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How did you find JOY today?
There are so many things to be grateful for in life. Each day is a reminder that no matter how dark the night, the sun will always rise again in the morning. It’s essential to appreciate the simple joys of life because they are what makes life worth living.
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Today my joy was dropping a card at the Police Department for the Officer that answered my 911 call the night my Mom died. I am so ever grateful for the care and concern he showed that night. Makes me really realize the Officers are more than just keeping the peace.
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Letting this special needs youngman in a wheelchair know that he mattered......I got a fist bump and a smile. Random kindness is a very rewarding thing.....
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Sorry to hear about your mother....big hugs.....
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I was able to place a homeless female Veteran into permanent supportive housing. That was a long time coming for her.
I was able to find laughter with co-workers after a long hot hard week. I visited my father in his nursing home and he said some things that showed me that he still remembers some important things about our family. He's such a mystery right now but sometimes is so grounded. |
My joy yesterday, her and I had a really great day! We both have been there for each other some serious stuff, so yesterday was a great stress reliever.
A visit to a Mexican grocery store. The other day she surprised me when she told me she made homemade tortillas. I'm like, you did??!! So we are planning a dinner now! Then we went shopping to fill bags for the food pantry collection on Sunday. Stopped for lunch. Hmmm, Mexican food. Is there a theme here? Lol We shared a wet burrito. With afternoon Sangria. We thought we were going to go home and take a nap, but we keep on rolling. Off to bowl. What a blast!! 5 games with cocktails. Wait, still not over..we stopped for sushi. The entire day was pure JOY, for me and her! |
not today...but in another life...
sharing a laugh, call out my name |
Nectarines for a snack
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My joy today...celebrating my Mom with a lengua taco.
I picked up my Mom from the funeral home. I hope thats the last time I have to go there. It's extremely difficult. ....And there was a viewing going on. (boo hoo) Anyway, our fav taco place was across the street. I remember I brought her home a lengua (beef tongue) taco. She was so happy. Our conversion went to how she would make herself tongue when I was little and still living at home. I thought is was sooo gross! I said, maybe I should try it again, now that my tastes have grown up. Ok, I was willing, lol. It actually wasn't bad. I don't think I would go out of my way to order one. Well, until today. For you Mom, I raise a taco in your honor! That's my joy today. I miss her so💝 |
Two things brought me big joy today.
One, I got a package of crafty goodies from friends that was delightful and so fun. Two, I had an especially wonderful phone interview and have a good feeling about this one. I hope so. *fingers crossed* |
My mom and I are enjoying watching the Olympics in the evening. Last night we practiced looking like the swimmers by slapping our arms and chest before doing anything :superfunny: But seriously. The athletes just are astounding. You think about all of the work and commitment behind those moments and ... can't imagine.
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My JOY, from yesterday...
Receiving such heart felt cards from my crafter femme ( and mister Clay) sisters. Reading each one I felt a hug, for sure. I can really feel the love. Slowly my tears are turning to little smiles. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. |
My joy ..
Watching this more than once! I am just like this when I get the garden hose out...giggling |
My joy today
and every day is spending quality time with my wife and our two rescue pups. My wish for everyone is to have someone not just to live with, but whom you can't live without.
I just reread this post, it's damn sappy! Who cares? lol |
Yesterday...JOY was found getting to have lunch with my Lunch buddy. Oh to see her taller and a wee bit more mature. I brought her a few things from Disney Paris. I just love the joy on her face. We talked about the summer. Next week I'm bringing a dragon fruit. We haven't seen the inside. Lol
And today, this morning. .. I found my Mom's Black Hills Gold and Jade Ring. I'm wearing it now. She wore it for years. She was born in North Dakota. My Granny, my Mom and I have always worn Black Hills Gold. 3 generations on my hand. What a joyful treasure. |
Well, now I've found JOY, and perhaps some joyful tears. I've been in my Mom's room getting it ready for my friend who will be here Monday. I'm planning to move one of her dressers into my room. I haven't had a dresser in years. I've been carting around plastic drawers I hide in the closet.
