What every Femme should know...
Someone out there was meant to be the love of your life... your best friend; your soul mate.
He'll brush the hair out of your eyes, and send you flowers when you least expect it. He'll stare at you during the movies, even though he paid $30 to see it. He'll call you to tell you goodnight, or just because he is missing you. He will call you right back when you hang up on him. He'll lay with you under the stars listening to your heartbeat... or stay awake all night just to watch you sleep. He'll kiss your forehead for no reason, and hold your hand in front of your Dad. He'll say you are just as beautiful without makeup on, and show you off to the world when you're in sweats. He will constantly remind you how lucky he is to have you. He'll look in your eyes and tell you that you are the most beautiful woman in the world, and for the first time in your life... you'll believe it. You will know when you find him --- He will be the one who turns to his friends, and says... "Thats her..." |
He'll sing to you even when he can't sing... just to make you laugh.
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Hey fellas, keep in mind not every femme NEEDS or WANTS this and that doesn't make her less than femme.
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So what happens to us Femme's who aren't validated by that him?
Are we less beautiful and valuable? |
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As a Femme I think what every Femme should know is:
You're beautiful, valued and sacred be they coupled or single... We should know that when we step out into the streets we are forces to be reckoned with, we're capable, independent, proud. We're sex, candy, strength, love, sisters, lovers, leather, pink boas,friends we're phenomenal women. |
Let's also keep in mind that not all coupled femmes have a "him" or "hym".
Many of us have a "her" or a gender-free, just plain "butch"! |
What every femme should know...
You don't have to be a simpering idiot to meet and keep a good butch, and s/he's half-way decent s/he'll have some appropriate boundaries and won't be calling your ass back when you hang up on her--You'll then know you've found the one because s/he's got a backbone that keeps him/her strong during trips to the ER and Thanksgiving with your fucked-up family (where she might hold your hand, but most likely is too busy carving the turkey) and you'll be able to actually lean on her once in a while but guess what--She's going to require you to have some personal accountability and won't be staring at you slack-jawed during any of it.
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It might be a good idea to let her cool off before calling or back or you might get hung up on again.
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hang up on me _ I wont be calling you back.
starring _ mom taught me that's creepy and I have to agree. If I wanted smooshy time we would not be at the movies. I wont hold your hand in front of Dad , probably ever.(depending on Dad) I will tell you , that you are beautiful but not the most beautiful in the world. As my best friend?, you will appreciate this because the truth is important to you. :twitch: |
Well lucky me, I never have to pay $30 for us to go to the movies because my femme is constantly getting free movie vouchers from her employer because she is a kick ass nurse.
My femme took me out for lunch just yesterday. Yes I do take her out as well and I am a She. p.s. she has never hung up on me |
What every Femme should know:
Measure twice cut once. This goes for countertops, neat fabric for throw pillows, and the jeans you need to hem. How to parallel park. Because driving in circles for 30 minutes looking for a spot you can just pull in to is boring and bad for the environment. How to brew tea the correct way. Just because it irritates me when you do it wrong. How to hang up blinds, wall art, and the telephone. When to call it quits and when to keep on trucking. How to sneak microwave popcorn and bottled water into a movie matinee because that shit should NEVER cost $30. And finally that you are worth so much more than some dime-store creepy staring insomniac stalker who won't call you on your shit. |
What every Femme should know...
You do not need a butch to complete you. You do not need an identifying butch (male or female) to validate that you are a Femme. You can shave your head and still be Femme. Femme is not about what you wear, but who you are inside. You are beautiful and not because you are being told by someone... But because you believe it. The day I have to depend on a Butch to make me feel good about myself... Is the day I have lost who I am. I am beautiful, because I am Julie - Not because I am told by a butch. You do not need someone to pay for your dates. You are an independent woman. You can change your own oil and if you cannot, you can bring it to the service station. Dammit... I keep going back to the brushing the hair out of my eyes. Where is it? If my butch has to keep reminding me how lucky he/hy/she is to have me... I will eventually think they are trying to convince themselves. This whole thing (while it is sweet in theory) scares me. Not for me, but for the countless Femme's that believe their self worth comes from a being partnered with a Butch. Julie |
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Nothing is absolute or applies to everyone. The sentiment behind this was sweet. Thanks for sharing.
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Let us not forget.
Being Femme means you honor and respect your Femme Sisters. Being a Femme's Femme is more important than any Butch on this planet. |
Femme's should know
sit in your shiatsu massage chair reading food blogs and drinking cold brew
have a kitchen dance party make jam at midnight, when it’s finally cooled down outside spend the day napping and jerking off read a good book straight through try a new recipe flirt with the fed ex man/woman like you’re in a harlequin take a week off from facebook wash your sheets and line dry them listen to whatever you want, all day long watch gilmore girls for hours, because you can make your favorite dish. share it with yourself. try on the clothes that make you feel pretty. prance accordingly. wear your swim cover up as a nightgown indulge your organizing neuroses take a long shower make your hair do funny things write remember that many people enjoy your company. being with yourself is no punishment. |
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