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Gemme 11-11-2012 09:07 PM

What Made You Cry Today?
 
Okay, I've gone through 37 PAGES of threads in this forum since the beginning of the site and there are threads on happiness and pissoffedness and disappointments and ones about what cracked you up and what you're doing but I saw nary one mention of tears.

Here are the ground rules: this can be what made you cry happy tears or sad tears or mad tears or tears for no reason or unknown reasons or too many reasons BUT this is NOT a thread to be passive aggressive and/or try to slide a jab at someone. Keep it clean, folks.

This is simply about you and the water and salt droplets you shed today.

Gemme 11-11-2012 09:09 PM

Now, for what started my search for crying threads:



This song is sweet and sad and beautiful and the tears just trickled down as I listened to it.

Love this artist. Love this ditty.

NorCalStud 11-11-2012 09:24 PM

an amazing thread
 
I cried for my human condition. Im not a super hero. I have episodes where I will don a torture coat and be in fear for awhile. I will be in agony and want a way out. I realize what I.am doing and cant rescue myself for awhile. Then I see they are feelings. I can do something about this that is healthy. I cried because I was dis---couraged(my courage was away). Then I cried when I realized I was in charge of my pain.

nycfem 11-11-2012 09:25 PM

Glad you started this thread, Gemme. I've always liked it. Last time I cried was Friday. BB was having issues with a relative and cried out of feeling hurt, so I started crying. To me there is just about nothing more painful than knowing my husbutch is hurting. All is well now, thank goodness.

SleepyButch 11-11-2012 09:27 PM

When I started on my journey home today... I cried.

clay 11-11-2012 09:28 PM

Thanks to all the Female Veterans...
 
Thinking of all the women who unselfishly gave their lives and suffered incredibly for our Country...who are true heroines....I salute each and every one of you!!!.......I cry for you each one...(f)

Kenna 11-11-2012 09:33 PM

tomorrow I give my puppy to her new owner ...
we had some special cuddle quiet time today ...
I know this is for the best and that she'll be very well taken care of...
but it doesn't hurt less.
I've made many sacrifices and given up things and those I love because of hardships in my life or theirs ... this struck home even deeper because she won't understand why she's being pulled from her home and me... because this is one more time I've had to give up someone I love deeply.
such a sweet little love bug.
She'll be with a family who can get her medical care and spend more time with her ... but she won't cuddle with anyone like she does me. When Blade had to puppy sit her for a month, she didn't even cuddle with him like she does me.
I hope she bonds with her new corgy brother and momma...
I'll miss that little bed bug.

*Anya* 11-11-2012 09:50 PM

Not only the injury to my leg and the resulting sutures this morning but something I read this afternoon.

The latter, more painful than the former.

morningstar55 11-11-2012 09:51 PM

this makes me cry everytime i hear it...... makes me think of my daughter.
i loves her to pieces.... :)




Massive 11-11-2012 10:36 PM

Admitting to the fear I'm feeling right now made me cry ...
After posting on a different thread I had to go stand outside in the dark to breathe and without even knowing it, I realised I was crying, to the point where I had to sit down or fall down. Doesn't happen often.
I'm glad I have this place as 'home' where I can admit to and talk about the things that I can't discuss with the people around me, it's not that they wouldn't care or wouldn't understand, I just don't want to burden them and have them worry more about me.
Thank you Gemme :)

Elijah 11-11-2012 10:45 PM

Loss and loneliness, sometimes it's unbearable.

Glenn 11-11-2012 10:50 PM

I don't know. I rarely cry. All I know is, something bad happens when I cry this hard.

laruss 11-11-2012 11:20 PM

That my daughters phone me when they panic about their babies. It feels so good to have them call me for advice and to get comfort on this new journey they are on.

My daughter was in a panic because her daughter threw up. All is well, they are trying new foods and she didn't like one.

Made me cry though... I didn't have that with my mom.

sis 11-12-2012 06:29 AM

I cried today when I thought of the two boys I was co-parenting. Break-ups hurt.

Gemme 11-12-2012 06:53 AM


Syr 11-12-2012 07:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 698588)

Thanks............. ouch........

Sachita 11-12-2012 08:00 AM

Not today but yesterday and many days... I get overwhelmed, sad and cry over the amount of homeless and abused animals there are. As much as I support these venues I had to remove some groups and pages from my newsfeed on facebook because it has been just too much for me.

weatherboi 11-12-2012 09:42 AM

The video Daywalker made of all Our/our dogs. We lost two pack members in the past year. No more please!!!

UofMfan 11-12-2012 09:44 AM

This made me cry, laughing!


girl_dee 11-12-2012 09:46 AM

tears over my falling apart.

SelfMadeMan 11-12-2012 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenna (Post 698431)
tomorrow I give my puppy to her new owner ...
we had some special cuddle quiet time today ...
I know this is for the best and that she'll be very well taken care of...
but it doesn't hurt less.
I've made many sacrifices and given up things and those I love because of hardships in my life or theirs ... this struck home even deeper because she won't understand why she's being pulled from her home and me... because this is one more time I've had to give up someone I love deeply.
such a sweet little love bug.
She'll be with a family who can get her medical care and spend more time with her ... but she won't cuddle with anyone like she does me. When Blade had to puppy sit her for a month, she didn't even cuddle with him like she does me.
I hope she bonds with her new corgy brother and momma...
I'll miss that little bed bug.

