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girl_dee 12-29-2012 02:54 PM

"Before I die, I want to........."
 
Syr sent me this video (thank you!)... i loved the project that Ms. Chang did. Being from my beloved, sad home town of New Orleans it hit home twice as much. Please take about 3 minutes to listen.


In her New Orleans neighborhood, artist and TED Fellow Candy Chang turned an abandoned house into a giant chalkboard asking a fill-in-the-blank question: “Before I die I want to ___.” Her neighbors' answers -- surprising, poignant, funny -- became an unexpected mirror for the community. (What's your answer?)





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"Before I die I want to hug her one more time"
"Before I die I want to carry out my childhood plans"
"Before I die I want to be tried for piracy"

Those were a few that i remember!

So many answers were posted to her questions... i couldn't come up with just one thing to fill in the blank for myself, so as an ongoing thread maybe we can share our *Before I die I want to _________* answers. These answers are not up for debate or judgment. They are what they are, so please don't go there.

Discussion probably doesn't need to happen, just fill in the blank as often as you wish.


"Before I die, I want to _____________________"



Teddybear 12-29-2012 03:14 PM

Great idea. Like u have many things on my list so my number 1 thing is
"Before I die I want to have top surgery"

Teddybear 12-29-2012 03:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Teddybear (Post 725039)
Great idea. Like u have many things on my list so my number 1 thing is
"Before I die I want to have top surgery"

After I posted this I realized that this really isn't my number 1 thing. However I can't post it atm

thedivahrrrself 12-29-2012 03:26 PM

Before I die, I want to:
 
  • skydive again
  • see the sun rise through Stonehenge on the solstice
  • see GLBT folks all over the world able to live out and in peace

girl_dee 12-29-2012 03:34 PM

Before i die i want to see equality

girl_dee 12-29-2012 03:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Teddybear (Post 725040)
After I posted this I realized that this really isn't my number 1 thing. However I can't post it atm


Would you share what is #1?

isn't it funny how after you think about it, so many come to mind?

Breathless 12-29-2012 03:58 PM

Excellent thread dee!
Before I die I would like to complete everything on my bucket list at least twice over. (It's currently a long list, and being checked off one by one)

JAGG 12-29-2012 04:05 PM

Be on the price is right!!!!!!!!!!!

little_ms_sunshyne 12-29-2012 04:08 PM

This thread has my wheels spinning and while this is a question I think I have considered the answer to a few times, it seems like I can never make up my mind...Here is a list..for starters...not even close to done.

Before I die I want to...

- Forgive and be forgiven
- Know my youngest siblings and nephew have found love and happiness.
- Sit under a sky lit up by the Aurora Borealis
- Actually make my Abuelita's tamales by myself. (Can't bring myself to do it just yet)
- Help- not sure in what way just yet. But I want to really help and
anonymously make a difference in someone's life.
- Experience the kind of love that not even a Pablo Neruda poem can describe
- Learn how to swim :/
- Run a marathon
- Visit Serendipity
- Eat mole by Rick Bayless
- See the world :)


Okiebug61 12-29-2012 04:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 725072)
Be on the price is right!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd love to watch you win the double showcase!

Dominique 12-29-2012 05:19 PM

before I die I'd like to.....

actually make it to retirement....:vigil:

compete in an ironman at Kona....

see cancer be eradicated....

and see the Pirates win another world series.

Gemme 12-29-2012 05:21 PM

Loved the 'tried for piracy' one
 
Before I die, I want to figure out what the secret of life is.

Knowing me, this will happen on my death bed, if at all.

:blink:

Luv 12-29-2012 05:33 PM

have a best friend...

girl_dee 12-29-2012 05:44 PM

Before i die i want to be able to be comfortable/content with myself physically

Before i die i want to round up the sexual predators and eradicate them


SleepyButch 12-29-2012 06:01 PM

Before I die.. I want to kiss those lips that I long for....

Before I die... I want to figure out who those lips belong to...

girl_dee 12-29-2012 06:05 PM

Before i die i want to read all the books i've wanted to read

alexri 12-29-2012 06:07 PM

I want to figure out what my purpose in life was/is and to achieve it.

I want to feel like I've made a positive difference in the world.

Bèsame* 12-29-2012 06:10 PM

lucky! I miss that mouse house! Best time of the year to visit is now :)
Quote:

Originally Posted by Luv (Post 725130)
have a best friend...


Jesse 12-29-2012 06:16 PM

Before I die...

I want to live.

Gemme 12-29-2012 06:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesse (Post 725160)
Before I die...

