Femme FTM/Genderqueers/Girly-Bois
 

For the most part and most times I ID as varying versions of 'non-female'. Some times that comes with baggage of machoness and overcompansating to which I'm not equipped. Even the term 'transmasculine spectrum' has this built in, in opposition to 'transfeminine' which is usually used by MAAB Trans* people. no matter what we do we recreate binaries again and again.

Anyway. I'm sensitive, I'm camp, I occasionally enjoy crossdressing [read: dressing female] and genderfemmefucking (not that kind of fucking lol) now i've got my head in the right place. i can be wearing the exact same clothes as i used to and yet feel totally different and more in control about it, because its not been forced upon me. I gather this feeling of power and reclamation is similar to how some other femmes feel about it?

Blablah ramble I've not slept nearly 2 days this won't make sequential sense. Where are all my non-female femmes at? My FTMs who watch mean girls and Glee? My bois who prance on tiptoes to tune in their heads? Cry over Disney Films? Heck, cry over a lot of things.

I can't be the only one who's ever rocked a binder and a dress together, or had boxers peeking under a skirt. I know you're on tumblr are there any here?!

On a related note sometimes... :

http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l6...jgceo1_500.jpg


* not me, i nicked that image off genderfork's tumblr.

Is it strictly about clothing?

no! not at all! i talk about clothes a lot sometimes. sorry i prolly didn't make that clear. :sorry:

I'm gender fluid hence why I asked.

awesome. yeah like people who id as male or neutral of center, but feel and/or express that maleness in effeminate ways.

As the cisnormative less wordsoupy world would see it: the cliched camp gay man, metrosexual, or sensitive guy.

i am not going to make any sense tonight so i'm offskis to bed

Are we talking identity, fetish, or fluidity in gender?

identity.

about identity and expression for the most part. xo