This. :(
My heart goes out to you today Kenna...

Miss Scarlett 11-12-2012 10:40 AM

Yesterday - watching a show on PBS about a group of WWII veterans returning to Belgium and Luxembourg for the 60 year anniversary of the Battle of the Bulge...

lusciouskiwi 11-12-2012 11:19 AM

Watched "War Horse" on dvd tonight. Cried. Lots.

SleepyButch 11-12-2012 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 698588)

This damn song made me cry. I'm really not one to cry but appears I've been doing it a lot lately or at least trying. I start and my body usually stops me before I can get a really good cry in. Hopefully one of these days...

keep putting up songs like that and I'm sure I won't have any issues.

cinnamongrrl 11-12-2012 11:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi (Post 698714)
Watched "War Horse" on dvd tonight. Cried. Lots.

Thanks for the warning :(

Leigh 11-12-2012 11:57 AM

Some really crappy news today :(

girl_dee 11-12-2012 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenna (Post 698431)
tomorrow I give my puppy to her new owner ...
we had some special cuddle quiet time today ...
I know this is for the best and that she'll be very well taken care of...
but it doesn't hurt less.
I've made many sacrifices and given up things and those I love because of hardships in my life or theirs ... this struck home even deeper because she won't understand why she's being pulled from her home and me... because this is one more time I've had to give up someone I love deeply.
such a sweet little love bug.
She'll be with a family who can get her medical care and spend more time with her ... but she won't cuddle with anyone like she does me. When Blade had to puppy sit her for a month, she didn't even cuddle with him like she does me.
I hope she bonds with her new corgy brother and momma...
I'll miss that little bed bug.


(((((((( Kenna ))))))))))))

i am so sorry ! you are such a good, responsible owner, and selfless to give her a better life. You are right, no one will cuddle like you have. She will have good care and that is a good thing.

i had to leave my little pup when i left Oregon. It hurt like hell. There will always be that little space in my heart where July is. Even though, like you, she is in good hands i still miss my cuddle bug, and that is OK.

Big hugs.

Ciaran 11-12-2012 01:46 PM

I've been much more tearful and prone to crying (for a whole gamut of emotions from happiness to sadness and much inbetween) in the past 3 years or so than in the past. Not sure why.

Over the weekend, I cried once - at the cenotaph yesterday as part of Remembrance Sunday commemorations.


Interestingly, yesterday evening on BBC I watched a live interview with a British WWII naval veteran. He must have been in his late 80s / early 90s, still looked to have physical strength, was incredibly articulate and composed in detailing his memories of the comrades he had lost. Then, suddenly and without any warning, emotion took over and he burst into tears.

It was very poignant and, without words, said more than any platitudes or such like ever could. I don't think anyone who watched the interview could not have been touched nor to view his tears as any sign of weakness.

jac 11-12-2012 02:45 PM

I pretty much cry daily with the kids at the shelter. It's not a gusher of tears but my eyes definitely water and my heart breaks with some of the words they say and the things they've experienced. They don't deserve this crap hand they've been dealt.

ruby_woo 11-12-2012 08:32 PM

Good ole seasonal affective disorder. I really have trouble handling the 8 months of rain and gray that Vancouver has to offer. Seriously, where's my sun lamp? :(

Gemme 11-12-2012 08:33 PM


little_ms_sunshyne 11-12-2012 08:55 PM

No matter who sings it...this song gets me every time...


lusciouskiwi 11-13-2012 07:35 AM

This movie:
 
Wonderful music, animation and love story.

http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV...0,214,317_.jpg


StrongButch 11-13-2012 11:44 AM

Cry today
 
Toddler found in cage. WTF!

starryeyes 11-13-2012 12:16 PM

Waiting to hear the results of my ferrets heart x-ray.... While Animal cops is playing in the waiting room :/ what kind of vet shows this!??? Lol *tear*

Gemme 11-14-2012 07:59 PM


jac 11-14-2012 08:10 PM

Oh those comeback kids...
 
Laughing and being silly with kids in the kitchen at lunch and having a "comeback kid" brought through the entranceway worn down, sadness in his eyes, and just as sweet as ever...

I really hoped to have not seen him in the shelter again... but so glad he's back where he is safe and can be taken care of.

Gemme 11-19-2012 09:21 AM


Mistress 11-19-2012 11:36 AM

Childhood Sweethearts
 
HELLO.
IM NEW TO THE SITE BUT WHAT MADE ME CRY IS THE GIRL WHO HAS BEEN MY BESTFRIEND AND MY FIRST EVERYTHING SINCE WE WERE 14 AND IS STILL A GOOD FRIEND TO ME NOW CONTINUES TO BREAK MY HEART NOW THAT WE ARE 24. HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR THE WAY OUR FAMILIES WERE TOWARDS US AND EACHOTHER I HONESTLY BELIEVE WE WOULD BE HAPPY. AND STILL IN LOVE THIS VERY DAY BUT INSTEAD WEVE FALLEN SO FAR APART THAT IT HURTS MY HEART TO TALK TO HER AND SHE DOESNT NOTICE THE PAIN...

~MISTRESS~

jac 11-19-2012 04:04 PM

No need for crying today... wrong thread drop :sigh: So tired!


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