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OFOS Butch......wants to find an OFOS Femme
Being an "older, matured" OFOS butch...I am realizing that these qualities/attributes are going by the wayside. It is a shame...as I want these to be always a part of ME..who I am. These are a part of my everyday life. Manners, courtesy, respect, and chivalry are the main ingredients of me.
I am a 1950's model of OFOS Butch...I prefer feminine pronouns BUT am NOT offended by hy, hym, boi, daddi...words are just words...those do NOT in any way define me nor make me who I am....as my inner soul is who/what I am. I have many, many miles on me..my "odometer of life" has rolled over a time or two...BUT I am guaranteed to make it past one million miles..and then some. I am blessed with stamina, endurance, patience, and a sense of humor that gets me through. I live life to its fullest each day. I am always positive and upbeat, and see the glass as half full. I am kind, gentle, fiercely loyal, protective..being a Leo! My disposition is always sunny, I am very very protective of my den. My body has its fair share of knicks, dings, and "repair marks" BUT is a healthy body...my heart is in excellent shape and is ready to fall in love again..when the right one comes along. Being a minimalist and not about material things of the world, I am quite comfortable, live within my means, and have a heart the size of Texas. I am generous to a fault, I love hard, I love deeply, and I love monogamously! Some of my greatest joy comes from writing to my special lady...may it be poetry, erotica, or silly love notes....maybe a scrawled in lipstick note on the mirror..or a note hidden in her purse to find later on...or maybe a special meal..just for us two..by the fireplace..or on the beach..and maybe a moonlight picnic in my SUV..by the water..I enjoy giving massages..and can rub muscles for quite a long time...kisses....ahhh...long, slow, deep kisses...flirting outrageously...holding hands... I am one of those rare breed of butches that I have no "preconceived" ideal in mind...all I am looking for is she be sincere, genuine, honest, and one whose heart will join mine..and we will beat as one...someone who is available and able to commit, who wants the chaos, the trials & tribulations life has, and who is able to simply join my hand with hers and let our hearts be as one... It doesn't matter where you came from..what you did...what matters is that NOW you will be here with me..a clean slate..the past is gone....we will make our own lives rich and full...you will have an inner beauty and incredible soul...it is the heart & soul that matter most to me..if that is beautiful then YOU will be the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth to me!! You will have my undying love and rapt attention...you will walk along with me..equal in all respects..I will love you to eternity and back...you will always be treated and respected for the lady you are!!! The intimate part of US will be between us and decided privately between us...it is sacred to me...and as well to you, I hope!! Thanks for stopping by...reading what I have written. I am enjoying the Planet and I know she will offer you up to me..when the time is right...I am in no hurry...I am enjoying life..one day at a time...waiting for YOU...to come home...meanwhile I am enjoying flirting with the ladies here!!! Have an awesome day...from this OFOS butch...who owns it..who wears it..who KNOWS it is within my soul...a deeply rooted part of me....who "walks the talk and talks the walk"...xoxoxoxo...Clay |
I also had wanted to add that I am a hopeless romantic. I am always, always thinking of ways to let my woman know how much she means to me..I literally ooze it from my pores..and have a very vivid imagination...BUT with me..it is always about romance..whether we are newly dating..or been partnered for months or years...we will always have dates....in many places and ways...it is all about staying in love...and keeping that love vibrant, alive, and fired up!!
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My beautiful friend, I sincerely hope you meet that equally beautiful Femme you desire. I know you will both be very happy together when you do eventually meet each other. (f)
Oh! And make sure you send out my Wedding Invitation in good time so we can create myschief before your big day! ….The Carolinas won’t know what’s hit them! LOL! :blink: |
awwww big hugs! You will find her. I just know it.
But in the mean time perhaps you can mosey on up to southern virginia and give us a hand on the farm weekends? There's a few of us ready to do great things. You'll work hard, get in great shape and who knows, might be a few cute fillies stroll in now and then. lol |
At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?
At any rate, I know you will find someone right for you :) |
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OFOS = Old Fashion, Old School. |
Whoever snags you will be one lucky lady! And she will not be after you just for what you can buy her.