I want to live.


sierragirrl 12-29-2012 06:44 PM

Before i die i would like to be able to meet my brothers from my birth fathers side have a DNA test done to prove i am related to them.
Before i die i would love to be loved and accepted by them and the rest of my kin folk who know nothing about me.for them to love and accept my girls with arms wide open.
hey a girl can dream right?

girl_dee 12-29-2012 07:05 PM

Before i die i want a long happy life with Syr

Before i die i want to see the Earth from the Moon!

Daktari 12-29-2012 07:21 PM

Before I die, I want to...
 
See the aurora borealis
Spend time visiting friends in America
Gain a degree or two
Have a tattoo - that's planned for the coming year, around my clean time birthday. It will a frog or representation of a frog, haven't decided yet exactly what.
Visit Australasia and Asia. I really want to see Lake Disappointment.





I'll be back

falloutmk 12-29-2012 07:40 PM

Before I die I want to....
...Live in the moment, study more dharma and find a good teacher.
...Be in a a relationship of at least 10 years, friendship or romantically. (I haven't since childhood had a friend longer than 3 years)
...Live more healthily to show myself I CAN control me.
...experience a D/s relationship instead of just a sadomasochist exchange.(f)

tiggs 12-29-2012 07:55 PM

"Before I die, I want to _____________________"

live without nightmares.

feel completely comfortable in my skin.

walk on the sandy beaches in Spain, Italy and Greece.

girl_dee 12-29-2012 08:08 PM

Before i die i want to learn to speak another language.

DamonK 12-29-2012 08:47 PM

...see the world
...learn all the academia I wish
...stand on the beach at the Caribbean again
...go on another cruise
...help others
...found a scholarship for LGBT trans deaf teens in need

RNguy 12-29-2012 09:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 725072)
Be on the price is right!!!!!!!!!!!

ROFL :)
Love it brother .
Just don't be the one who spins the wheel and falls down or run down the aisle and trip
:)

Lasiurus_cinereus 12-29-2012 10:10 PM

Before I die, I want to see New Zealand.

Dude 12-29-2012 10:54 PM

I want to ride a horse on the beach and camp out for the night

little_ms_sunshyne 12-29-2012 10:58 PM

Before I die, I want to...

watch a Tuscan sunset...

Bard 12-29-2012 11:02 PM

before I die I want to take Goose and Desd to Paris

go with Desd and goose to CA so they can meet the extended family


visit my mothers grave in WA

ArkansasPiscesGrrl 12-29-2012 11:22 PM

Before I die, I want to KNOW that I have mattered in this life. I "kinda know" it, but that always seems to be a long way from that in-the-heart-and-gut-KNOWING it. When I was 13 my mom died, and the number of cars in her funeral procession just blew me away. Somehow this woman who was just my mom MATTERED to a great deal of people.

Before I die I want to travel more. I want to take Denise up to Omaha and show her where I grew up, the streets I played in, the schools I attended, the stores I shopped in and the restaurants I ate in. I want to visit my mom & dad's grave again. And then I want to go see places around this country and this world that we haven't seen before, to experience them together.

Before I die, I want to take down that "dream box" that sits up on my closet shelf, filled with all my "if only" dreams, and work to make them come true. "If only I had lots of money I would ________." One of my dreams was to write a book. I would also like to travel around the country in an RV, taking pictures of beautiful places and things, and sell the pics to a travel magazine. LOL Or else use the pictures in a calendar!

PaPa 12-29-2012 11:30 PM

Walk again without crutches or help...Go hiking in the mountains again...
Buy a house in the woods like where I grew up and live there...
Earn my doctorate degree and be working in the field I love...
Forgive myself for regrets and live free from guilt...
Learn that I shouldn't have to prove my worth...
Quit being so damn hard on myself!!

always2late 12-29-2012 11:30 PM

Before I die...
I want to see my son grow into the man he will become.
I want to get an RV and drive cross-country.
I want to stay at the Four Seasons in Bora Bora.
I want to travel through Europe and re-visit Australia and New Zealand.
I want to find my home.

Katniss 12-29-2012 11:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by always2late (Post 725398)
Before I die...
I want to find my home.

Yes. This.



Katniss~~(born a stray and on perpetual run from the dogcatcher...)

:dog:

Teddybear 12-30-2012 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 725059)

Would you share what is #1?

isn't it funny how after you think about it, so many come to mind?

I have shared it with the person who it concerns and in time with the rest of bfp I promise

Ginger 12-30-2012 12:49 AM

What a great idea for a thread, Dee!



Before I die, I want to be as happy as I can possibly be.

puddin' 12-30-2012 03:14 AM

befo' i die, i want a long lesson in love... years worth.

Glenn 12-30-2012 03:46 AM

F*** Y** I am NEVER going to die. I am an ever-changing immortal spirit of desire created by Almighty God to Evolve Higher.


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