dates from there. I'm also here, and have pics of my band geekery.

30, scientist, femme, wants to be treated like she's something special. I love doing nice things for a partner, or even a date, it's in my nature to be that way. I love it even more when I truly feel like someone listens to me when I talk, and cares about how I feel. And I would REALLY like to be kissed, it's been a long time.

I'm also not about to pretend I am any good at writing personal ads. :)

I'm posting for a femme friend of mine. I'll come back and post her official ad, but here's what I've got on her since I know her.

She's early 40's (apparently that's an issue for some butches), femme, into leather and more than just a fashion statement, smart, gainfully employed, wry sense of humor, GOURMET cook (I'm not exaggerating and she makes a mean PIE), and sexy. Poly or monogamous if it works. Multi-racial Jew via Native American and Black American.

Prefers California, she lives in San Francisco area. She's open to blind dates.

She's looking for dates and see how it goes, no rush to the altar.

Email me via the site with your email address.

Rope--

Ah well, I'll be in vancouver from Nov 8th till... I dunno, at least till I finish school. POF seems to be where the vancouver people are and quite a few on OKCupid.

But! not dating anymore. My head would explode. just doing friends till maybe something nice happens with a friendship.

*battle weary*

that doesn't mean I'm not frisky with friends.

eyeliner is hot. on everyone.

I might come visit seattle to say hi once I settle in.

Ok, I'm game.....lol
 

57 year old some say nice looking <check my pic then you decide> FTM into femmes BIG time.....I enjoy the male / female exchange of energy....a Daddy.....not into inflicting pain but I LOVE a good mind f*ck. Enjoying life in VA......would love to have someone to date, have sex with if that works for both, someone who laughs & who gets my sense of humor. Please be a drive distance away but, I welcome ALL chats....who knows what may happen between us...I'm open to the possibilities.

I am gentlemanly, have manners, enjoy spoiling a woman, appreciate intelligence & demand honesty on BOTH sides.

If you are interested, I am always open to a chat so let me know....& may we all be blessed with good times, good friends, & if we're lucky....lasting love !!

Jonathan

Based on HoneyB's add, I want to date her. I think we could make it work. ;)

i love this thread! i've had really, really horrendous luck with okcupid and i tend to go on fetlife more for the forums.

OKC paste
 

I'll cut and paste some of my OKC profile - it really goes on and on (and on) - I'm Hominid9 there.

I'm kind of old fashioned, conversational - love to play devil's advocate. I'm smart, a smart-ass - sarcastic, funny, dry. I do not need "fixing" anymore than you do. I get phrases and words stuck in my head more often than songs. Lately, it's been "Pliny the Elder".

Things I would like to do:
-Get lost in Home Depot or that great old refurb/door/window store in Florence
- Drink hot chocolate in the Berkshires, sitting on the tailgate of my truck and watching a meteor shower
- Spend an afternoon at a sushi bar and try everything, tell bad jokes and people watch
- Get dragged out of the house to do something I complain about but we both know I'll love doing
- Go "dive bar" hopping
- Watch the Mars lander live on TV and break out a bottle of champagne to celebrate
-Read books together with our feet touching
- Roast marshmallows on the fire pit by the river in the woods and snuggle
- Long, winding road trips featuring lots of singing, stopping at antique shops, historical markers and diners
-Listen to long stories, what others know that I don't, and Terry Gross.

I detest extremism; I value the dialectic;
I don't believe in any of this, but I'm a classic Capricorn.
I have an unusual number of plants in my house; I'm an expert aquarist, but do not have an aquarium. I can't bring myself to mow my side yard this year because a little family of deer have found it, and they use it for ... something. It's now a little meadow instead of a yard. I like their paths in the tall grass. My neighbors hate me, but the deer, birds, bees and butterflies are very happy about this. Who matters more?

I seem serious, but in fact I'm shy. And intolerant of stupidity.
I seem stoic, but I'm sentimental and empathetic, and extremely goofy. The more I like you, the more I blush and stammer.
When someone dies, the hearing center of the brain lives for another 10-15 minutes. I sing to them after everyone leaves the room, usually something from their youth, if I can't come up with anything, "The Sound of Music". I will deny this to anyone with whom I work.

HAHAHA bootches, I am pullin' the femmes! Eat my dust!

(obviously I am just rattling cages)

I will now court you in London style:

A'igh? *upwards head nod*

I have a tattoo. And a bus pass.

We've ALL wanted to date HB for years. Get in line. :whip:

really???? ??

there doesn't seem to be an appropriate icon for this information.

It's my bus pass, isn't it.

You know, I really think it is. Bus passes are SO difficult to get that it just draws all of us to you. I think you first mentioned it back on the dash site and none of us ever forgot it. And now, bringing it up again...well, I can confidently say that I am not the only one on the site that swooned.

C'mon people! This was freakin funny!