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IrishGrrl 12-11-2009 10:29 AM

What made you sad today...
 
Just starting this thread becouse I"m sad today..maybe someone else is too.

IrishGrrl 12-11-2009 10:40 AM

here's why I"m sad today...
 
A few weeks ago, my son brought home a puppy that he said was following him around the neighborhood. She was adorable..the cutest thing I've ever seen. It was clear that she was someone's pet, she was clean and smelled good, and had on a flea collar. So I said, let's ask around to the neighbors and see if anyone recognizes her. One neighbor said they knew the girl who owned her, and they took her in for a few days so they could look for the girl..and said if they couldnt find her, they would keep her. (which I was glad about) A few days later, they came over and said they couldnt keep her, or find the girl who owned her. I said, can you keep her a few days, and then I will take her? (I had a very busy work week, and was going to get her that friday) I went to get her on Wednesday, becouse I was anxious..(I was already in love with her and wanted her soooo much) The pup wasnt there. They said when they were walking her, she ran away. !!!!! I was sooo upset, I drove around in my pj's looking for her..calling her. I never found her. Since then, I've been so sad about losing her,that I decided to look at the ASPCA website for a dog/puppy.
Well what do you know!!! There she WAS~! I know it's her from the pic..and also her intake date is right for when she "ran away" from the neighbor.

I would rush right down there and get her...except it's 150 dollars to adopt..and I would have to pay the 300 dollar pet fee to the apartment office before adoption..(the aspca checks first before allowing the adoption)

I just dont have the money right now..and I"m incredibly sad..It will be a few months before I have the expendable finances..but I"m sure she wont be there by then.

I really wanted her....the kids even named her already..Baby.

This is my sadness today..thanks for listening.

Her name on this page is Lula

http://www.houstonspca.org/site/Page...dopt_main_dogs

Gemme 12-11-2009 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IrishGrrl (Post 20058)
A few weeks ago, my son brought home a puppy that he said was following him around the neighborhood. She was adorable..the cutest thing I've ever seen. It was clear that she was someone's pet, she was clean and smelled good, and had on a flea collar. So I said, let's ask around to the neighbors and see if anyone recognizes her. One neighbor said they knew the girl who owned her, and they took her in for a few days so they could look for the girl..and said if they couldnt find her, they would keep her. (which I was glad about) A few days later, they came over and said they couldnt keep her, or find the girl who owned her. I said, can you keep her a few days, and then I will take her? (I had a very busy work week, and was going to get her that friday) I went to get her on Wednesday, becouse I was anxious..(I was already in love with her and wanted her soooo much) The pup wasnt there. They said when they were walking her, she ran away. !!!!! I was sooo upset, I drove around in my pj's looking for her..calling her. I never found her. Since then, I've been so sad about losing her,that I decided to look at the ASPCA website for a dog/puppy.
Well what do you know!!! There she WAS~! I know it's her from the pic..and also her intake date is right for when she "ran away" from the neighbor.

I would rush right down there and get her...except it's 150 dollars to adopt..and I would have to pay the 300 dollar pet fee to the apartment office before adoption..(the aspca checks first before allowing the adoption)

I just dont have the money right now..and I"m incredibly sad..It will be a few months before I have the expendable finances..but I"m sure she wont be there by then.

I really wanted her....the kids even named her already..Baby.

This is my sadness today..thanks for listening.

Her name on this page is Lula

http://www.houstonspca.org/site/Page...dopt_main_dogs

Call them and explain the situation. Ask them if you can make incremental payments to pay for her and to help pay for her keep in the meantime. If they need to, give them the info on the neighbor so they can check to see if your story checks out.

Don't give up, pretty. There's always a way, even if it's not the way we think things should go. Good luck to you!

Andrew, Jr. 12-12-2009 08:58 PM

What made me sad today
 
Finding a dead animal in the street. I wanted to bury the animal, but the ground is frozen. I said a few prayers, and I moved the animal so no other vehicles could hit it. It was someone's beloved pet. I called the appropriate folks to come.

Andrew

WILDCAT 12-12-2009 11:30 PM

You know...
 
... thanks for this thread. I normally don't like to post "downer" things...

However, this past week on a musical thread someone reminded me that on the 8th of the month was the anniversary death/shooting of John Lennon. I felt very sad that night, and lit a candle.

But, I felt extra sad, and thought of this one buddy of mine from my hometown down the road (an older bro of a girl I graduated with from high school). And I thought of his wife, that I don't know real well, but spoke to her on occasion. She was originally from England.

Here no matter what our age, we all hang out together and are close in discussing nearly anything! It's a very small town. (Of course I am out with this man, and he is very cool with this - as his sister/friend of mine whom I grew up playing sports with is gay!)

