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jools66 12-27-2015 04:38 AM

NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals
 
So new year is approaching.
what are your wishes and your goals?
wishing you all a happy 2016.

TruTexan 12-27-2015 10:04 AM

I just want to be able to live a peaceful life where I am and be happy. I guess that would be my goal for the new year, to continue this.
I wish for all my friends and family to be in good health this year!


A very Happy New Year to Everyone on The Planet and be safe out there!!

Cin 12-27-2015 11:36 AM

“Worldwide, more than eight-in-ten people identify with a religious group,” says a comprehensive demographic study of more than 230 countries and territories conducted by the Pew Research Center’s Forum on Religion & Public Life.
If this is true and so many people believe in god and religion, how can we be so mean to each other? So many religious people in the world, so little love.

My wish is that all the people in the world who believe in a god (which is something like 80-85% of the population), would find a loving god to devote their lives to. A god who values the existence of every human life in this world and not just one's soul in the after life. I wish for a religion that teaches it's members to value life and to live every day filled with love and wonder. I wish for a religion that does not teach people that what matters begins after death. I wish for a religion that teaches people that there is no L in God, gold is not god, humans need to stop worshiping money and start sharing and caring for each other. I wish for a religion that teaches us that the greatest sin is to pass judgement on other human beings. Since a belief in a god is such a persistent meme my wish is that all people learn to channel that need to believe in one into something good and meaningful. I wish we could learn through god how to love one another.

My goal is to learn to accept things more. To laugh louder. To love harder.

Happy New Year
everyone!

Kätzchen 12-27-2015 02:46 PM

Something I am working on, daily, which will probably be something I do for me until the end of time, is staying focused on doing things for myself that adds to the quality of life I experience on a daily basis: finding a place of serenity, creating opportunities to grow and flourish, taking time for me each day to incorporate a sense of accomplishment for meeting my own needs in positive ways, to continue my own sense of wonder, to do things that will deepen my inner level of confidence, to nurture myself in loving, caring ways.

:hk24:

Shystonefem 12-27-2015 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Tick (Post 1034964)
“Worldwide, more than eight-in-ten people identify with a religious group,” says a comprehensive demographic study of more than 230 countries and territories conducted by the Pew Research Center’s Forum on Religion & Public Life.
If this is true and so many people believe in god and religion, how can we be so mean to each other? So many religious people in the world, so little love.

My wish is that all the people in the world who believe in a god (which is something like 80-85% of the population), would find a loving god to devote their lives to. A god who values the existence of every human life in this world and not just one's soul in the after life. I wish for a religion that teaches it's members to value life and to live every day filled with love and wonder. I wish for a religion that does not teach people that what matters begins after death. I wish for a religion that teaches people that there is no L in God, gold is not god, humans need to stop worshiping money and start sharing and caring for each other. I wish for a religion that teaches us that the greatest sin is to pass judgement on other human beings. Since a belief in a god is such a persistent meme my wish is that all people learn to channel that need to believe in one into something good and meaningful. I wish we could learn through god how to love one another.

My goal is to learn to accept things more. To laugh louder. To love harder.

Happy New Year
everyone!

I think the answer lies in the reality. Just because someone identifies with a religious group, does not mean that they love God, as you say it.

Pagans also identify with a religion but they serve many deities.

Satanist don't love God.

I think that when people consider themselves affiliated with a religion, it is not always Christianity, Jewish, Catholicism, etc....

For years people have killed in the name of religion. Combine this with the intolerance in this country and you have a perfect recipe for disaster. There is pverty, which brings desperation. There is mental illness. So many things cause people to hate, hurt and kill others. It is not as simple as loving God.

Cin 12-27-2015 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Shystonefem (Post 1035015)
I think the answer lies in the reality. Just because someone identifies with a religious group, does not mean that they love God, as you say it.

Pagans also identify with a religion but they serve many deities.

Satanist don't love God.

I think that when people consider themselves affiliated with a religion, it is not always Christianity, Jewish, Catholicism, etc....

For years people have killed in the name of religion. Combine this with the intolerance in this country and you have a perfect recipe for disaster. There is pverty, which brings desperation. There is mental illness. So many things cause people to hate, hurt and kill others. It is not as simple as loving God.

I didn't say people had trouble loving a god. I said people have trouble loving other people. Loving a god, worshipping a god is not a problem, apparently 8 out of 10 people worldwide do it. Connecting that love to the oneness that is humanity is the problem. Loving god and treating other human beings in cruel and hateful ways does not cause any cognitive dissonance in people.

Anyways it's just my new year's wish, it doesn't mean anything to anyone but me. Just make a different wish.

