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It's ever so lonely..
Seems like I'm the only Troll round these parts.
So sad.. But at least I can come talk to myself. |
Im lonely too
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If I lived a little closer to you I would come comfort you. As it is, I can only give you a HUGE hug! :gimmehug:
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aww thanks. :cheer:
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helllllloooooooo...........
from michigan.... n e body else..... |
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For all the lonely people...myself included.
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxyJLxV0_-8"]YouTube- The Beatles - Eleanor Rigby[/ame] |
Being single can be lonely at times. I try to surround myself with my friends however most my friends are coupled. :(
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So hmm should we play a game of Truth or Dare? lol
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I would love to surround myself with my friends but I moved to my current location to be with someone who is now my ex. Most of the "friends" I had made were her friends so.... I'm sure you know how that turned out. Then there are friends that I have had for many, many years. These friends are scattered all over the US so I have to pick who I visit each year. I think you are lucky to have your friends, coupled or not, close by. Right now, I wouldn't mind being a fifth wheel. lol The worse times are when you feel lonely while you are in a room full people. |
maybe build a snow woman?
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This is an awesome site..I hope that you connect with others on here and make many friends. Friends are always there no matter what..It may not be physically..Technology is a wonderful thing..there is no reason to feel alone.. When life comes crashing down and you think there's no hope,look to your friends to bring you out from the darkness and into the light. |
The friends I've made here have wiped my tears, patted me on the head and listened to fears. They've come to my rescue emotionally and have not betrayed me. I have friends in real time and have a good time with them. But I'm still amazed at the online connections and their compassion and friendship. Even when we don't agree on a subject or might step on each others toes.
But yes sitting here home alone in a house that wasn't suppose to be empty by now, can be very lonely. I wish each of us who desire to find what or who we are looking for be they friend, partner or just a listener whatever ya need I pray we each find it. I know I've found much of that in my friends here. Thanks yall! |
ya want to talk about lonely ??
here i am ..... alone....... all the time(w) in this dam truck..... roaming the roads.... i can talk to friends on the phone.. (via blue tooth ) .. and on line whem im parked.... but .... i am very lonely out here..... specialy when it comes to seeing things.. eating breakfast, dinner.. watching a movie.... i love my cuddle blanket....and i could have a dog.. but it does not replace the feel and warmth of another human touch and beating heart next to mine. I am allowed to take passangers and have had some interested on a lil road trip..... but they chicken out due to the fact of they cant be gone long , expecting just a weekend trip...... and i just laff . cuz trucking is not a weekend trip. anyways. just thoughts id throw in my :2cents: |
M'Star, I feel for you darlin'. I hope there will be a change in your worklife real soon, and you can get back to a 'normal' life where you can enjoy life, family and friends again. Be safe on those roads!
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What areas do you travel to ? Do you come to Canada?...If so where ? Noooo....trucking is not a weekend trip...lol |
The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away.
Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them? I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!! |
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When everything fell apart, believe me I was on the phone with my friends all the time, (just ask Verizon) and they all gave me what I needed, love and support. I have made new friends in the city and here. I am impressed at the level of support so many of you give, not just to me, but to each other on a daily basis. It is amazing what a kind word can do, even from someone you have never met. It has the power to make someones day better than it was before. There are times when I feel sorry for myself and wonder why, but over the years I have learned that it is part of life to feel lonely at times and that it is OK. For me, it has allowed me to value the closeness and warmth of a friend or partner that much more! I enjoy the time we spend together and look forward to the next. |
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To be alone I think is a test to ourselves...
If we can't be by ourselves how the hell will we be able to be with someone else! Those times we are alone are the times we need to reflect and think about ourselves how things in our lives have changed. I always seem to find the reasons as to why I wasn't meant to be with that person! Then I also figure out what it is I did wrong and the things I need to change to get ready for my life partner. |
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We spent almost two years doing the long distance thing. The first of the many red flags didn't go up until we were packing up the cars the day before I moved. For anyone thinking about moving for another, read and reread Strappie's post. Now, go back and read it again. lol |
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I have a friend that is here in the states and dating someone from another country. My friends gf would never be able to move her with Visa's and all it's a nightmare anyways. I'm trying to talk to her basically without say WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING! lol but oh well she and her gf will figure it out. The other country is not Canada if it was I wouldn't be pushing so hard it a little easier there than were the gf if at. |
The one thing I can say is that when you do meet someone online and talk to them on the phone to me you get to know them a bit better (if you are asking the right questions) than if you were dating in person.
Like for instance you go out on a date with someone and you go to dinner. Are you really going to be asking the "deep dark" questions about hwo they feel about things or are you going to answer their questions as easily as you would without looking them directly in the eye. Sure you can get more of a feel for the person with them right there in front of you and see their expressions and so on. But are we really getting to know them with all the distractions going on around us? We have or tend to be more in tune to them on the phone and ask more in depth questions. I do like talking to ppl on the phone to get to know them I'm able to ask more questions "sooner" than maybe the 5 or 10th date. So to me talking on the phone for an hour is like 3 - 5 dates. With all that said... Dating online to me isn't that scary what is scary to me is when it's time to do something about it. You all know what my answer is there..... Living separate for the first 6 - 12 months! |
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No matter how we go about it, sooner or later you do see people for who they are, good or bad. And yes, the scariest part is when you have to do something about it. Do you take that chance and risk it all or do you play it safe and wonder what if? If I had to do it all over again, I do not know what my answer to that question would be. Oh.....That must be one hell of a phone call if it is worth 3-5 dates!:eyebat: |
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even when meeting someone in person....... as i had this experience recently . meeting someone out here and NOT on line.... well we just did the dating thing.. since well..... we met last july didnt even date until sept.. i think... and ended it into just friends only.. early this month.. and it was for the best..... for both of us.. heh. i agree with a lot of what strappy posted here....... i like the .. IN person dating thing for a wwhile.. its the best way I feel you can get to know someone. |
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I tend not to be afraid of asking questions. Might as well ask them rather than wonder what their answers will be. You outta see my 3rd date!! lol |
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i live in Buffalo NY..... i kinda miss doing the canada tours cuz it got me home more. when i did come to canada..... it was mostly the Ontario regions |
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Hell, if one call is worth 3-5, I wanna know about your second call!!!:cheesy: Wow, how off topic am I? lol |
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Are you a Yooper or a Troll? |
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oh yeah.....duh........right. you so funny pffft......whatever |
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???? whats that??? |
A Yooper is someone from the Upper Peninsula. A Troll is someone who lives below the Mackinac Bridge.
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Glad you asked M'Star, I was about to as well...
See, now I always thought a 'Troll' was one of those critters in Lord of the Rings...learn something new every day, lol Quote:
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I'm glad I'm not living there.. I wouldn't want to be either.. lol |
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aaHHhhh :bicycle:.. wondering where the mackinac bridge is ... hmm i travel to MI a lot.... and i been to that upper peninsula.. during the winter.. and got stuck there over night in a blizzard..... wheww .. was glad to get out of there the next day. |
I guess that makes me a troll.....
look out you billy goats gruff |
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