Anyway, I just found out late yesterday - that this friend's wife had died... in town here on the 8th. I couldn't believe it. She was 55 years old. They had one teenage boy and the father and son came home to find her deceased.

I am just so stunned and sad about this.

To make it more complex... in high school, this friend and his sister/my classmate's Mother came to ALL of our sports events and we JUST LOVED HER... died at the age of 57 - and these kids NEVER bounced back from that loss - it was very painful.

Now, this is like history repeating itself for my buddy and his sister (and the rest of the siblings). I feel just HORRIBLE for them and this young teenage son.

It really makes you wonder why these things happen.

Love to all,

WILDCAT

hpychick 12-12-2009 11:43 PM

Wildcat,

So sorry to hear of your losses...I do hope that time can heal the wounds left behind by the tragedies.

In the meantime, peace to you and your tender heart.

Sunny

la_la 12-23-2009 01:44 AM

trust
 
Someone that I was beginning to like and trust was dishonest to me today.

Peace

Mitmo01 12-23-2009 06:21 AM

Not being able to kiss my love or wrap my arms around her tightly for a week makes me sad....

Words 12-23-2009 07:08 AM

Two of my three kids won't be home for Christmas this year.

I keep telling myself it's 'okay' but I realized today that it's not 'okay' at all.

violaine 12-23-2009 01:02 PM

hindrance :hanging:

NotAnAverageGuy 12-23-2009 01:09 PM

the anniversary of my nieces passing on the 27th

RNguy 12-23-2009 01:46 PM

sad...
 
driving home from working a 16 hour shift this morning, and seeing a homeless man sitting on the sidewalk holding a candle to keep warm and what a sad world to live in that you just cant trust anyone to take them home with you and help them.

------------RNguy

turasultana 12-23-2009 03:47 PM

Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins split up. After 23 years. that sucks.

Andrew, Jr. 12-26-2009 07:13 PM

Sad
 
When I was feeding the homeless and poor yesterday, I was really surprised at the number of people coming out for a free hot meal. We were not able to give 2nd's, but the number of people just was overwhelming, including children. To live in America and witness this...it really is sad.

Pixie 12-26-2009 09:09 PM

smashing my thumb with my rifle.....at least i caught it!

Andrew, Jr. 12-27-2009 10:57 PM

The latest airline terrorist failed attempts
 
I am not understanding how folks are getting thru the security systems in place, and boarding planes entering the US. Tonight I heard we are up to 2 planes so far. Thank God their plans failed.

Gemme 12-28-2009 12:04 AM

A conversation. Why can't I have a simple conversation without flipping the trigger switch lately?

Oh, crap. Mercury's in retrograde. :blink:

Maybe I should limit my conversations to those on here for the next week and a half.

*grimace*

Rene 12-28-2009 01:11 AM

I am sad that I am still sick. Five days now. Had no fun for my wife's birthday. I feel bad, sad, about that. Her birthday is so close to Christmas, I wanted to decorate the house in birthday stuff, but my faculties failed me this time.

NJFemmie 12-28-2009 06:58 AM

We're still sick. We feel better, but we could feel EVEN better.

Being at work after a long weekend. I really need another day off (or three).

*sniffle*
(no, not tears, my nose is freakin' running.)

:whine:

Andrew, Jr. 02-06-2010 03:34 PM

The Blizzard of 2010
 
We are in a blizzard situation here. The State is in a State of Emergency. What makes me sad are the homeless people, & those who are sick and need medicine/medical care and cannot get out. Everyone is stuck inside. It is a mess outside. Some are without electric power.

The snow totals are beating records. It keeps changing hourly. We have downed powerlines, roofs are collapsing from the wet snow (weight). Plus the number of heart attacks is on the rise.

suebee 02-06-2010 05:17 PM

Showing my mother photos on my facebook profile and seeing my three grey boys (a dog, a cat and a parrot) that passed this past summer. I miss them so much.

violaine 02-15-2010 06:15 PM

cancellation due to weather-

Gemme 02-15-2010 06:20 PM

The news of more troubles for someone close to me.

SassyLeo 02-15-2010 06:29 PM

back to work tomorrow :(

ruthie14 03-22-2010 05:59 PM

Everything.. no gf.. sad about the one I just lost....job is getting worse by the minute.. literally... (owner talking about firing everyone to some of my parents even as we speak ) and I just can't see a way out of this mess I'm in. Shit... should be looking online for new job... but I am getting drunk instead...

Leigh 03-22-2010 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14
Everything.. no gf.. sad about the one I just lost....job is getting worse by the minute.. literally... (owner talking about firing everyone to some of my parents even as we speak ) and I just can't see a way out of this mess I'm in. Shit... should be looking online for new job... but I am getting drunk instead...