Shystonefem 12-27-2015 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Tick (Post 1035023)
I didn't say people had trouble loving a god. I said people have trouble loving other people. Loving a god, worshipping a god is not a problem, apparently 8 out of 10 people worldwide do it. Connecting that love to the oneness that is humanity is the problem. Loving god and treating other human beings in cruel and hateful ways does not cause any cognitive dissonance in people.

Anyways it's just my new year's wish, it doesn't mean anything to anyone but me. Just make a different wish.



I hope your New Years wish comes true

Tuff Stuff 12-27-2015 05:31 PM

Mo Money Mo Problems
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by jools66 (Post 1034925)
So new year is approaching.
what are your wishes and your goals?
wishing you all a happy 2016.

My wishes are to stay healthy,be happy,make mo money :)
..well,you got to make this life interesting.

Goals...????...make more money?..yeah

Orema 12-29-2015 07:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jools66 (Post 1034925)
So new year is approaching.
what are your wishes and your goals?
wishing you all a happy 2016.

Thanks, jools66, and the same to you.

To drive to Los Angeles from San Diego. I wanted to drive to Sedona, AZ, but other things came up in my therapy so I'm adjusting that goal. I still may make it to Sedona after I make it to Los Angeles.

To master an online platform I'm using at work to build online courses. I've made progress this year, but I"m not an expert at it. I really need to up my game on this.

Decide if I want a cat or another dog. I love both cats and dogs, have owned both, now I just need to decide which to get next.

To continue losing weight. I lost weight the first 6 months of this year, but have been on hold since then. Need to stop maintaining and get back with the program. Maybe even get a trainer.

Finish a design project I've been creating some really cool door hangers that I'm going to finally finish this year. It's a fun project I'm allowed to do at work, but I just didn't have the time to complete it this year. Looking forward to picking it up again.

To work hard and be nice.

That's if for now. Thanks for asking, jools66.

deathbypoem 12-29-2015 09:02 AM

Wishing everyone a super awesome and super safe 2016!
May all your dreams and aspirations come true.

As for myself, there are a few things I want/need to accomplish.
They aren't just set for the new year but I figure why not attempt
to get these things completed.

Shave some time off of my bachelors degree
by going to school during the summer.

The Cure concert May 2016!
I about fell over when I found this out!

Finish and publish my 2nd book.

Learn how to cook greek/middle eastern foods.

Learn how to properly make Turkish coffee HAHA

To enjoy life more, and not feel guilty about
having lazy days when I want to do absolutely nothing :P


These are only a few things. I have a laundry list!

Shystonefem 12-29-2015 06:30 PM

My New Years wishes and goals....

I wish my family has every one of their wishes come true

I wish that everyone of us has the best year yet.

I wish that Trump fails in his bid for the Presidency

My goals....

To finally get my motorcycle license and a motorcycle

To buy that land that I have been eying forever

To find the perfect boat and camper for those weekends away

To finally get back on track since I feel really good about me again

To enjoy a vacation with the kids and their families

To regain my health that I have ignored for a while now and, possibly, gain some weight in the appropriate places.

To pay off all the debt that accumulated due to the divorce.

Things I will do.....

I will make a point to do something nice for someone every chance I get

Get back into my business, with my own clients (lol... get your mind out of the gutter)

I will not miss a Pagan celebration - no excuses

I will re-connect with friends that I fell out of touch with before, during and after the divorce.

I will live a bit more, love a lot more and be the best person I can be.

jools66 12-31-2015 09:47 AM

i wish all the people i love (and have loved) all the happiness that i know life can bring.

i wish that the goodness people have in their hearts will still shine brightly in the world instead of evil and misguided judgments.

my goal is that i can help people as much as i can, no matter how big or small the requirement.

to go even further to understanding people and by doing this hopefully become a better version of my already self.
Life is for learning.

there are many other wishes and goals i have, these are just a few.

Bèsame* 12-31-2015 10:10 AM

As I look back on last year, I realize that life is and can be very unpredictable . We find love and we loose love. Family and friends can leave us at anytime. Life is precious. How we spend our days, will be my wish to you all. Make every day count. Find the good, the smile, the giggle.
One day at a time is what I can control. So for 2016, I will continue to be the Pollyanna, that my Mother reminds me of!


Rockinonahigh 12-31-2015 11:58 AM

One thing I need to do is work on my health, having had to deal with my goofy knee and back issues have made it hard to be a s fit a s I should be I need to stop using this as a reason not to make a better effort to be in better health and more fit. It would be nice to make a bit more cash on hand but if its mint to be it will happen...or not. I will keep the world around me as peaceful and stress free as possible. I will pray for world peace then hope it happends.

easygoingfemme 12-31-2015 12:10 PM

Increase the amount of time I spend doing things that bring me joy and decrease the amount of time I spend doing things that suck joy from me.