Anyways, in side this dresser is lots ( I counted at least 15 ) handknitted sweaters. My Mom was a master knitter. ( I won't mention all the totes full of yarn that are here). Well, I tried over half of them on. Feeling all the love in each stitch. Ok, and I hugged the sleeping mask she was wearing when I found her. And that's when the joyful tears came. I suppose I'll have these moments. It's been 7 weeks, I miss you 💝💝💝 |
Very JOYFUL, my best butch from Texas (An ex actually ) came to vist and we met up with Boss Butch yesterday. We went bowling and laughed our asses off. We showed them the older gals can still have a great time!.
Then took a unexplainable trip to the Hard Rock casino. On my gosh, a good time was had. We all stayed up late and some of us lost money and one of us won money. Lol Best time in a long time. Quite the Joyful night. Today, we are all back together. My Honey do list is getting done. I love my friends!! |
I've lately begun a "joy journal", with things that might be really small but gave me a little "ooo!" in a tough time. My mind just has to take a break from situations. So I think this thread might become a favorite haunt!
At work I take a slip of paper or a card and whenever something joyful happens, no matter how small or maybe meaningless to anyone else, I write it down. I'm shocked when I read my card over and find I can clearly remember bullshit and aggravation but forget the joys I wrote down just hours before! Today, for instance, I filled up the hand sanitizer bottles on the registers. They are a kind of cobalt blue. Since it was 7:30 AM, the sun was just coming up through the windows and turned the sanitizer to little glistening drops of blue. It struck me as beautiful, so onto the card it went! |
Watching the Democratic Convention gave me joy - and hope - from beginning to end.
Smooches Keri |
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Before i moved to Florida, I lived in cold country (Michigan and Ohio) except for two short sojourns in California, where I fell in love with Palm Trees. From that point on I dreamt of, longed for, strongly desired , a palm tree lined driveway. I tried a couple time to plant palm trees here, but for one reason or another they didn't take.
I decided to go a little bigger. I bought 6 queen palms which were about 5 feet tall, and planted them all right away, along the west side of my driveway. I had the idea they would grow better in pairs so I planted three pairs. Four lasted for years and grew so much quicker than I thought they would They are about 30 feet tall now. Three are left. I have the almost daily joy of watching the sun go down behind them. People say Montana has the most beautiful sundowns in the Country, But I can't imagine anything more beautiful that these Florida sundowns which literally light up the whole sky. Joy. Joy. Joy! Smooches, Keri |
Rowing team tonight. I rowed in a 4 person boat tonight for the first time. It's much more tippy than the 8 I usually row in. We held it down and did well. Next week is the last week of rowing with this team for 2024. I sure am going to miss it until we hit the water as soon as we can in the spring.
Also I was in an older wooden boat tonight that I'm positive my late brother rowed in when he was on the team. I felt him strongly there. There was a beautiful sunset when we docked. I had enough time to catch a picture after we put the boat and oars away. |
Huge JOY today.
I had lunch with my Lunch buddy. I brought a fresh dragon fruit so we could try it. Well we both that it was better in a Starbucks pink drink! Lol Best part, the volunteer coordinator told me she was going to nominate me as volunteer of the year! I wanted to cry, it made my heart so happy. I truly believe my calling is making little people smile and feel important. All I wanted to do was tell my Mom. I can hear her say, but of course you are a great volunteer. You have such a positive attitude. I miss her. .... especially today. |
Yesterday I climbed Mt. Moxham. My first time on that one. Wow was it spectacular. The weather was perfect. 70 degrees and breezy. There were 4 summit points. When I saw the very top one from the second to last I got a little nervous but the path to it was strong and steady and lead from the inside of the mountain to the outside. The views were worth every step x 10 and I got to pet some really sweet big dogs on the way up and down.
