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I don't think that's wrong. I know that Kirsten Vangsness is gay and for some reason struck me as femme but not sure why. (I don't believe she's in a B-F relationship however). I think the media is stuck on the idea that a femme is a non-existent being (being lesbian and being feminine is not allowed as far as the MSM is concerned -- unless it's pr0n.) |
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Now I realize we are all not like this... (Looking at Snowy :king:) ;) I am femme. Probably considered very femme, by appearances. It pisses me off that there is a stereotype attached to us, that we are all bottoms/subs, etc. I can be whatever the fuck I want. In the world we all make assumptions about people, everyday. I wish that in my OWN community this didn't happen... but I don't know if that is possible. |
I'd like to explore how Femme Top energy isn't always in a masculine or "Daddy" form.
But yes, Femme often equals "fuckee" in a lot of people's minds. Even when it does, I don't think it should equal "less than". |
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I've no clue if Portia is a Femme, or uses that gender identity, I believe though she has been dating women since 04 how long do we hold on to the straight chick label before we are ok'd to be gay, queer etc?
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From the Advocate interview: "Christine would probably kill me for saying this, but my daughter said one time that if you really had to break this down, [it looks like] she would be butch and I would be femme…but really once you get to know us it’s really the opposite.” Does this out them as a Butch-Femme couple? Or not? Curious. |
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I'm never recognized as queer unless I'm on the arm of a butch. It's kind of a drag for a single person. :lol2: Short of wearing a rainbow jumpsuit I'm not sure what to do about it. Quote:
She's married to a woman. I don't really know how either she or her wife identify but I think it's unkind to reduce a couple's relationship to a "publicity boost". |
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But do they see them as femmes or feminine lesbians?? |
Do we know Portia? How do we know she is straight? I mean, she had a pretty great career before Ellen being in Ally McBeal, and had a G/F even back then.
Isn't this what we are talking about? How unless we look Butch people think we are straight women? Taking Butches away from 'real" Lesbians. I had other things to say, but this stopped me in my tracks. UGH. |
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My experience has been that if you get to know me as a femme, person or in an intimate relationship, you are gonna know I am queer. My language, ideals, politics, religion, sex, I know for *me* once you start a conversation it sounds nothing like that of a straight woman. Make sense? |
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I cannot tell if you are being glib? Because I don't believe that at all. Are you sure you don't mean Anne Heche? Quote:
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No, I have no friends who know of her, know her, so no I don't know her enough to say if she is Femme, straight, or if she is out to trick the world with her wiley straight ways and pretend she is gay. I am clueless... I just figured she was married to Ellen, dated some singer in 04 who happened to be a woman, made her a lil on the gay side of the spectrum. I am wrong, I guess?:tiredcomputer: |
I'm not willing to denounce any Queer's membership to Queerdom, especially when they've come out in Hollywood. I wish MORE people in the entertainment industry would be out...I really do.
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