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"Before I die, I want to........."
Syr sent me this video (thank you!)... i loved the project that Ms. Chang did. Being from my beloved, sad home town of New Orleans it hit home twice as much. Please take about 3 minutes to listen.
In her New Orleans neighborhood, artist and TED Fellow Candy Chang turned an abandoned house into a giant chalkboard asking a fill-in-the-blank question: “Before I die I want to ___.” Her neighbors' answers -- surprising, poignant, funny -- became an unexpected mirror for the community. (What's your answer?) http://nuitblancheottawa.ca/wp-conte...ake-Shack.jpeg "Before I die I want to hug her one more time" "Before I die I want to carry out my childhood plans" "Before I die I want to be tried for piracy" Those were a few that i remember! So many answers were posted to her questions... i couldn't come up with just one thing to fill in the blank for myself, so as an ongoing thread maybe we can share our *Before I die I want to _________* answers. These answers are not up for debate or judgment. They are what they are, so please don't go there. Discussion probably doesn't need to happen, just fill in the blank as often as you wish. "Before I die, I want to _____________________" |
Great idea. Like u have many things on my list so my number 1 thing is
"Before I die I want to have top surgery" |
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Before I die, I want to:
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Before i die i want to see equality
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Would you share what is #1? isn't it funny how after you think about it, so many come to mind? |
Excellent thread dee!
Before I die I would like to complete everything on my bucket list at least twice over. (It's currently a long list, and being checked off one by one) |
Be on the price is right!!!!!!!!!!!
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This thread has my wheels spinning and while this is a question I think I have considered the answer to a few times, it seems like I can never make up my mind...Here is a list..for starters...not even close to done.
Before I die I want to... - Forgive and be forgiven - Know my youngest siblings and nephew have found love and happiness. - Sit under a sky lit up by the Aurora Borealis - Actually make my Abuelita's tamales by myself. (Can't bring myself to do it just yet) - Help- not sure in what way just yet. But I want to really help and anonymously make a difference in someone's life. - Experience the kind of love that not even a Pablo Neruda poem can describe - Learn how to swim :/ - Run a marathon - Visit Serendipity - Eat mole by Rick Bayless - See the world :) |
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before I die I'd like to.....
actually make it to retirement....:vigil: compete in an ironman at Kona.... see cancer be eradicated.... and see the Pirates win another world series. |
Loved the 'tried for piracy' one
Before I die, I want to figure out what the secret of life is.
Knowing me, this will happen on my death bed, if at all. :blink: |
have a best friend...
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Before i die i want to be able to be comfortable/content with myself physically
Before i die i want to round up the sexual predators and eradicate them |
Before I die.. I want to kiss those lips that I long for....
Before I die... I want to figure out who those lips belong to... |
Before i die i want to read all the books i've wanted to read
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I want to figure out what my purpose in life was/is and to achieve it.
I want to feel like I've made a positive difference in the world. |
lucky! I miss that mouse house! Best time of the year to visit is now :)
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Before I die...
I want to live. |
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Before i die i would like to be able to meet my brothers from my birth fathers side have a DNA test done to prove i am related to them.
Before i die i would love to be loved and accepted by them and the rest of my kin folk who know nothing about me.for them to love and accept my girls with arms wide open. hey a girl can dream right? |
Before i die i want a long happy life with Syr
Before i die i want to see the Earth from the Moon! |
Before I die, I want to...
See the aurora borealis
Spend time visiting friends in America Gain a degree or two Have a tattoo - that's planned for the coming year, around my clean time birthday. It will a frog or representation of a frog, haven't decided yet exactly what. Visit Australasia and Asia. I really want to see Lake Disappointment. I'll be back |
Before I die I want to....
...Live in the moment, study more dharma and find a good teacher. ...Be in a a relationship of at least 10 years, friendship or romantically. (I haven't since childhood had a friend longer than 3 years) ...Live more healthily to show myself I CAN control me. ...experience a D/s relationship instead of just a sadomasochist exchange.(f) |
"Before I die, I want to _____________________"
live without nightmares. feel completely comfortable in my skin. walk on the sandy beaches in Spain, Italy and Greece. |
Before i die i want to learn to speak another language.
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...see the world
...learn all the academia I wish ...stand on the beach at the Caribbean again ...go on another cruise ...help others ...found a scholarship for LGBT trans deaf teens in need |
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Love it brother . Just don't be the one who spins the wheel and falls down or run down the aisle and trip :) |
Before I die, I want to see New Zealand.
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I want to ride a horse on the beach and camp out for the night
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Before I die, I want to...
watch a Tuscan sunset... |
before I die I want to take Goose and Desd to Paris
go with Desd and goose to CA so they can meet the extended family visit my mothers grave in WA |
Before I die, I want to KNOW that I have mattered in this life. I "kinda know" it, but that always seems to be a long way from that in-the-heart-and-gut-KNOWING it. When I was 13 my mom died, and the number of cars in her funeral procession just blew me away. Somehow this woman who was just my mom MATTERED to a great deal of people.
Before I die I want to travel more. I want to take Denise up to Omaha and show her where I grew up, the streets I played in, the schools I attended, the stores I shopped in and the restaurants I ate in. I want to visit my mom & dad's grave again. And then I want to go see places around this country and this world that we haven't seen before, to experience them together. Before I die, I want to take down that "dream box" that sits up on my closet shelf, filled with all my "if only" dreams, and work to make them come true. "If only I had lots of money I would ________." One of my dreams was to write a book. I would also like to travel around the country in an RV, taking pictures of beautiful places and things, and sell the pics to a travel magazine. LOL Or else use the pictures in a calendar! |
Walk again without crutches or help...Go hiking in the mountains again...
Buy a house in the woods like where I grew up and live there... Earn my doctorate degree and be working in the field I love... Forgive myself for regrets and live free from guilt... Learn that I shouldn't have to prove my worth... Quit being so damn hard on myself!! |
Before I die...
I want to see my son grow into the man he will become. I want to get an RV and drive cross-country. I want to stay at the Four Seasons in Bora Bora. I want to travel through Europe and re-visit Australia and New Zealand. I want to find my home. |
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Katniss~~(born a stray and on perpetual run from the dogcatcher...) :dog: |
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What a great idea for a thread, Dee!
Before I die, I want to be as happy as I can possibly be. |
befo' i die, i want a long lesson in love... years worth.
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F*** Y** I am NEVER going to die. I am an ever-changing immortal spirit of desire created by Almighty God to Evolve Higher.
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