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I'm going out to dinner with my son and granddaughter tonight I haven't seen her in a couple months, so the anticipation is joyous indeed.
Smooches, Keri |
Tonight was the last night of the season for the crew team I'm on. That ending does not bring me joy, because it's a long time until spring when we can get on the water again. However, coach put together an all woman quad to row and put us through some great drills together. We made a powerful team and it made for a sweet closing night.
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Joy....
Keep on living your life. You can sit around and worry or you can go bowling. And I did! Best butch and I can always find spontaneous fun and joy! And.....I got two strikes. In a row! Then we went to happy hour at our fav sports grill. Monday night football and buy one get one chicken wings! Good times. |
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looking at all the pumpkins at my neighborhood grocery..so beautiful ..my heart squeaked with joy~ |
Watching a video of my nephew scoring his first touchdown. I was unable to go today. He also made a good tackle. As good as it could be in flag football. He's just a little guy, no pads or helmet yet
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Petting every dog I saw on my hike. Bonus Pit bulls. My favorite.
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My joy...
This joy is going to fill my heart for days, even weeks. My Mom had been knitting a sweater for the last year. She would pick it up and do a few rows. She spent a lot of time reading, watching Netflix and playing solitaire on line. She kept her mind busy that's for sure. So this sweater never got finished. I never picked up the knitting skills. So ... My niece is expecting and I'm unraveling all those stitches. I'm going to repurpose this into a baby blanket. I will feel all the love in those knitted stitches thru my fingers as I crochet a new baby blanket. Oh the joy in my heart!🩵🩵🩵 (It's a boy!) |
1. Watched a "Captain America" movie with a friend after work, just flopped in my living room. We didn't have to say anything or talk about my day. It was so pleasant, even if the movie was kind of silly.
2. Re-found an old favorite song after many years: David Cicero w/Sylvia, "Live for Today" Gospel rendition from "The Crying Game". I've forgotten how to make a link. 3. The "oof" feeling of cold Ponds cream first thing in the morning and last thing at night. I love how it wakes up all the pores, or leaves me tingling when I go to bed. |
Joy this morning...
I was looking out the sliding glass doors just as the daylight came. I saw the brightest red bird sitting on a broken tree limb. That was my Mom sending her love. |
Big JOY today...
I took my Mom's rolling walker with a seat to one of my neighbors who is in rehab right now. It's the exact rehab my Mom was in. I remember walking those halls everyday she was in there. I walked thru the screened in patio, and remembered we would go there and I would paint her nails and eat lunch. Bittersweet. |
Joy today..
Gas is scarce these past few days. Power out at the ports. I received enough gas from my employer for another 100 miles, for free. Having my bestie butch come over for dinner. I kidnapped her dog, my step child all afternoon. |
Joy today...
It's my Mom's birthday. I thought about the past few birthdays I got to share with her while she was here in Florida. Best butch took me out to dinner and drinks and then we shared a dessert in her honor. She really treats me well. Happy Birthday Mom |
Find JOY today?
My wonderful brother came to visit and we went out to dinner and did a little shopping. It was so nice to see him after what seems like forever. We talked a lot about how things are and should have been. Lots of family memories, mom, dad, our sister, our dear cousin. It brought back some wonderful memories. I found lots of joy.
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Stone-Butch, that sounds like a really nice visit. I know you were looking forward to it.
I found joy applying for a facility dog for work. If we make it through the process we will have a fully trained facility dog at work (domestic violence and homeless services facility) to help clients through testifying at court, entering emergency shelter, filing papers with police, and day to day comfort for people experiencing and living with trauma. And the dog will come live with me and come to work with me every day. (but be trained to have other handlers at work to work off-site) Fingers crossed! |
/Joy in the and jewelry boxes!
I went thru my Mom's costume jewelry and found some things I'm going to share with my California bestie. I'll be visiting there soon. Oh the memories that I remember! |
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