((((((((((((((Ruthie)))))))))))))) I have three untouched bottles of wine here, I can share some with you if you want :gimmehug:

Gemme 03-22-2010 08:22 PM

Maybe it's because I've been going, going, going the past few days that...now that it's slowing back down a bit...I feel as if I am in slow motion and the world is just passing me by.

Nina 03-22-2010 08:53 PM

tragic human loss

and predatory lawyers

Spirit Dancer 03-22-2010 09:33 PM

Arriving to the family home and falling apart at seeing my Dad, knowing there is only a short amount of time to share with him :deepthoughts:thinking no amount of:ohm:will help.

~Bo 03-23-2010 03:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 71684)
Maybe it's because I've been going, going, going the past few days that...now that it's slowing back down a bit...I feel as if I am in slow motion and the world is just passing me by.




Need a good kick in the butt??? :cheesy:

Miss Scarlett 03-23-2010 04:18 AM

Our County Commission is planning to close 12 of our public libraries because of budget problems. I guess it takes too much energy (translate that to too much of a risk to one's political career) to trim the truly unnecessary things from the budget instead.

AtLast 03-23-2010 05:21 AM

As I was watering my front yard this evening, an elderly woman appeared that was disoriented and lost, most likely Alzheimer's. Well nourished but had no ID on her or a purse. Didn't appear that anyone had hurt her. She was scared, but was OK with my calling the police to help her out. The officers were gentle with her. My brother-in-law has Alzheimer's and has wondered. So scary for my sister. I hope her family called in that she was missing and they got her home OK.

Gemme 03-23-2010 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~Bo (Post 71816)
Need a good kick in the butt??? :cheesy:


Ummmmmm.....no. :blink:

Soon 03-23-2010 08:48 PM

le sigh.
 
generalized anxiety

WILDCAT 03-23-2010 09:14 PM

exteme joy to sadness...
 
I am a great Aunt for the first time and got to hold that little tiny baby boy just tonight. I've NEVER held a baby so young...
__

Then, I'm all happy coming home, back to the cabin here... saw two deer crossing the road and slowed down to watch them run up the hill, and a BIG BUCK came flying out onto the hood of my car.

Those of you who know me, know that these babies are like my kids. I was heartbroken and wanted it to jump up, but it couldn't get up from the ditch and I thought, "it is just stuck in the mud", and stayed with him talking and trying to keep a loving energy with him (and he did stay calm...)

However, story short... a neighbor had to come and "put him to rest", for he had broken his leg.

And I cried and cried. Not ashamed of it - just VERY sad.
__

So, new life in, another life onto the next plane... such a contrast for me in a very short period of time.


*I am SO sorry Mr. Deer. :stillheart:
*Welcome my great nephew. :heartbeat:

I love you both.


Sincerely,
WILDCAT

WolfyOne 03-23-2010 09:26 PM

Knowing I have a friend in pain and I can only sit here and pray. Pray for her family to help ease that pain. Pray so no one has to suffer any longer. Pray for the strength and faith she has in her higher power. Pray for the hope she shares with her partner every day. Pray for the peace of mind I hope she finds as she sleeps. Knowing when she wakes, she must start again and be strong for everyone. Wanting her to know that it's ok to show weakness when others know you're strong. It's ok to cry and reach out for someone to hear YOU. It's ok to not feel guilty when you need to take some time for you in the course of a day.

Share your pain, my friend. I'll be sad with you.

friskyfemme 03-23-2010 09:34 PM

I passed a child lying in the street hit by a car on my way home from work. It apparently had just happened as there were no emergency vehicles on the scene. It was on the opposite side of the street with cars blocking on 3 sides. I just sat in my car frozen in my lane. I finally after about 5mins I saw the red lights coming. I decided I needed to move so the ambulance could get in. My heart sank at the lifeless body as I drove away asking Great Spirit to take care the child, his family and the driver of the car. What are terrible tragedy.

Gemme 03-23-2010 10:43 PM

People, in general and specific ones.

AtLast 03-24-2010 01:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 72299)
People, in general and specific ones.

Ugga-DUGGA! K... we gotta get you around some good people! Come to California..... let's get Bo-Bo over here, too!! Have a swell time and tear around. Hummmmm... need his motorcycle.... and the tractor! I want a tractor and silly Gemme to show my great Bay Area to!!!!!!



:flyaway:

Ms. Tabitha 03-24-2010 02:25 AM

Getting a midnight call from my 24 year old daugther.
Wish I was closer to hug her...... and choke him!!:rant:

:4femme:


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