Let go of things not serving me.

Help my kid get through her last year of high school and focus on what she wants next- even though this blows my mind.

Work out some work kinks for a successful year ahead.

Gráinne 12-31-2015 12:10 PM

I wish all of BFP a very Happy New Year!

As for me:

Of course, attend to my health and keep losing weight
Go back to Canada for more research
Organize my home office
In fact, organize my home better
Take the steps to advance my career (community college vs. high school)
Finish my book
Pay more mind to my spirituality (to begin with: a retreat in January)

Chad 01-01-2016 02:58 PM

Wishes and Goals
 
2016

I would like to spend more time with family and friends.
I would like to find balance between work and fun.

For myself I wish for good health, lots of laughter, love, and happieness.
:fishing:

princessbelle 01-01-2016 06:35 PM

My goals are simple:

Surround myself with positive people and positive energy. To cherish each day and never let a day go by without laughter. To just keep my happy spirit filled in my heart. To remember to believe in myself. And when it comes to people, to expect less and give more.

Jesse 01-01-2016 07:37 PM

My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Chad 12-30-2016 05:18 PM

New year
 
Bump bump bump

Bèsame* 12-30-2016 11:49 PM

In other words, I prefer the term, "Casual promises to myself that I'm under no legal obligation to fulfill "

So, my self made promise this year, to drink more water and wear more lipstick!


VintageFemme 12-30-2016 11:56 PM

I only have two goals/resolutions/plans for 2017...

  • To be brave.
  • To be obsessively grateful.

That is all.

kittygrrl 12-31-2016 12:53 AM

the only thing i've determined (I need) to work on so far is to have more vegan options in my everyday life..i will miss honey though :(

Orema 12-31-2016 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1035240)

To drive to Los Angeles from San Diego. I wanted to drive to Sedona, AZ, but other things came up in my therapy so I'm adjusting that goal. I still may make it to Sedona after I make it to Los Angeles.

I didin't make it to LA, but I did travel the same distance by going to PRIDE in Palms Springs. So, this goal is met.

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To master an online platform I'm using at work to build online courses. I've made progress this year, but I"m not an expert at it. I really need to up my game on this.
I met this goal and have aced this platform. In November I built 15 online courses in less than one month without assistance from anyone and with less than 5% errors. I had to work on Thanksgiving and was putting in some crazy ass hours, but I met my deadline.

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Decide if I want a cat or another dog. I love both cats and dogs, have owned both, now I just need to decide which to get next.
Yeah, I'm still pussyfootin' around on getting a pet.

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To continue losing weight. I lost weight the first 6 months of this year, but have been on hold since then. Need to stop maintaining and get back with the program. Maybe even get a trainer.
Yeah, not only did I not lose weight but I've gained some pounds.

Quote:

Finish a design project I've been creating some really cool door hangers that I'm going to finally finish this year. It's a fun project I'm allowed to do at work, but I just didn't have the time to complete it this year. Looking forward to picking it up again.
Yeah, this didn't happen. I didn't have any fun projects this year. So this is going on the 2017 goal list.

Quote:

To work hard and be nice.
I worked very hard and was pretty nice to most folk. :bow:

I might come back to this after I think about next year's goals.

easygoingfemme 12-31-2016 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1035744)
Increase the amount of time I spend doing things that bring me joy and decrease the amount of time I spend doing things that suck joy from me.

Let go of things not serving me.

Help my kid get through her last year of high school and focus on what she wants next- even though this blows my mind.

Work out some work kinks for a successful year ahead.

Totally forgot these were my statements last New Year! I am proud to say that I accomplished all of this! Although the whole letting go of things not serving me will be a lifelong challenge/lifestyle to maintain.

I killed it on goal one of spending more time on joy- had a lot of fun good times this year.

My kid finished school a year early and has been in community college and is sending in her applications for four year college.

I have a new job starting next week that meets my wants and needs on many levels.

Now to think up for the year ahead...

MysticOceansFL 12-31-2016 11:59 AM

I have a few things to list.
1. Get more physically fit.
2. Still eat healthy
3. Plan on meeting my gf & her family.
4. Get closer to my own family
5. More peace and unity

I'll list more later.......
Mystic~~

Shystonefem 12-31-2016 12:13 PM

The promises that everything new holds.

Being more humble.

Being more grateful.

Being more kind.

Taking that leap.

Fighting for the things I cannot accept.

