dating MTF femmes...
 

Hey skeeter - I say go for it!

If the two of you have a connection and you have fun, rock on! She's a woman and she's gorgeous, no reason not to at least give it a shot and see where it goes, right?

Good luck and report back on how things go!!!

Thanks so much for the encouragement!!
skeet

I agree with Laerkin, Skeeter. A woman who was born into a male body is still a woman and if you two have a connection, go for it!
Good for you for getting back out there and dating - Wish you the best! :bunchflowers:

I've never been in your shoes, but I think you should go for it. We don't all have the luxury of being born into the physical sex that fits our neurological sex. She is no less of a woman than a woman born into a female body. No reason why you shouldn't go for it if you like her.

thanks enderd! i appreciate the feedback brudda..!
skeet

Skeeter,

One of the best experiences I have had in terms of dating was when I had the pleasure and opportunity to get to know this amazing lady, she was pre-op at the time, and identified as mtf. She was a gorgeous woman, with a smile that could light up the room, and a laughter that was contagious. We always had a good time no matter where we went and what we did.

She was also the first woman, and person in my life, to accept me for who I am, and that opened the door to so many great opportunities and experiences for me. It has been years since we talked, but one of the last things she said to me, was when she thanked me, for always making her feel like a woman, in which I replied, well you are a woman.

What a person was born as, doesn't matter, it is who they are on the inside. If you have a connection with this woman, and you enjoy each others company, go for it, embrace it, don't let anything else stand in the way.

Thanks man! that's what i'm thinking too!
skeet

Ok maybe it's different for me cause i'm a trans also so i wasn't going to comment on this topic but i was curious about what responses it would get if any.

i really like you all and you made me smile so much, i guess i expected bad responses and i am so pleased there aren't any at all.

Be well friends

Sounds like you should give it a try!!! Good Luck!!!

Sounds to me everyone's of the same mind so far. I think you should at least meet her. Just take it slow, dude. Allow the questions that bubble up from the both of you have gentle voice. Slowly, tell your stories, if you continue interested after that first meeting. Don't feel pressured to "report" back here. As Corkey said, it ain't our business.

Wishing you only the best, man.

I agree with this. See if there is chemistry and build a friendship first. If the rest is meant to be it will happen.

Yeah, actually -please- consider not reporting back. It's been bothering me since I first saw this thread, the idea that this woman might be a member here or become a member here and how would she feel knowing that a whole thread was dedicated to her. I might just be hyper-sensitive about privacy and stuff - but I think if it were me I would feel a little icky.