(I am still less than amused by that in case you cannot tell.) Thank God you had a good, decent person helping you after your surgeries, one who was there out of pure kindness. :sparklyheart: |
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Thanks, Laney! I appreciate your kind words and support of me. Yes, I CAN tell...we have to let that go..and move on...k? smiles... Yes, I was very blessed with having her here for that surgery and aftewards to move me into my new apt. SHE IS an angel and a decent, kind, compassioante person! Love ya honey...Clay |
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hi Sachita! Thank YOU also for your kind words. I appreciate that! Oh trust me, I wish I COULD be a part of that Dream Farm Team! I wouldn't be of much help at this time..lol...I have to sit to do most anything....having been all busted up in a debilitating motorcycle wreck in May 2006. I can walk, but with limits...short distances! I CAN cook and do some things though! Sounds like quite an adventure you will be having up there...yes, I would be in great shape and chase some of those young fillies around. I am so glad you have a carpenter coming. I Know she will be a huge help to you!!! Good luck....make it happen girl!! Clay |
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ah the Mystress of Myschief! Thank you, for such glowing words about me...I thank you deeply! smiles... I will be sure to send YOU, Mystress Myschief a Wedding Invite..and you are right...the Carolinas won't EVER be the same afterwards!! This IS the Baptist Bible Belt of the South...lawd lawd...a quirky Kiwi on the loose....oh my stars...lmao..we WILL most defs get into Myschief!! Have an awesome day my friend...and CONGRATS to you also!! |
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I reckon the deep south probably still hasn't recovered from the last time I was there! :blink: LOL! That could have been why they offered me a job there, again, recently! :confused: LOL! Next Wednesday is the meeting/interview. I need to sit and meditate on this and the Uni places....it would be great to do both, if there were more houes in the day! LOL! |
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awwww Clay when you aren't lookin she will appear right there !
I appreciate OFOS butches, and there are plenty of femmes that feel the same way! |
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If I wore a dress would it help my chances? :worried: |
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Wait a minute... I don't date femme girls. You won't need to wear a dress. But, since you are from London, you CAN speak to me in that yummy accent. :sparklyheart: |
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*Disclaimer: I don't date Femmes....just hoping the Butch I'm dating can cook, too! ;) Hym wearing a dress is optional, but, not preferred! :blink: LOL! |
Laney can bake, I can cook- where a dress and be our bitch! lol
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OFOS Butch wants to find an OFOS Femme
getting back on track...lol......
I write......often...and it always comes from my heart....I never know what will come out...it is my hope to share some of those writings in here..along the way..I want this to be my writings...for her to discover when the Universe crosses her path with mine.. I go through many legal pads...as I sometimes will write a "piece" that may be a multiple of pages...sometimes it is a line or two..and a paragraph may come out.. Everything I write here is personal and may be about me..and my own opinion. Gentleness is deeply rooted within me...and is also part of my Cherokee lineage...a gentle people! I want to be a sweet, gentle, kind, compassionate, loving soul. Life is far too precious to be anything else. I had quite a health scare in November 2011. I was found to have a cancerous mass in my colon, found on a routine diagnostic test pre op for a hysterectomy. Long & short of it...I had major abdominal surgery the 9th of December. I was in ICU for a week then a surgical floor a week. I will, of course have to have blood work at intervals to be sure it hasn't returned, BUT my prognosis is excellent. With that said, I already knew the world turned on a dime...having that diagnosis be given to me...made that even more clearer. I am living life...as fully as I can. I am loving those who cross my path..and I am one who believes love can be of many levels..on many different planes. While I want to fall in love with THE one, I will also love others along the way.....in differing ways. As I have said I am in no hurry...as I want to do things the old fashioned way. I want to "pitch and woo" her...as in the days of old. By that same token, I want to have a love of my own. I enjoy being with someone..I enjoy all the "chaos" and all the busy ness of a love that comes with the territory...... I will write more later....sleepy now..g'night! |
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As I read this thread with amusement at the delightful responses, OFOS seems to have flown the coop!
Or maybe it has a more mutable meaning? |
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Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile :) It's just so educational around here ;) |
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Awwww, Clay you will find someone very special to fill your life and have that adventure with you! You are an amazing person, with a great heart. Hugss...Farm
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Thanks, Farm...appreciate your kind words....you are pretty awesome yourself!! Jess, too! I heart you both...Clay |
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I came across this quote tonight and thought of you Mr OFOS--apparently you and 'ole blue eyes' share a similar philosophy when it comes to women. This makes you 'mega' cool IMHO.