Visiting my son in Colorado at least twice

Finally realizing that "this too shall pass"

This is the first year, in a long time, I can see promise!

WingsOnFire 12-31-2016 12:23 PM

I am looking forward to a fresh new year full of possibilities. I want to go on trips that I have not been able to go on. I want to get back out there and meet people. I am ready for love again.

Happy New Year's Eve to the site I have loved for so long.

BullDog 12-31-2016 01:40 PM

My wishes:

That we all somehow stay safe and survive Trump and the Republican horror show.

That everyone I love and care about has a happy and healthy year full of love, kindness and adventure. And me too!


Goals:

Get back to working on eating healthy and being fit. I totally fell off the wagon in 2016 and didn't lift weights a single time. Back to eating healthy, lifting weights and getting cardio on a regular basis.

Up my writing game - both paid and unpaid. I really want to get some fiction writing done this year, get higher level paid jobs and I also want to venture into doing some political writing, which I'm so grateful my girlfriend is encouraging me to do.

Expand my business - to make myself more financially secure to do the things I want to do and survive Trumpcopalypse.

Fight Trump and the Republicans with every fiber of my being - I am not sure what exactly but I will do something every chance I get.

Start playing my guitar again.

Travel and spend as much time as I can with my amazing girl. :heartbeat:

Jesse 12-31-2016 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesse (Post 1036023)
My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

I feel that I've done well with this and will continue to strive forward with this goal.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesse (Post 1036023)
Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

FAIL! Lol! I did not do so well with this goal in 2016. Mind you, I did not gain any weight, nor did I lose any. My gym visits were far and few in between. Too many start and stops for any success to happen. All I can do about it now is try again this year. I've already gotten a good 4 day start on laying off the unhealthy carbs and sticking to foods I know work best for me. What's important to me is that I am happy and okay with making mistakes, knowing that I will learn from them. :)

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Originally Posted by Jesse (Post 1036023)
I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Much has been accomplished with minimizing and downsizing. In fact, I have the last 3 boxes of clothes packed up and waiting for the Veterans donation place to call me on Monday to set a scheduled pick up. I have also done much work on moving forward in a positive manner.

For 2017 I hope that we all practice kindness and acceptance for others; likewise that each of us find good health and joy.

For myself I will continue to strive for success in all of my endeavors, accepting fails as they come, learn from them, and then try again. My big goal this year has to do with Fear and not letting it win, at any point, in my life.

I wish each and everyone of you a healthy, joyful and prosperous new year!

firegal 12-31-2016 09:02 PM

Wishin i was with a special someone a distance away! Senting a big SMOOCH at midnite via airmail!

JDeere 12-31-2016 09:43 PM

My new years resolution is to become more independent and keep losing weight.

Chad 01-01-2017 11:08 AM

New Year wishes and goals
 
Happy 2017!

Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete.

Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list.

My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun.

Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal.

Work hard and play hard in 2017.

Chad :cowboy:

JDeere 01-03-2017 04:55 PM

For people to be less ignorant
To have less hate
to think before they speak

Kätzchen 12-01-2017 06:35 PM

I don't know that I actually subscribe to doing this, but I might try to do a few of my own self improvements and home improvements too.

It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right?

2017 was an difficult year for me, but I'm grateful for the few GQQD things in life that's come my way.

Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way. :flowers:

homoe 12-01-2017 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Kätzchen (Post 1184192)
I don't know that I actually subscribe to doing this, but I might try to do a few of my own self improvements and home improvements too.

It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right?

2017 was an difficult year for me, but I'm grateful for the few GQQD things in life that's come my way.

Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way. :flowers:

I have found de-cluttering my space has worked wonders for me! It's definitely made my life more simpler, peaceful, and enjoyable!

cathexis 12-02-2017 12:39 AM

Want to be more successful at encouraging my friends to stop, think, then act.
I'd enjoy going to the Y more often to workout.
Want to achieve top surgery. If the surgeon that I have a December appointment with refuses surgery, I will find second opinions.

JDeere 12-02-2017 12:51 AM

For 2018

Get 2 surgeries done if approved

Tuff Stuff 12-02-2017 05:33 PM

Mama,I'm coming home..Ozzy fucking rocks!
 
I take life day by day..seriously.Happy just making it home.

Hoping you all get your wishes in 2018.😉

Chad 12-28-2017 02:22 PM

New Year
 
I don't make resolutions for New Years, however, I do try to work harder than I did the year before at being the best version of me possible.

I would like to work on balancing work and fun time.
I am also working to wean myself off artificial sweetener to something more natural.

For 2018 I plan to work hard and play hard.

:cowboy:


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