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Jesse · 11-29-2015, 10:54 AM

I am feeling really good actually. I ended my relationship in the first part of 2010 and have not celebrated Thanksgiving or Christmas since. This year, I decided to get over myself and cook Thanksgiving dinner for the first time since we parted ways.
I've always done the majority of the cooking and especially during the holidays when in a relationship, but I decided I was just as as worthy of my time and efforts as a partner would be, so I cooked just for me. And instead of feeling depressed over the holiday, I feel cared about. Strange how that works.

11-29-2015, 10:54 AM	#945
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,784 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I am feeling really good actually. I ended my relationship in the first part of 2010 and have not celebrated Thanksgiving or Christmas since. This year, I decided to get over myself and cook Thanksgiving dinner for the first time since we parted ways. I've always done the majority of the cooking and especially during the holidays when in a relationship, but I decided I was just as as worthy of my time and efforts as a partner would be, so I cooked just for me. And instead of feeling depressed over the holiday, I feel cared about. Strange how that works. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”