Stay true to you Clay, there are plenty of OFOS femmes out there and you will find 'the one'. Hang in there. Take your time as you wade thru the applications--lol. (Jk) *** 'I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback. They're habits I could never break, nor would I want to. I realize today a lot more women are taking care of themselves than in the past, but no woman is offended by politeness.' ~Frank Sinatra |
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Thanks, my friend!!! This made me smile....and it is who I am...and I never want my politeness, respect, and courtesy for a woman to escape me. I actually DO stand when she enters a room!!!! This quote is a gentle reminder to remain true to "my roots"...and yes, I know "The ONE" is out there..maybe I have already talked to her, or our paths have crossed...destiny & fate will....or maybe has....crossed our paths already......I know I am open to that possibility!!!! Have an awesome day my friend!! PLEASE pardon my delay in thanking you for this..I thought I had....<blushes> where DID MY manners go? smiles. |
Just stopping by to say hello *smiles* Clay do you have that oh so sexy Southern Accent too? :sunglass:
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That will definitely win ya some points there ;) I hope you've had a good day! |
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aww thanks my friend!! I am told it is deep and nice...a sloowwww drrrraaawwwlllll....lol... |
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Clay buddy... you're day is going to shine and that special soul is going to meet up with yours and BLAM... love eternal. You're an amazing person and I totally enjoy trailing your posts... yeh stalkerish style. Hey, what can I say... I love to read the good stuff...lol. Your genuine dude, and I look forward to the day you post that you found her, got her and have her for life.. :)
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hey Stoney: Thanks buddy! Appreciate your post!! And kind words...likewise for you buddy....<grin >...is that jet engines I hear in the background...hmmm...<weg>.... BTW..."stalk away"....I am flattered! I look forward to that also!!! Have a great weekend,Stoney!!! |
It's Friday evening.....
and I am sittting on my patio...a bright, sunny afternoon/evening...and 75 degrees.
Wearing a huge smile...imagining MY Femme has entered my life...and I am planning a "date" for us tonight..... I have made plans for us....picked up a bouquet of fresh spring mix flowers....gaily colorful..to present her when I pick her up...a blanket in the back, along with a picnic basket...filled with various cheeses, strawberries...big, plump juicy ones....dark chocolate to dip them in..as dark chocolate goes well on EVERYTHING.....baked bie, smoked oysters, smoked herring, cocktail crackers, and a nice Merlot........a book of sensual poems....stories...massage oil....and extra jackets...for that slight chill that will surely come as the sun sets...and I have her head in my lap...feeding her...letting her suck the goodness off my fingertips...so tantalizingly slow....and I will feed her...gather her close, and whisper sweet nothings into her ear...offer her sips of wine along...to be finished off with fat strawberries...the kind that just "drips off your lips" juicy...dipped in the dark chocolate....as I bend to taste the remnants of the chocolate and juice off her lips...slowly...teasingly...playfully...as our eyes burn into one another...I use the massage oils...to massage her hands...slowly...looking deeply into her eyes...and ever so slowly...up and down..one long finger...at...a...time...smiles.. we are hidden from public in between the dunes and the beach is fairly empty...the fine salt mist....the roaring in the background of the waves...crashing on the shore...she lies back against my chest, between my legs...her hair just under my chin..as I silently inhale the scent of her hair...my chin on her head...and I read...in a deep, low, sensual tone...the poetry...her arms lying one on each of ny thighs...the softness of her....against me...the hardness of my thighs..as she plays along them...absently.....a sliver of moon peeks over the horizon...we are lost in time...here...she & I...and I am reminded of how wonderful it is to have someone...to court her...to date her.....to spend quality time with...and the intimacy of her skin through my jeans...and my shirt...just the scent of her hair...how wonderful to be able to inhale that..and suspend her essence there...in time...knowing that I am adored..and that love is starting to grow here.....and that she is real...and she is so powerful...she holds the very essence of me...inside of her....and that we will...in time...consummate this love that is blossoming...growing...seeding inside our hearts... Yes, this is a part of the things I will do for her..when she enters my life...for I don't want a relationship that starts with "instant chemistry" or instant love..I want that seed to start deep inside us...to be tended with care..to sprout slowly....as that is from whence "being in love" comes for me... I await you, my darling...I know you are out here...maybe already in my life in some way...and we are just waiting..to go on this date..so the seed can be watered...tended..and start...... I am going to "keep on keeping it real"...for this is who I am...I already like you...are you ready to go to the beach? |
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