Something like this just happened to me, although it wasn't a date or intended to lead to more than it was. It was more like "I'm coming into your city and have no idea where I'm going". My friend kindly offered to meet me at the airport and be the driver for the evening.
All went well. I was in a different country, and so much of the conversation (and laughter) had to do with our differences. Nothing too heavy, nothing depressing. Food was involved, and a stop for a map (for me). Then she dropped me at the hotel (which I found by recognizing the street name), and I collapsed in exhaustion.
I've had the date kind of meet-ups that you describe, and thought this was probably the best of them, even if not a date
. For me, it's about feeling safe and at ease with the other person whom you still don't know very well.