Butch Femme Planet - Re-introducing myself...

hello again to all my old friends and friends to be! i am DamselFly, who used to be Pres, aka HoneyedChrysanthemum! when i changed my nick, everything crashed on the site for me. i had to re-register, hence my new nick: DamselFly, which is the name of the female Dragonfly. i've always liked it, so decided to use it now. Of course, at my age (50 in May), i should call myself "DameFly", LoL.
some details about me: i'm in process of deciding how to live the second half of my life and even where to live it. right now i've settled in OK w/ a friend of mine. i have access to better healthcare here and a better climate and less stress. right now i'm concentrating on my inner and outer health, though i'm (surprising to me) not adverse to developing a relationship , should a special butch decide i'm a special femme.
i'm interested in nature, exploring spiritual matters (i'm a Roshi -Zen Priest), dogs, reading/listening to audiobooks, many different kinds of music, tea-esp. single estate Wuyi Wulongs, meeting different people for friends. if anyone want to know more and be friends, just PM me and ask.
i am a queer stone femme. most of my relationships have been w/either stone or tg/ftm butches. i have an inner little grrl who longs for her Daddy. i am a caretaker and have been taking care of people all of my life. i would like to relax into a relationship where i am taken care of more than in the past. due to an extremely bad relationship w/a Predator Faux-Daddy/Master, i am gun-shy now and would want to take a relationship slowly and with care. i would not turn down a LDR.
this is but a small bit of who i am. it touches on many of the important parts.
namaste,
DamselFly