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LOQUI · 09-29-2015, 12:40 PM

- "I love you" - said the little Prince.
- "I want you too" - said the rose.
- "Is not the same" - he answered...

*To want, is to take possession of something, someone. It is to search in others those things that fills the personal expectations of affection, of company...
*Wanting is to do our what does not belong to us, is to take ownership or desire something to complete us, because at some point we recognize we are lacking.
*Wanting is expecting, is sticking to the things and people from our needs. Then, when we don't have reciprocity there is suffering. When the beloved "one" is not for us, we feel frustrated and disappointed. If I want someone, I have expectations, I hope something. If the other person does not give me what I expect, I suffer. The problem is that there is a greater chance that the other person has other motivations, because we are all very different. Every human being is a universe.

*To love is to wish the best for the other, even when it has very different motivations.
*Love is to allow you to be happy, even when your path is different from mine. It is a selfless feeling which is born in a donation, is giving ourself completely from the heart. For this reason, the love will never be a cause of suffering. When a person says that has suffered for love, has actually suffered for wanting, not for loving. One suffers from attachments. If you really love, you can not suffer, because nothing is expected from the other.
*When we love, we give ourselves without asking anything in return, just for the simple and pure pleasure of giving. But it is also true that this hand over, this giving, selfless, occurs only in the knowledge. We can only love what we know, because loving involves jumping into the void, trust the life and soul. And the soul is not compensated. And knowing is just to know yourself, your joys, your peace, but also of your anger, your struggles, your mistakes. Because love transcends the anger, fights, errors and is not just for moments of joy.
*To love is a full confidence that whatever happens you will be, not because you owe anything, not with selfish possession, but being, in silent company.
*To love is to know that the weather does not change you, nor the storms, nor my winters.
*To love is to give you a place in my heart for you to stay, as father, mother, brother, son, friend, and know that there is a place in yours for me.
*Giving love does not exhaust the love, on the contrary, it increases it. The way to give back so much love, is open our hearts and let yourself be loved.

- "I already understood" - rose said.
- "Don't understand it, live it"- said the little Prince.

09-29-2015, 12:40 PM	#17684
LOQUI Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Non Binary, Trans, Always Me. :) Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,139 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,335 Thanked 2,486 Times in 848 Posts Rep Power: 19030327	Long but worth to read...I think :) - "I love you" - said the little Prince. - "I want you too" - said the rose. - "Is not the same" - he answered... To want, is to take possession of something, someone. It is to search in others those things that fills the personal expectations of affection, of company... Wanting is to do our what does not belong to us, is to take ownership or desire something to complete us, because at some point we recognize we are lacking. Wanting is expecting, is sticking to the things and people from our needs. Then, when we don't have reciprocity there is suffering. When the beloved "one" is not for us, we feel frustrated and disappointed. If I want someone, I have expectations, I hope something. If the other person does not give me what I expect, I suffer. The problem is that there is a greater chance that the other person has other motivations, because we are all very different. Every human being is a universe. To love is to wish the best for the other, even when it has very different motivations. Love is to allow you to be happy, even when your path is different from mine. It is a selfless feeling which is born in a donation, is giving ourself completely from the heart. For this reason, the love will never be a cause of suffering. When a person says that has suffered for love, has actually suffered for wanting, not for loving. One suffers from attachments. If you really love, you can not suffer, because nothing is expected from the other. When we love, we give ourselves without asking anything in return, just for the simple and pure pleasure of giving. But it is also true that this hand over, this giving, selfless, occurs only in the knowledge. We can only love what we know, because loving involves jumping into the void, trust the life and soul. And the soul is not compensated. And knowing is just to know yourself, your joys, your peace, but also of your anger, your struggles, your mistakes. Because love transcends the anger, fights, errors and is not just for moments of joy. To love is a full confidence that whatever happens you will be, not because you owe anything, not with selfish possession, but being, in silent company. To love is to know that the weather does not change you, nor the storms, nor my winters. To love is to give you a place in my heart for you to stay, as father, mother, brother, son, friend, and know that there is a place in yours for me. Giving love does not exhaust the love, on the contrary, it increases it. The way to give back so much love, is open our hearts and let yourself be loved. - "I already understood" - rose said. - "Don't understand it, live it"- said the little Prince.